Why didn t I dare tell my family when I had a boyfriend?

I'm '88. It doesn't matter if you say it or not, it's not that it's time to get married. My family didn't know that I had a boyfriend, not because I didn't love him, but because I didn't want to talk about it all of a sudden, very formally, and I never had the right time to say it, because my family didn't tell me about love and didn't ask me.

You have to make him understand that not saying it doesn't mean that you don't love him. I will say it when I have to say it.

I'm dizzy, why can't you open your mouth, just have a boyfriend, you're 19 years old, just pay attention to 2 people don't get pregnant together.

I came out to work at the age of 19 and had a boyfriend Strongman, Xiang Mu actually worked, you can take it home and let your family see it I have seen many parents who disagree with their sons-in-law, don't you have deep feelings, if your family doesn't agree, it's troublesome You have to pass the parents' pass first.

Like my girlfriend, I told my family, but she didn't at all, but she is still in school like you, so it's better not to talk about this matter, did you get married early? Do you feel like you're old enough to say it? If it's almost enough, you have to be brave enough to say it, everyone has to go through it, but your parents are really, they don't ask you, you have to communicate more with your parents, I didn't tell them anything before, but in fact, you really communicated with them It's really good, find an opportunity to speak out boldly, I still want to go to her house, but no.

If you love him, say it boldly, it's a matter of time.

Hello dear! The teacher thinks your boyfriend won't want to tell you about his family. Maybe his family is not very harmonious, maybe there are some things in his family that he feels more embarrassed and don't want you to know.

So this kind of behavior is understandable. But be wary that if your boyfriend never takes you into his family, he doesn't know his relatives and friends. even hid his love in front of his relatives and friends at home.

Don't admit you're his girlfriend. There is a certain problem with this.

Summary. Hello dear, my boyfriend told his parents about his relationship with me but didn't tell me, which means that he may not value your relationship very much, or he may not want to continue dating you. Parents know that he is in love but does not ask you, most likely his family does not want him to be with you either, he does not date you again out of respect for his parents' wishes, and may even betray his parents.

You can get to know each other at a certain distance, but if you really like each other, you must have the courage to face everything, don't put the future on your parents' opinions, and have the courage to talk about this matter with your parents.

My boyfriend told him about his relationship with me, but my parents didn't tell me.

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Hello dear, my boyfriend told his parents about his relationship with me but didn't tell me, which means that he may not value your relationship very much, or he may not want to continue dating you. Parents know that he is in love but does not ask you, most likely his family does not want him to be with you either, he does not date you again out of respect for his parents' wishes, and may even betray his parents. You can get to know each other at a certain distance, but if you really like each other, you must have the courage to face everything, don't put the future on your parents' opinions, and have the courage to talk about this matter with your parents.

Summary. Maybe it's because your boyfriend's family thinks he has less experience in love and is afraid of making you angry.

Maybe it's because your boyfriend's family thinks he has less experience in love and is afraid of making you angry.

I'm afraid that he will finally fall in love with a love object, and he will run away.

The relationship is like this, the relationship between the two of you, the age gap is not a problem, the question is whether you can persevere, can you really love for a lifetime, without the number of socks of the man's family, can your economy be guaranteed, if you don't have the financial support of the man's family, will you choose to leave the man, these are all a problem, but the problem is summed up, there is only a good question of whether you love the man enough, whether the man loves you enough. So as long as you love enough, happiness needs to be understood.

How to be sure if the man loves me enough.

I know it from ordinary life.

The bag does not tolerate you, and love does not love you.

Tolerate it, and love it.

That's love.

Don't think about it yet, ask a few questions and think about it yourself.

1. The only way to go is to go to Shandong, so if you go to the past, will you be able to find a job? Don't expect your boyfriend's family to support you.

2. You are from Wenzhou, he is from Shandong, and the living habits will inevitably be different, you used to live with him, because you lived in his house, so can you adapt to the living habits of his family? Don't say that this doesn't matter, there are many examples of breaking up because of lifestyle habits.

3. Are you ready to buy a house when you get married? If you don't buy a house, will you be able to live in his house? You must know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate, and his family is very good to you now, but in case of conflicts in the future, can you guarantee that they will be very good to you?

You must know that living with your elders is good for a short time, but if you live for a long time, there will definitely be conflicts. If you buy a house, how much are you prepared to pay? How much is he ready to give?

4. The most realistic question, you have passed, so how are you going to arrange your parents? After all, the old man is old, what are you going to do if you have a headache and brain fever that needs to be taken care of? Fly back overnight or leave it alone?

Don't say that if you take your parents to Shandong together, they will definitely not go.

5. Are you ready to retreat? On the spur of the moment, you went to Shandong with him, and when you got there, you had no relatives, no relatives and no friends, that is to say, there was no one who could help you. It's best if you have a good relationship with him, but what if (I'm just saying just in case) one day he doesn't like you and turns his face with you, what are you going to do then?

Stay there or come back? You will have a hard time staying there, and when you come back, do you feel like you still have the face to see your parents?

I'm not against or in favor of your past, you are a girl, in case it passes, I can protect you and take care of you, to put it bluntly, you are left alone, so I hope you still calm down first, and think clearly about all kinds of problems that you may encounter in the future, so as to save yourself in case you really encounter helplessness in the future.

Simply let him immigrate to Shandong to solve the problem, otherwise it will be good for everyone to disperse in time.

I think you should consider the feelings of your parents, do you think that if your parents don't agree, even if you get married, you will continue to get along? First of all, I think that no matter what you do, you should take into account the feelings of your parents. You can try to convince them, but you can't do something that makes the parents feel cold, the relationship between two people is deep, and there is no deep relationship between parents for their children, and the other party pays more, and it is not as good as the unconditional payment of parents.

So in response to this problem, I think it's better to ask your boyfriend to convince them. The effect will be a little better this way.

Emotional things, it is difficult to evaluate right and wrong, from the perspective of human nature, we do anything, we have to consider comprehensively, if this relationship is true of course worth cherishing, but after the combination, you also have to consider how to pay for the family of both sides, parents do not want their children to marry far away, it is reasonable, you so through your own efforts so that both parents do not feel that this is a distance, do you have enough ability, do you have enough conditions?

I don't know why your parents won't let you go home, they should have their own ideas, but things should be made clear anyway. Having a boyfriend is something that most people do.

Leave your boyfriend aside, you should first look for an opportunity to explain to your parents, and maybe when they are angry, you can talk to them. I think they may just be to give you a warning, or a lesson, it will definitely pass away after a while, and it is definitely impossible not to let you go home, after all, children are the hearts and minds of parents, if I have a daughter, I can't bear to let a person I don't know take her away so easily, but I don't understand this thing of fate, maybe one day we will be together if we see the right eye, we can't control too much and can't completely stop it.

I also have a boyfriend, but my dad doesn't know, and I'm going to take him home, but I don't want to be like you, but I'm almost eighteen, and my dad can understand. I think your parents should be able to understand it, after all, how can they come to you if they are not together.

Maybe you talk to them from a rational point of view, and let them feel that you understand them. At this time, it's best not to blindly say good things about your boyfriend, they think they are protecting you by doing this, but you will always obey him, and it will inevitably be sad.

Don't go home yet, wait for your parents to calm down, and then talk about it.

Life is too short, don't hurt your peace.

Kill the person who makes a small report, I hate this kind of person the most.

Go to a friend's house and wait until they're calm.

Alas, there are such troubled people everywhere, so take them home openly.

Then divide it and read hard.