Do you prefer to live on your own or with your in laws? Talk?

Lives on your own. But I only have one son, so when my son gets married in the future, my daughter-in-law must accept her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live with her! Because I'm a single mom.

It will be more filial to live freely by yourself and live with your in-laws. Respect the old and love the young.

Let the mother-in-law have a lotus tongue, and make up her mind to live separately.

I don't need to ask, I'm sure I'm living there.

It is impossible to live with your in-laws, each living in his own way.

No one likes to live with their husbands and mothers-in-law! It's a pity that there is no such condition.

I want to live on my own and want to have my own space.

No daughter-in-law wants to live with someone she doesn't have anything to do with.

Don't live with your in-laws, I have a conflict with my in-laws now, and no matter how good my mother-in-law is, I can't live together

If you want to live by yourself, you are tired of the children and clean the house by themselves. What you eat, you do it yourself, your mother-in-law never cares what you like to eat, and she won't ask. Anyway, you have to look at your face when you live together.

Who doesn't like to live by themselves, live with their parents-in-law, no private space, after all, they are not their own parents, and live with them, because their mother-in-law likes to find faults, nagging all day long, who can stand it.

It's better to live separately, I'm lazy, my mother-in-law is diligent, every time I come, I have to say I'm lazy, you say I'm only two months pregnant, go to clean, I'm a little angry, I'm uncomfortable, and I say this and that.

Live by yourself, do whatever you want, and stay as far away from them as possible.

Of course I live by myself, otherwise I will be suffocated to death.

Of course, I like to live by myself and be free, after all, I was not born by them, and there is a gap after getting along for a long time.

Basically, they like to live by themselves, who wants to live with their in-laws, they can't help anything, they say that their daughter-in-law is not good when they see their son doing something, and they are also pointing fingers at educating children.

I'm so ruthless, but there's nothing for her to pick from. It's good that I don't find fault with her. However, I still don't want to live together, my mother-in-law is full of old and ignorant ideas, and I always find it difficult for me to speak in a loud voice, just like arguing with someone, and she is angry.

Don't ask, be sure to take your daughter to live.

It is redundant for her husband to live with her own children.

Must be living by yourself,? It is troublesome to live together, and it is easy to have conflicts.

You can eat together if you live by yourself.

Of course, I don't want to live with my in-laws, and the problem of living is not like this and that.

I live by myself, try not to live with my in-laws, but I am faced with having children, my husband and I both go to work, and we have to go to work after 5 months of maternity leave, and we still have to face the problem of living with my in-laws.

I don't like to live with my in-laws, I like to live by myself so that I have my own privacy.

Living by himself, on his own small home, unrestrained, there is no respect for the old and love for the young, and the elders are more restrained.

Of course, I live by myself, and my mother-in-law has so many things, I really can't stand it.

It must be living by itself, it is convenient to do anything, and no one cares.

I live by myself, I have my own private space, and I can do something shameful with my husband.

I believe that most young couples want to move out and live by themselves after getting married, after all, they are different from their parents' lifestyle, work and rest style, etc., and sometimes there will be conflicts.

But sometimes they have to live together due to the helplessness of reality, such as not being able to afford a house, or needing the help of the elderly to take care of their children, so they can only live together.

Even their parents occasionally have conflicts, not to mention their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who often make noise when they live together for a long time, and their husbands are also very embarrassed, so some people would rather rent a house outside than live with their in-laws, so as to avoid unhappiness between the two generations.

After getting married, would you like to live with your in-laws? Everyone has their own opinion on this issue, I asked some women around me to listen to the opinions of these "daughters-in-law"!

Ms. Qiu, 28, "of course not, it would be best if we could separate".

Before I got married, I heard a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so the first condition for me to get married was that I had to live separately from my in-laws, in the same community, and I could take care of each other close to each other, but not together.

Although some people think that they are all a family when they get married, after all, you only married later, many living habits are different, and they are all elders in Xinshan Qin, and you can't treat them like your own parents, and there will inevitably be conflicts after a long time.

Rather than this, it is better to separate from the beginning, and at the same time it also ensures that the family gets along, so why not?

Ms. Liang, 30 years old, "was reluctant at first, but then ran in well".

At first, I was also resolutely reluctant to live together, where my husband's conditions were not very good, and he couldn't afford to buy a second house, and then I rented a house with him for a few years, although I lived in a rented house, but after a while, I felt very happy.

I didn't move back to my in-laws' house until I gave birth to a child, I was not used to it at first, I was always afraid that the two people would quarrel, and I slowly ran in for a while, and I think it's okay, after all, my mother-in-law also has to look at the child for others, you are more considerate and considerate of her, coax her, she will also miss your good, and she will not come to you for trouble.

Whether it is a husband and wife, mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, they all understand each other in order to live a good life.

Unwilling. In the long run, living with the in-laws, contradictions are unavoidable, maybe the newly married in-laws will not say anything, but after a long time, there will definitely be friction, plus after giving birth, the two generations have different parenting concepts, you want the child to be like this, the mother-in-law wants to let the child be like that, then, quarrels must be rare.

Looking up and not looking down, it will be very inconvenient to live together, this inconvenience covers the privacy of husband and wife, and the daughter-in-law also hates "mother-in-law comes in directly without knocking on the door", this situation is really embarrassing, although the mother-in-law said that it is all a family, don't see outside, and don't be embarrassed, but your heart is diaphragm.

Living with his in-laws, a man's sense of responsibility will become smaller and smaller, and if you ask him to take care of the child, he may be the shopkeeper and directly leave the child to his grandparents to see, and even the housework will be done by his parents, and he will not worry about anything. Such a man, frankly speaking, will not care too much about the whole family, children, and wife, and will always rely on others when he encounters pure questions, just like a child who will never grow up.

I can't accept living with my parents-in-law after marriage, because there will be a big generation gap between the two generations, whether it is in daily life, or the consumption concept is very different, and the most important thing is that it is not very convenient in terms of life and food, so I would rather move out with my lover.

First, the living habits are different.

It mainly refers to the difference in work and rest time and eating habits. In terms of work and rest time: the elderly like to go to bed early and get up early, young people like to go to bed late and get up late, especially on weekends and holidays, and young people like to sleep lazy.

In terms of diet: the elderly like to eat softer, less oil and light salt meals, and the younger people like to eat big fish and meat, and moderate chewy meals. Different living habits can easily lead to family conflicts.

Second, the concept of consumption is different.

The elderly have been frugal for a lifetime, no matter what they are, they must "three years of new as a coincidence, three years of the old, and another three years of sewing and mending", and do not use things to the extreme. Young people like to spend ahead of time and spend lavishly, especially some young people who are keen on online shopping, when they have nothing to do, they go to the Internet to buy things, buy a lot of useful and useless things, and throw them all over the ground. The old man couldn't get used to it, so he inevitably chattered and said a few more words.

Young people are fine to listen to it, but if they don't listen, they have to refute a few words and make a few noises.

3. There is no private space.

Young people have their own lifestyles and characteristics, and they all have their own little secrets of their own personal lives. Young people are fashionable and like to catch up with trends, and sometimes they wear less clothes at home and are slightly exposed, in case the elderly see the spike rot, it will be very embarrassing. In addition, young people are open-minded and have an avant-garde lifestyle, and sometimes they are inevitably kissing Mimi, Qingqing and me, and they are very nervous, for fear that the old people will hear or see it, which will not only lose the quality of married life, but also lose the fun of married life.

That's why I don't like living with my in-laws.