Love to ask for help! I like a girl who is 7 years older than herself.

Updated on society 2024-05-24
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The first time I felt strong pressure in my second year of junior high school.

    You will have a strong sense of insecurity and will be like a drowning person looking for support.

    Your teacher is confident in front of you, and all your questions are not a problem for her. So you feel safe and relaxed.

    When the pressure hits, when you want to escape, when you panic, you think of her. It's a germination. It is the first manifestation of the instinct of love.

    But your values are different. The worldview is also different. At best, you'll just become friends.

    A boy's first sexual maturity, such as a dream, is at your time.

    It's normal, remember. Your mind may be mature. But you and hers have different ideas.

    The things she talks about with her boyfriend, the pressure she touches are all in another world that doesn't belong to you.

    You can't touch it, at least until you're independent.

    So, just see clearly. And bluntly said to her, 'It's a stressful time now, but I feel much safer when I see you.'" ’

    You are free and easy, and you are the maturity that really walks into her step.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Profound... You're only in your second year of junior high school, and I wanted to say that you didn't study chemistry or something, but it seems that you really haven't studied it.

    Like a person is a chemical reaction produced by hormones.,Can this thing be controlled?。。。

    If you say you just don't express it, it's not impossible.

    In fact, the summer vacation will pass soon, as long as you can't see her, this relationship will naturally be hidden in your heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, your current liking is just a budding of youth, and it is her empathy that touches the softness of your heart, but in fact, it is just an ordinary like, not love!! Although there is only a thin line between liking and love, but now you will definitely not be love, you can look at her from a different angle, she is a good friend of yours, her empathy is for anyone, not just for you, and the most important thing is to correct your mentality!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe in a few years you will have a new understanding of this feeling, don't be impulsive

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dare to ask the landlord, do you care about the world's eyes or the pressure of parents? If it's the former, there's nothing to worry about. After all, it is not easy for two people to fall in love, not to mention that their happiness should depend on the faces of others?

    If it's the latter, you can only communicate well with your parents. Parents won't be so unreasonable, after all, it's the two of you who live on your own. Tell the parents how good she is, and let the parents rest assured of her, and it will be no problem.

    What parent doesn't think about their children? Actually, these are not called problems. But if your self-esteem can't accept it, then there is no way, which means that you have no way to accept this relationship, and then there is no need to maintain it.

    It is good to gather and disperse, so as not to mislead others and yourself. Well, whatever the reason, I hope you make the right choice. After all, others are not qualified to evaluate one's own lifelong happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's too much of an issue. The main thing is what is her attitude towards you? Are you financially well-off right now?

    To put it simply, can you afford marriage, children, and other practical issues. If none of this is a problem for you, then go after him. If you don't have this condition, the other woman's follow-up will only end up speechless.

    You can afford to spend time and earn money slowly, but women can't afford it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I were that woman, I wouldn't accept you either, the sex was confused, and it was dangerous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be realistic....If your family is more relaxed, you can give her the birthday she wants.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If she unilaterally doesn't accept it because of her age, you can tell him that there are many people who are also sisters and brothers and live happily, but if there are other reasons, I suggest you figure out the others first and then solve the problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not a matter of being 7 years older, it's up to the woman to accept you.

    Now she must be a child, because she has more experience and knowledge than you, and she has also passed your age, so she can understand you.

    You are now attracted to her maturity, or you have never seen such a mature woman, and her charm is not available to other little girls, so you can't extricate yourself.

    Suggestion: It's best to forget about her, because there are indelible obstacles between you.

    If you really want to try it, then take yourself to the next level. It's that you have to be able to surpass her attitude and have the charm to surrender her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ma Yili is 9 years older than the article, this is a good example, as long as you are sincere, I don't think this age is a problem! Come on! Knowing it with affection, moving it with reason, showing your greatest sincerity, I don't believe she can't see it! I wish you success!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Most people in China have a habit of getting married, and men must be better than women, in fact, love has nothing to do with age. Sister and brother love can't be entirely a matter of age. Who says that the age gap must not be sweet and sweet to spend this life together?

    The key is personal goodness and responsibility. Therefore, for those who are in a sister-brother relationship, don't feel depressed because of age. Love has nothing to do with age, only with the human heart.

    In love, you have to be able to use your rational heart to ** the essence of his soul, ** in the rice jar he promised you, whether there is the capital to buy rice. If you are a person who belongs to the love idealism and gets carried away once you fall in love, then please don't touch sibling love. In the future, no one will pay for your tears.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Forget it unless you're a wonder... Generally, girls who are seven years older than you will be much, much more mature than you, and you generally can't control it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Landlord, if you really love her, then don't care about the eyes of the world, and there are many such cases in these years, ......But if it's family pressure, then I suggest you let it go early! It's good for you and for her! After all, just because you can afford it doesn't mean that she can afford it, and you don't have the right to let a woman use her youth to make this big gamble with you Come on, find a ...... who loves you and who is acceptable to your parentsAfter all, no matter how deep the love is, it will fade, and no matter how deep the memory is, it will fade, right?

    Remember, time is medicine Maybe it's cruel to you and her now, but it's not a mercy to the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should ask yourself about this, and it's useless to ask others. You think about it, just dispel her concerns.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are seven years younger than her, which means that you can't give her a sense of security, and she wants to protect you, women mature prematurely than men. Most women want a man who is mature and understands her and can protect her, if she really loves her, then you will learn more instead of playing around.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Likes are mutual, and in the face of true love, age is not an issue. It depends on whether the girl loves you as much as you love her, and if so, I believe that you will be together no matter how many obstacles there are. Love with concerns doesn't last long.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like it, go after it

    It's better to be clever enough to move her

    Maybe it will work

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not being able to accept you means that she doesn't love you, you know?

    Love has no conditions, there is no bottom line, just because you are age, she will not accept you, then her heart is too bad.

    Some people don't even care if their partner is male or female, and she's quite relaxed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can enlighten her, and make yourself mature, you are 7 years younger than her, she may think you are more childish.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love has to be willing, it is difficult to accept it from the perspective of a girl, there are very right practical problems that must be faced, she is older than you, so she looks at the problem more maturely than you, think twice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm 7 years older'''Generally speaking, you can be your aunt! Don't think about it, even if she says yes to you', the two of you will never grow together, and when you slowly mature, you will change yourself. I'm like a kid listening to you!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Rely on your own efforts to impress her and make him feel that you are a person who can be trusted for life. As long as there is affection, I believe that age is never an issue.

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