How to alleviate pride? How to overcome the psychology of pride?

In fact, you only need to recognize yourself and compare it, and you feel that you are actually like that, and you can understand it by comparing it with those people.

In interpersonal interactions, there are people who are self-respecting everywhere, "Lao Tzu is the best in the world," who are arrogant, despise others, and even belittle and ridicule others, and fail to listen to others' opinions. This kind of psychology is very harmful to communication, and it is difficult for these people to get along with others.

Proud people like to overestimate themselves, only care about their own needs, and emphasize their feelings. In their interactions, they usually show arrogance, boasting, and domineering, dancing and talking endlessly when they are happy, and losing their temper regardless of the occasion when they are unhappy, without the slightest consideration for the feelings of others, and unwilling to associate with people who they think are inferior to themselves. They are also prone to overestimating their intimacy with others, and sometimes they are too intimate with others, saying things that should not be said, which can cause others to resent them.

In addition, it is interesting to note that people who are proud of themselves tend to become inferior when they suffer setbacks.

The root of pride is a false self-evaluation. Of course, it is also closely related to the environment in which it was raised.

To overcome self-pride, we must first learn to respect others and be good at discovering their strong points, so as to be conducive to making an objective evaluation of ourselves. In addition, we must learn to be strict with ourselves and lenient with others.

Summary. Accepting criticism is the best way to be proud. The Achilles' heel of the proud person is his reluctance to change his attitude or accept the views of others, and accepting criticism is the method proposed for this characteristic.

Good. Accepting criticism is the best way to be proud. The Achilles' heel of the arrogant is that they are unwilling to change their attitude or accept the views of others, and accepting criticism is the method proposed by the squire to address this characteristic.

Listen to other people's thoughts, think more before you speak, and learn to be silent appropriately.

Uh-huh. Do you have any good suggestions?

You can set a higher goal.

Goals that cannot be achieved for the time being and require hard work to achieve.

And then go for it.

Okay thank you? Wouldn't that make you more proud?

No, if you're frustrated, it might ease your pride.

Summary. Being able to recognize your pride is the first step to overcoming it. You have discovered that pride leads to your failures.

Being able to recognize your pride is the first step to overcoming it. You have discovered that pride leads to your failures.

But when you haven't examined pride in depth, you don't study well enough and don't practice enough.

If you can fully regard the purpose of studying and competing as a process of improving yourself and winning your own guessing, then the victory or defeat of the competition and the exam will not skew your self-perception.