My girlfriend wants to go back to my hometown, so I have been going back with me for 3 years

Let's talk about it well, after all, there are still feelings.

Let's talk about it carefully, seriously, outsiders can't help you with this problem, you have to choose, but you have to remember that your choice is not going back, you must think carefully.

Alas, is there an emergency at home, if you go to see your parents, you should also go, just go for a few days, and come back to work.

I don't think you love her anymore! I'm already annoyed with her, so break up!

It's very entangled, I don't want to be with my partner now, I just can't bear to be sad about her, but I don't love her anymore, to be honest, I'm very demanding on love, and after getting along, we don't feel it.

People must have difficulties, so let's ask the reason clearly.

Life, eating, and feelings are mutually supported and sorted on different bases.

Why don't you follow?

Do you really love her?

Time is not everything.

Men should put their careers first. 20 weak crowns 30 and stand.

It's nothing to go back to my hometown for a few days、。?

In November 09, Tingting and I met on the Internet, and then gradually got acquainted, and slowly, we fell in love.

Tingting was very good to me, and on Christmas Eve, she bought me a set of thermal underwear, which was the first time I received such a gift, and I felt very warm in my heart. I thought to myself, I must treat Tingting well in the future.

Subsequently, Tingting's mother came to Hangzhou for two days, 3 people had a meal together, and then accompanied them to go to the supermarket, and had a very pleasant time. (Woman's private talk sifanghua).

February 14, 10 years, is the first Valentine's Day since I met Tingting, and it also happens to be the first day of the Lunar New Year. I attach great importance to this day, this year's Chinese New Year's Eve, there was a heavy snowfall, I told Tingting that I want to spend Valentine's Day with you, specially ordered a bouquet of roses. Due to the weather, many shuttles have stopped, I took the car to Haiyan, Haiyan to Haining shuttle bus stopped, as long as you take a taxi to Haining, it was good to live together in Haining, but Tingting's home to Haining shuttle bus also stopped, and Tingting said that I will take a taxi directly to your house.

But Tingting's mother doesn't seem to agree, which means that we haven't known each other for a long time, and she doesn't want me to pass the first day of the new year. But I still didn't listen to Tingting's mother's opinion, so I bought cigarettes and some other gifts from the supermarket and took a taxi. Just this time, to Tingting's mother, I was very stubborn and didn't listen to persuasion.

When two people are together, the first problem is the house. Missed the trough of the housing market in 08, began to recover after 09, began to look at the house in March of 10, the house price rubbed to **, at that time it was quite hot, the optimistic house was not settled today, it was bought tomorrow, and a few sets were also fancied during the period, but because of the relationship between the ** did not close, and then the more you look at it, the more expensive it is, and the heart of death is there. I didn't settle down on the house even after looking at it for a few months, which also buried a hidden danger for later changes.

Tingting was very nice to me, really nice. She saves money very much, every time she accompanies her to the mall, she can't let me buy the clothes she likes, and she still doesn't want to buy them back for her, so she tells me to buy them in the clothes store, save some money and save more money, in order to buy a house in the future. I usually eat, and I basically don't go to a small restaurant, try to solve it at home, and sometimes I ask my company canteen to bring food back, which can also save some money.

Speaking of houses, Tingting's requirements are not high, no matter how big or small, whether you buy in Hangzhou, or Jiaxing, or Haining, you can, but the most hopeful is Haining, I think Haining's future development will be very good, and ** is much lower, but the only requirement is to let me buy alone. But because of my machismo, I don't agree to buy a house in Haining, and I feel that buying a house in Haining is like being a son-in-law in the past, but buying a house in Hangzhou because of the real estate policy of the first ** later, I have bought a house now.

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Hello, glad to answer for you. We have lived together for more than ten years, and when a friend of the woman or Sakura returned to his hometown, he immediately called him back, I think you should pick her up, and also go to see her family's Tuanling by the way, which is etiquette in our countryside, you should have gone to her house to see it, isn't it, but you have to be ready to go to her house! Because you said that her mother was very competitive, but I said that it was not, that was her mother's love for her, and you used to love her, but remember not to be pretentious, adults are not as good as us young people, and you can see at a glance that you can do what you want, and look at her mother's actions, do more, explain less, and of course, when necessary, you can also pay attention to buying things, don't be too expensive, don't be too bad, you should understand, by the way, you should be at home now, and you shouldn't be at home, right, is she coming to school, or something else, you have to do your own research, you go to pick her up Her mother must embarrass you After all, you are still young Now society is too realistic You had better bring your father or mother They can help you a lot If they are willing to go with you You have to communicate with them in advance You can't have any conflicts with your girlfriend and family in the past You can bear any pain by yourself Understand This is a man's suffering.

There are all kinds of signs that she has plans to leave you, and if she really has an emotional foundation, she should be able to sit down and talk about it, and figure out the reason to solve the problem.

There is a kind of love called letting go.

Personally, I think it's not just because of work, so let's ask.

In any case, love is mutual, and love cannot be wishful thinking. Here's the advice for you: cut it quickly. There is no grass at the end of the world. Because, she doesn't love you anymore, and too much entanglement is unfair to you and her.

Is it because the working relationship is going to be separated?

have been broken up for seven or eight years, everyone should have a family, what are you still running to do? Want to destroy someone else's family? You're not kind!

Generally. Bondage in the name of love is really stressful.

Or it's better to let go for a while.

Of course, it is really difficult to love so deeply.

But it didn't help anything.

Then it's better to leave it for a while.

If she's still nostalgic, you'll definitely come back.

If there is no nostalgia anymore. No matter how painful you are, it's useless.

Love doesn't have to be about holding on but letting go (.).

Since she thinks it's good with that man.

What you do now is wrong.

So let it go for a while.

And who can't live without this world?

Actually, I think you'd better break up, and you're torturing each other if you go on like this. It can't be said that she doesn't love you anymore, but it's just faded. Either you put up with her like this, or you separate. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

It's painful. But to love someone you have to believe in her. No matter what happens. Point to point. It is based on mutual trust. I believe that her heart is also fleshy. Won't betray you in the end.

In the final days, use your lower body to savor her lower body. It's the best memorial to her, and after that you'll have the opportunity to compare yourself with other women.

You should choose to believe her, since you love each other, you must trust unconditionally, you can communicate with her well, let go of your self-esteem, let go of your machismo, only in this way, can you save your relationship, if you continue to behave before, you can only lose her, everyone needs to have their own space, pushing too hard will backfire, as long as you work hard, you will not regret it in the future. Good luck, buddy.

Let it go, it's not worth it. Love without dignity, I would rather not. If you put up with it again and again, it will happen again and again.

It's been three years, and she can say that she broke up, presumably her heart is dead. Without giving her a stern lesson, she just doesn't know what respect is. I'm talking about the right way.

Love is mutual respect and mutual understanding, but she has not done a good job as your girlfriend, such a woman, if you continue to endure it, the thicker the LV hat will be. It's not a matter of distrusting her, it's that she doesn't have a proper identity as a girlfriend. Maybe it's painful, but if you endure it now, what about later?

If something like this happens during the time of the marriage discussion, you will want to commit suicide. If you don't separate, or you do your duty honestly and love her, you can't love her like this.

Have a good talk with her, if it's still like this, you can change it, time will dilute everything, otherwise it will be painful forever.

If you really love it, you can't extricate yourself, and in the same way, it's also a kind of pressure on other people. My ex-boyfriend, after we broke up, said that we would be friends, after all, we were all former friends, but, he later had a girlfriend, that girl, as soon as we got in touch, she would make trouble, and the two of us would break off contact, so, to have a rational love, if it is yours, you can't run, why reluctantly!!

Personally, I think it's sad to hear your story. If you love her, but buddy, there are some things that can't be forced, don't spend 3 years trapping you all. Time can make people fall in love and teach people to forget.

Men, you have to take it and put it down, it must be like this, no matter how much you say, there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself.

If you can't love each other, break up...

Relatively everyone is not so painful, and you can still keep a little bit of good memories!

Reminiscing about the beginning. Summarize yourself. Contrast the present. Change the future and care more about life. Be considerate in your actions. Be comforting in conversation. You are so lacking in these things.

Either choose to trust or choose to break up, where are the current feelings?

To love her is to let go of her hand.

Decisively unload this damn love!

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I don't know how you're doing now.

Brothers, there are thousands of sons and daughters of China, if it doesn't work, we will change it.

Why bother. Best wishes.