How to get past and how to face the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Big husband, dare to do it. Let go of the sub-problem, if it is love, love, let go, don't mother-in-law. If you really feel that you really love her, and her feelings for you are also true, then pursue it again, and find that it is not or one of the two is not, then it is better to let it go decisively, you are happy, and she is also happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Things have changed! You will never get back to how you felt again, and you will be shadowed.

    Don't be hurt twice by the same woman.

    Friend: Giving up is the wisest choice!

    Keep it in your heart!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems that she is not very firm in her feelings for you, you can try to give yourself a chance, and give everyone a chance, only then will you not be in your own heart. But don't invest too much emotion. Because even if you break up again in the future, you won't.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Remember: good horses don't eat back grass!! Moreover, she broke up with you because she fell in love with your friend, and their breakup was also retribution!! Hmph, this kind of woman is not worthy of your love at all!! What a shame for a woman!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you think it's worth it, go back to her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think forget it, don't be unrequited love, you still miss her, it doesn't mean that she still misses you, don't end up beating chickens and eggs

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nothing else, the character is too bad to want!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a thing of the past, forget it, don't think about it anymore

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget about it, it's all divided, and it's hard to start over.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Dear, <>

    Glad to answer for you, how to get there? The past has made us who we are today, and how we live today seems to be able to find clues from our past lives. But if one is determined to change one's current situation, one cannot dwell on the gains and losses of the past.

    After all, time is gone, and people who are haunted by the frustration of the past often lose the present, let alone the future. Life is impermanent, and every day of life is lucky. Tell yourself to be curious and grateful about the world every day like a child.

    Don't let the achievements of the past hold back today's pace, and don't let the burdens of yesterday overwhelm today's enthusiasm. Let go of the past in order to better grasp the present.

    How to get over? Dear, <>

    Glad to answer for you, how to get there? The past has made us who we are today, and how we live today seems to be able to find clues from our past lives. But if one is determined to change one's current situation, one cannot dwell on the gains and losses of the past.

    After all, time is gone, and people who are haunted by the frustration of the past often lose the present, let alone the future. Life is impermanent, and every day of life is lucky. Tell yourself more that every day you should be like a child and be full of good acacia and gratitude to the world.

    Don't let the achievements of the past hold back today's pace, and don't let the burdens of yesterday overwhelm today's enthusiasm. Let go of the past in order to better grasp the present.

    Dear, <>In the past, the p-sound: guò qù is a vertical movement that refers to any moment or time period before the moment we are in now, which can be a moment and beam, but most of them refer to a period of time. Sheds.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget about the past. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a solitary and dry space, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

    Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

    From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

    There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for what tranquility is such as closure?

    In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

    Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

    For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

    People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

    In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of refinement in the pursuit of tranquility for everyone. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

    For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you feel something you've been disappointed or regretted in your childhood, here are a few steps to consider:

    1.Accept your past self: The past Bichai has happened, whether it is good or bad, it is a past experience. Accept your past self and don't be too yourself or blame yourself.

    2.Learn to learn from it: Look back at past experiences and think about the lessons and lessons learned. Is there anything that can be learned from this to be able to better handle similar situations in the future?

    3.Change your attitude: If your past experience is caused by your own attitude or behavior, you can reflect on your attitude and behavior and try to change your behavior so that you can better deal with similar situations in the future.

    4.Make new plans: If there are things that weren't done or achieved as a child, consider making new plans and trying to achieve them. Don't let past regrets affect your future.

    Most importantly, stay positive and look forward. Past experiences can't be changed, but we can learn from them and try to make ourselves better.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now, in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to abandon a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

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