Can anyone who has ever been in a relationship tell me why his girlfriend just won t confess to me?

It's that you're too hypocritical, don't be so tired of two people, otherwise you know too well, and it will be boring, and if you continue like this, she may run away.

I can't say for sure.

Everyone is different.

Maybe your girlfriend isn't good at expressing herself.

Or she doesn't like to say, "She likes to bury it in her heart, then she needs you to enlighten her."

That's why a confidant is needed.

She doesn't tell you about 2 reasons

1.She is afraid that she will pour out her distress and unhappiness on you, and you will feel impatient and think that she is a resentful woman.

2.She thinks that you have different views on some things, and if you say something, the two people have different ways of thinking, they may argue, and they are likely to quarrel, and she probably doesn't want to quarrel.

If you are wondering whether she likes you or not, you can give it a try, you tell her your own troubles in advance, see if she will comfort you, encourage you, if she will, then she likes you, and you can also communicate ideas with her in this way, you tell her about you, I think after a long time, she will also be willing to tell you about her. Come on.

That's what I do, I don't like to communicate with people the most.

That kind of heart-to-heart communication makes me feel terrified, scared that people know what is inside.

My girlfriend complains all the time, but I just don't want to talk to her too much.

But I still love her inner world, how can I tell you so easily.

Even if you're the closest person.

You haven't gotten into her heart yet, and she thinks you don't know her, you don't understand her.

It's better not to. 1. In principle, don't take the initiative to say it if the other party doesn't ask, many people are not broad-minded enough. No matter how deep the love between the two parties is now, don't ask about the past, you should start looking forward from now on, and treat the relationship with a more mature attitude now, it will be easier to achieve happiness.

2. If the other party asks, don't deceive, this is the essential difference. Be careful not to arouse the other person's curiosity, and don't talk about the cause and effect, tell the other party that the reason for the breakup is: you are more suitable for yourself than him (her).

This will help to elevate the relationship. Remember: the more detailed you say, the more damage you do.

3. Let the past pass forever, don't always reminisce, people must learn to turn negative emotional experiences into stepping stones to today's success, and make themselves more mature. People in love will always have such a question"Whether or not to confess the love history to the lover"Some people think that although you have not participated in my life in the past, I want you to know what kind of experience I have had, what I am like, and some people think that you love me today, not yesterday, so let's love it from now on, why bother with the past.

Now, let's talk about a more sincere view on whether or not to confess your love history. Everyone has their own position, and this is just for reference. When we are faced with the problem of confessing our love history, it is better to have the mentality of short-answer questions.

Not at all would be a bad choice to not use it as an essay question. Therefore, the author's main position is that it should be condensed and confessed, but it is not good to confess in detail.

First, let's talk about why you want to confess.

In love, knowing the love history can also understand a person better, can increase the familiarity with each other, in a more romantic way of saying this is called let me know you more, and then become more like you, this is a normal thing. In psychodynamic theory, understanding a person's past does help to understand the formation of the person's present personality and values. If you understand it in simpler words, this is that today's me is built on yesterday's me, so in a relationship, I want to talk about each other's childhood events, previous relationship experiences, unforgettable memories and best friends.

So why shouldn't it be exhaustively confessed?

There are two reasons, the first is that yesterday's I am not equal to today's me; And the second is that it is not necessary.

Let's start with the first point, there is humanism.

In the assertion that the past is in the past; The future is not yet coming, and people only exist in the present. Therefore, it is worse to talk too much about the past than about the present function. If you understand it in simpler terms, they are saying that you love me today, not yesterday.

Don't talk about the past, let's love well now.

Indeed, if you keep asking about the other person's past, no matter how big or small, you are undoubtedly a little too obsessed with the other person's past. But what should really be valued the most is the present with each other.

No, because the past has passed, there is nothing to say, it is normal to have a love history, and adults rarely get married once they fall in love, so there is no need to take it out and say it alone.

Unless your girlfriend asks and tells your love history, you don't have to confess, it will make your girlfriend unhappy, and it will also make your girlfriend who has a love habit uncomfortable.

Of course, if you have ever been engaged to someone, or have a relationship with your ex, you should explain it to your girlfriend, so as not to misunderstand your girlfriend and affect the relationship between you.

I don't think it's necessary to confess your relationship history to your girlfriend, because it's normal to have a lot of relationships when you're growing up

Loving someone doesn't mean you need to be honest about everything. Especially about these love histories, exes and so on. If you say these things, it is likely to cause a conflict between the two, so it is better to hide it in your heart and treat it as an experience.

I've also been in a lot of relationships, including high school, college, and work. In the beginning, people were still very simple. I told my boyfriend about my high school relationship, and he didn't react at first, and he listened patiently.

But as time changes, in the process of holding hands, when there is a conflict between the two, he will lift the person in front of him out. You and your ex are like that, how they are, all kinds of nagging.

Just that time, I remembered that I shouldn't confess to the person I like when I had a relationship history in the past. If you love him, you can cherish the present, and let the past pass. After all, life needs to be experienced, and only through experience can there be growth, isn't it?

I think you should confess your love history to your girlfriend, because if she finds out one day, you will definitely quarrel, so it's better to confess directly.

If your girlfriend is very emotional, it is better to tell the other party about her love history in time, in case the other party will find fault with it later.

I don't think you should confess this relationship history to your girlfriend, because if you confess this relationship to her, it will definitely cause your girlfriend to be dissatisfied.

If you don't ask about your previous relationship, I think it's best not to talk about it. When it comes to this topic, try to cover it up if asked.

If he hadn't asked, he wouldn't have told him about the past. Because those are in the past, and you have finally forgotten them, there is no need to let yourself remember. There is no need to remind yourself of those unhappy things.

As long as you only have him in your heart now, that's enough, and I'm sure he won't think too much about it. If you say it, he may not be able to adapt to it, and in that case it will affect your relationship.

Yes, it shouldn't be confessed.

And even if she asks, don't be too frank, just bring it up, say too much, and she will be cranky.

In fact, I think you should still be serious about confessing, only in this way will the other party feel that you are a very sincere person, so I think you should still tell your girlfriend about this situation.

I don't think you need to think so much, just let it be. That is to say, when it comes to that, maybe it will be said that, but if it is not said, it will not be mentioned.

It depends on the situation, it varies from person to person, and it can be said to a certain extent.

If your girlfriend takes the initiative to ask Ant Zheng to sell your love history, then you must confess! Girls are more likely to be cranky, if you don't say it, they will make up a lot of pictures in their own brains, and then the more they think about it, the more aggrieved they become, which is not conducive to the development of your relationship.

But it's good for you to talk about it, don't talk about it too much, your girlfriend will suspect you of being bored and obsessed with your ex, so she will be jealous. Honest people are curious, especially for their object's ex, so that the heart is secretly competing, I asked my boyfriend before how many he talked to, am I the best of all his girlfriends, but my boyfriend is a sincere person, he counted all his previous girlfriends to me, and listed their advantages for me, and finally came to a picture I am not the best girlfriend he has talked to, can you understand my mood at that moment? It's really on the verge of an outbreak.

Anyway, from a girl's point of view, that's all I can give youDon't take the initiative if she doesn't ask, if she asks, you will be macro and accurate, ignoring the details, simply put, it is to avoid the important and light, otherwise everyone will respond in their hearts.

Definitely have to say, don't say she will be sincere to you.

I think I need to be honest。Because if you don't tell him, it's a lifetime thing, and if you don't tell him, it's a lifetime thing. Analyze from the point of view of a rational man:

Do you think women think it's the truth that matters? No! It's the kind of really bad scale she wants.

Think about it another way: Do you think girls want to know how many exes you have? Actually, what she wanted to know was

Is she herself the most unique one in so many relationships you've talked about, and will you dump her for the same reason?

At this time, you have to take her hand and tell her clearly:My dear, I have seen a lot of scenery before I met you, but I know that you are my destination after meeting you。Maybe I can't participate in your past, but I hope that you won't be absent from my future.

Maybe I wasn't mature enough, but I can guarantee that you have the best version of me now, and I'm glad to have you.

And then you say it again at this timeYour relationship history doesn't matter anymoreThe important thing is that you have become an honest person who is not willing to cheat on his girlfriend. Isn't it? In this way, your character will be different!

You only know her height, weight, and habits, and she's just flat in your mind, Hunger Void only knows her past and her history, and she is three-dimensional in your mind. Maybe she will say that she doesn't want you to know about her love history, but it doesn't matter, maybe when you tell me about a relationship, you will be red-eyed, and I will be very red-eyed.

SoI want to know your past, and I know what you wantI know what you want, so I can give it to you. I know what you're doing, what kind of injuries you've suffered, so that I can protect you. What I want to know is who didn't make it to the end, and why, because I wanted to be with you to the end.

What I wanted to know was whose heart the moon represented at that time, and I wanted to do it differently when it turned out to be like that.

Many boys are reluctant to confess their love history to their girlfriends because they are afraid that the girl group will have children who will be jealous and cause unnecessary trouble. As long as the girl doesn't ask, it's best not to laugh and take the initiative to confess.

Some boys are afraid that girls will mind.

Some boys just don't want to mention their previous relationship.

After all, he may have been injured in the first place.

That's why he won't confess his feelings to girls.

I think not only boys, but also girls will hide something.

After all, I'm embarrassed to reveal my shortcomings to others.

Because those things are in the past after all, and I don't want to bring up the old things again.

After all, it's the past, and besides, there are too many tears of love in the past, and I don't want to remember.

To put it in a more romantic way, let me know you more, and then become more like you, which is a normal thing. In the theory of the dynamics of the mind, understanding a person's past does help to understand the formation of the person's present personality and values. If you understand it in simpler terms, this is that today's me is built on yesterday's me, so in a relationship, I will want to talk about each other's childhood events, previous relationship experiences, unforgettable memories and best friends, etc.

The second is that the past is in the past; The future is not yet coming, and people only exist in the present. Therefore, it is worse to talk too much about the past than about the present function. If you understand it in simpler terms, they are saying that you love me today, not yesterday.

If you don't talk about the past, let's love it now. Indeed, if you keep chasing each other's past, no matter how big or small, you are undoubtedly a little too obsessed with each other's past. But what should really be valued the most is the present with each other.

I hope I can help friends in need.

You don't have to confess, you are free to choose to share this relationship history with you, or not to share it. Only you know how important this relationship is to you, so you are free to decide whether or not you want to share it with others.