Help me and tell me why my confession failed

Sister, I can understand your mood very well, and I have some doubts after reading your narrative: first of all, you should ask yourself why he is secretly laughing since he knows about you and your behavior? What to laugh at?

What's so funny, is it to laugh at you stupid or what, second, since you like him and confess to him, if he also likes it, you should respond to you, but if there is no response, it should mean rejection (he didn't say it, maybe he was afraid of hurting your self-esteem) As for what you want to do, I don't think you have to worry too much about this, this should be a normal thing, and you haven't done anything wrong, so don't always think about the face problem, just treat it as a stranger when you meet it in the future, I hope it can help you!

Can I understand that he is laughing at you for being naïve? Even if you see him, you want to laugh! I think what my friend downstairs said also makes sense, how much can you understand about the mentality of a 27-year-old man? How do you understand your heart from his point of view? ）

Feelings need to be rational, not impulsive, after all, this world is very realistic, you should take into account the resistance when you go to this relationship, whether you can bear this pressure, whether the other party can bear this pressure, if all this you or the other party can't bear, then this kind of relationship will only make you physically and mentally exhausted, scarred.

Hehe, I'm also a high school student. It's smaller than you.

Every girl is ignorant in adolescence.

I think it's normal. However, I would prefer that you be sensible about this relationship.

After all, you are still young, and the road ahead is long.

It's best to think about feelings later.

I don't seem to have failed to confess myself.

My experience in a relationship is that I have to talk to that girl for many days. Usually I don't have contact for a long time, and at a certain time, suddenly the two of them will talk very much, and then I will confess, and the success rate is 100%. I don't usually confess easily, because I'm also not a very emotional person.

Generally speaking, people who fail to confess do not have a deep communication with the person to whom they confess. Judging from the experience around me, they all added a certain girl, and confessed after talking to others about some marginal topics, and they didn't see other people's minds at all. It's a matter of course to be rejected.

There are often such examples in universities, where teachers hold a ceremony for girls who want to confess. Downstairs for girls, candles filled with hearts. Playing an out-of-tune guitar and singing a lame confession song.

Girls are usually in the middle of the rejection, and this kind of scene is very embarrassing. These boys communicate with the girls in advance, and they confess in a hurry, fantasizing that this way will move others. Love can't just be moved, it must really attract the other party.

After the failure of the confession, many people choose to stalk and fight. I don't think about the inner activities of girls at all.,I just want to move others in this way by giving her food and gifts.。 This just pushes others farther and farther away, and even classmates and friends can't do it.

What we need to do is to think about what others really like, and see their criteria for choosing a mate, so as to measure our own differences. There is no problem with the attempt to confess, and the courageous pursuit of love is commendable.

We should not give up confession because we are afraid of failure, in a rational analysis, in fact, it is better to say it directly. But it also depends on the situation, if you are very good friends, you have to consider the consequences when confessing.

I'm ashamed to say ......I confessed without figuring out whether the other party had a partner, and it turned out that the other party already had an object......can only gag, change the topic, and resolve the embarrassment.

Remember, won't forget.

That man actually doesn't like me, let him regret it, I'm such a good woman.

It's when I was in college, we worked in the same club, and then the work was often arranged together, and in private, we often got together to play, and we were like buddies.

Gradually, I found that I liked him, he was careful, responsible, and humorous. At that time, I couldn't tolerate anyone but him.

I told my good sister about it, and my good sister encouraged me to confess it directly, and it happened that the day after tomorrow was his birthday, and we would go together at that time. I was hesitant.

My friend gave me a lot of encouragement, and I decided to confess directly when the time came.

When the day of my birthday came, when the lights were turned off, I confessed in the dark, and when I was done.

What I waited for was the refusal of my male god, I was embarrassed and helpless at that time, and everyone looked at me. I ran out.

But I still remember it, and it's hard to forget.

I think there are two possibilities for confession failure, one is not confident enough, and the other is too confident like I don't have such a chance.

I myself am a person with low self-esteem, and even if I have a crush, I don't dare to try, so I don't have the feeling of falling out of love at all.

I have not confessed my failures. In fact, my first love was a failure. When I was 18 years old, I was in junior high school.

I contact with notes every day. A solemn pledge of love. Sweet.

It's like falling in love. I don't know how to be in real life at all. The man's family background is good, and the so-called family is right, and I am a bit high-climbing.

Later boyfriend. Went to military school. And I dropped out of school and stayed at home.

This is the end of our first love. Now that I am middle-aged, I always think of my first love. Although it failed, it was unforgettable.

I remember, and will never forget.

This is the only confession I've ever made.

When I was in the first year of junior high school military training, it can be said that it was love at first sight with him, and he was in the next class.

Later, I found a way to ask for his QQ, and through my classmates, I let him know my mind. But we haven't had much in common.

In this way, in the third year of junior high school, I still like him, and I think it's time. So one day, I pulled my best friend, blocked him at the door of the playground net, and then said to him, "I want to be nice to you." "I think I must. Super invincible and domineering.

But he rejected me. I still didn't give up, and decided to let it go, anyway, I asked him why, and he told me very directly: "I don't have feelings for you." I was also a god at the time, so I blurted out directly, "I feel that I can cultivate it slowly!" ”

At this time, there were already several boys in our grade department watching. Anyway, I pestered him for a long time that day, but he still rejected me, in front of so many boys in our department.

Thereupon. My phrase "slowly cultivate" gradually spread in the department.

When the boys saw me, they were going to say something.

Later, what I confessed to him became a joke in his mouth.

1.Self-problems, divided into appearance, personality, temper, RMB.

Appearance is a person's first feeling, if it is too much, people's first feeling is gone. The chances are small in the future. The personality is weird, and ordinary people can't accept it.

The temper is too short-tempered, extreme, who wants to be with you every day to suffer your broken temper? If you don't have money, you may have true love, but the chances are relatively small.

2. The other party's problems, feelings, psychology, if there is no emotion, isn't this a joke? It's impossible for a psycho twister to succeed, and there's what the other party says about you. From the first point.

3.The right time, place and people.

These three points are indispensable. If you don't have one, you will be in a bad mood, and if you are in a bad mood, it will affect your relationship.

That's my personal opinion, if you like it, let's do it.

I think there are many reasons for the failure of confessions, and I can't blame them on one. First: The object of the confession only pays attention to appearance and does not communicate too much.

Although it is said that this is an era of looking at faces, but when you fall in love, find a boyfriend or girlfriend, you also have to look at your own values, whether your ideology is compatible with the other party, if you lack communication, you will miss a lot of opportunities, and you don't know what the other party likes and hates.

Second: After the confession fails, he still has illusions about the other party and chases after him. This kind of behavior generally causes disgust and even disgust among girls. So here is a reminder to everyone that you need to be cautious in confession and don't dwell on failure.

Third: The person of the confession does not like his or her type. Since ancient times, there have been clouds, and turnip greens have their own love.

Everyone has the right to love and be loved. Everyone has the right to pursue love. The premise is to find the right person, and there are many examples of this around me.

A lot of girls say no on the grounds that "you're not my type". So in the end, it comes back to what we said first, before confessing, we must have a deep communication, and only with enough communication can we know what type the other person likes and what type they don't like. So that the chance of success of the confession is greater.

Confession is the stupidest behavior, those who have 90 percent certainty are already in their minds, confession just says things and doesn't change much; If people don't care about you at all, you confess that they know that you still exist, and then be rejected.

After several days of preparation, I worked hard, but the news leaked. At the appointed time, no one came at all. Sad!

emm……Before I could confess, the boy I liked announced that he was in love, and he was in love with a very good girl. Bless them!

The sincerity is not enough, or the other party doesn't like it in the first place.

At the wrong time, meet the wrong person, and go there without confessing failure.

Because I was very nervous. I don't like each other for me.

The other person doesn't like you.

No matter how romantic the confession is, it will fail