Under the reality of love, will it bow its head? Five points, my last belongings are really helples

Dare you ask if you're in high school..? Or university.

In high school, I just want to persuade you to study with peace of mind, and then the problem will be much simpler when you are admitted to college, and you will also have the capital to be with her at that time.

If it's a university, why don't you take her to live near your university (if his work allows for such a transfer), the two of them work together, if the money from a diligent and simple part-time job is decided to be enough to support the two of you, my classmate goes to school and does odd jobs at the same time for more than 2,000 a month, and the two of you are generally enough in a small city. , If she can't work, then. Study hard or work, and show her family that you are worthy of her daughter for the next three years.

Brother, in a situation like you, you need to get the approval of his family as soon as possible, and it's too late to regret it when it comes to the end.

The above is my personal experience, at first she was not afraid of anything like your girlfriend, but after a long time, this relative said this, which relative also said this. There were more people talking, and she left.

According to what you said, you can only wait 3 years.

Let me tell you, although I don't know what major you are studying, you don't want her to suffer in 3 years.

You have to take a few more technical certificates, which at least will ensure that you don't have to starve It's very realistic, you have to have a job to have money ......

3 years, in terms of studies, is sufficient.

Let go. These are two words I want to say to that girl.

After reading your text, my heart is very heavy, and I have no choice but to tell you, I don't approve of you being together.

One, she is still in her senior year, think about the difficulty of finding a job, as a girl, it is even more difficult than you, even if you find it, within three years, it will be good to take care of her. What does three years mean to you?

Second, her physique is very poor, she is only 22 years old, do you want your family to spend a lot of money on the hospital? The older you get, the sicker you get.

Three,"The relationship is very good and very affectionate", is the best manifestation of your immaturity, at school, you spend your parents' money, have you ever worried? Besides, there are no storms in the school, have you experienced it? How hard it is to make some money on your own, you still don't understand?

Fourth, you have been in love for more than two years, you must not think that this is the foundation of your emotional stability. On the contrary, it is an unstable factor and is vulnerable.

Fifth, sometimes, looking for a partner is because, hungry and hungry, I don't know if you are not, write that she is not beautiful, it shows that you care about the appearance of your object, and she is not beautiful, you will not be willing. Because, there are so many beautiful girls that you won't settle down.

Six, as the old saying goes, don't hang yourself from a tree.

Seven. You've been working for a year, so you should be realistic about it, so think about it.

Are you a man?

If you are a man, you should focus on your career, and only with a career can you have a family Do you need money to marry her, brother, you need money to get married, you need money to buy a house, you need money to live, you need money to have a child, and you need money to go to school when your child is older There are many more that I won't say one by one Now you spend your parents', can your parents support you for a lifetime? You don't have a stable income, you don't have your own career, do you want your wife and your children to live a poor life with you, do you still want your children to want the poor life you once lived Let's start a business first With your own career, you will have anything I just think this is just my idea, some people may think that love is more important, but I'd better be practical Life is about money

Really love! Just work hard to maintain your feelings! At least try it so you won't regret it! My boyfriend and I don't know what the future holds! But we will do our best for a better tomorrow! Real problems can be solved!

First of all, what kind of person is your girlfriend, do you know?

Do you know if she wants bread or love?

Let's be realistic, kids, maybe in many years you will understand that material things are far above all else.

Once upon a time, a friend asked me this, it was more than 30 years ago, I replied to him, the power of love is above all else, what can we not give up in order to love? But to this day, I was wrong, I was all wrong, and then they divorced, today I look at the problem with the same eyes, but my answer is not the same, there is no material pursuit in today's society, what to use as the basis of feelings, the feelings between each other are important, but more important is how to go in the future, so I think you are still rational to talk about the breakup with her, as for whether to add points or not, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that you will be happy in the future, In 30 years it will not be as painful as my friend is today, bless you children!

If you really love each other, you don't have to care about these I believe your girlfriend will understand you You are still young and there is still a long way to go.

The relationship can be as long as possible. There are at least two benefits to this: one, to enjoy the pleasure of love fully and as long as possible, and the feeling of marriage and love is very different.

Second, the longer the two get along, the more they can test each other's sincerity, and the more they can see whether their personalities are compatible. In this way, the relationship after marriage will be much stronger.

Don't think too much, work hard, and let the rest take its course, because it's not something you and I can control.

You're just going to miss out on a lot of stuff!!

Don't wait, there are things that should be put down.

It doesn't do you any good or she any good!!

If you still love her, hate her!!

Do something like a man should do!!

If you can't do it, think about you, like this, do you really give her happiness?

Friend, can you put the question here, it shows that you are very slim at the moment, and you also mentioned that you love each other very much, congratulations, at least I think it is not easy to find someone in your life who loves each other deeply, right?

As for what you said, the probability of you getting married, I think the only one who can answer this question is yourself, don't deceive yourself, do whatever you want, as long as you think it's right, it's OK, or you'll regret it later

I wish you happiness

Money, as long as you have money, emotional things are very easy to do. Maybe love in college doesn't cost you a lot of money, but in today's real society, all feelings will fall under money.

Marriage now = money + affection.

You have feelings, so it's all about money.

If you go back, you should say that you will get a better job! Your love does not have problems due to distance, and if you really want to love each other, I think she will go to your hometown with you to develop and tell her your psychological thoughts. Her decision may make you happy or disappointed, but after all, it is her personal choice, respect each other's decision, and maybe you will find something new.

God. Why are so many people nowadays having a headache about something they can't control?

My suggestion is.

Go with the flow. But how you do it, it's up to you.

Different times have different ideas, you try to think about it, what is the best, 2 people together is not to suffer, if you feel bitter then it is better to change the environment, but although the suffering is still happy, then persevere!

It's up to her to decide if you really love her, otherwise it's up to your parents.

To be honest, the problem is yourself, because it is your own thoughts, since true love, go on, believe that happiness is always after the wind and rain, If you want to give up, quickly cut the mess, don't grind, otherwise it will harm others and yourself.

Be a man, you must rely on yourself, no matter what, don't let yourself leave any regrets!

I really tell you that the most fundamental thing in a person's life is life, and the root of life is material, if two people live together without a material foundation, then there will be no fewer contradictions in life, and it will erode all the beauty before your marriage. Life is a lifetime, and if love is not based on some material things, it is really difficult to say how far the love between the two of you will go. Besides, breaking up may be a good thing for both of you, and your respective living standards can improve to a certain extent.

Speaking from the heart, I want to get your score, but what I say above is definitely true, you think about it carefully.

Ask yourself. You still love her, and you can't forget her, so you have the courage to pick her up at your house. If you are a man, be brave, don't be afraid of this, afraid of that. If you miss your beloved, it's hard to go back.

I think that while you are raising this question and have this doubt in your heart, your heart has changed, and you do not love her ...... as you say you are

From the standpoint of a person who has come before, how can I say it, I can't say that it is to give you advice, but I can only say my point of view and give you a reference.

She is not the only one who loves you and is worthy of your love in the world, and the one who walks into the marriage hall with you hand in hand and spends her life with you is not necessarily the one you care about the most, the person you love the most, I don't know if you can understand what I mean......

To really organize a small family, it is not as simple as imagined, you need the support of parents and family members, and a marriage with the blessing of parents and family members will be a happy marriage and a bright future!

As for the final decision, it's up to you, and my words can only represent my personal opinion on this issue :)

I love my home.

Dad is a boat, Mom is a sail, without Dad is equivalent to missing half of the sky, without Mom I am lonely. Because of that, I became the passenger they carried.

Dad is another "passenger ship" that can't withstand the stormy seas (Dad is not in good health and is often sick); Mom is a raised sail, supporting the family with strong perseverance and ensuring the smooth sailing of the boat; As for me, I am a small boatman who always wants to get closer to the other side of happiness.

Although the neighbors praise our family for being surprisingly harmonious, I am always proud of it. However, sometimes it is inevitable that there will be some discordant "small frictions". I remember one time, my parents quarreled over a trivial matter, and both of them fought red-faced, the public said that the public was reasonable, and the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was reasonable, and they did not give in to each other.

In fact, in my opinion, both of them are strong words. The next thing is good, for several days they did not say a word to each other, and the harmonious scene at home seemed to be frozen by ice, and I saw it in my eyes, and I was anxious in my heart, and I always tried to get them together several times, but to no avail.

When I wanted to call my father for dinner, my mother asked me to do it; When I was looking for clothes, my father asked me to inquire about the whereabouts of the clothes, hey, if I continued like this, I would become their unpaid "working girl". What can I do?

I racked my brains and thought about it for a long time, and finally came up with a plan. It is to defeat them with a "soft knife". Maybe that's a foolproof solution, I smiled slyly at the thought of this.

That day, while my parents were both at home, I deliberately hid at a friend's house, and then called them** (my mother picked them up at that time**), "If you don't reconcile with your father, I will never go home; Once reconciled, I'll be back. "At first, my mother thought I was teasing her, but she didn't care, and told me not to mess around, so I told my mother my address and hung up**. If you want to act, you have to act like a little bit in order to touch the hearts of the audience, I thought like this, and continued to act according to the plan, and the sky gradually got dark.

I was casually watching TV at my friend's house, but I was hoping that my parents would show up, and my friend asked me suspiciously, "Does this trick work?" "Of course," I replied affirmatively, but I was also very uncertain.

It was finally dark, and I was depressed, when the doorbell rang, I hurriedly jumped down from the couch to open the door, and it was my father standing outside the door, and my mother was standing behind him, and they were all anxious. "Victory," I cheered, and went home with my parents. On the way home, I dug out the details from my father's mouth, it turned out that my parents didn't see me back, and I didn't find a few **, they were as anxious as ants on a hot pot, and then after receiving my **, I finally put down the snacks, but for the price I offered, for the sake of face, no one would show peace first, and when it was dark, for my return, they finally made peace.

So, there is the previous scene.

After this incident, our family of three became more harmonious, "Let love live in my house......I love my home, love is not disputed, laugh and reunite every day, let love live in my home every day ......

Homely.

Home has always been a mysterious place, a haven for warmth, a permanent harbor for you to inhabit, and a word for warmth.

Home, a warm, happy and happy home, is what everyone yearns for. When you encounter setbacks and failures, home is your warm haven, where you can find comfort and temporary rest, which is enough for you to regain the courage to start over; When you are frustrated and lost, home is your warm nest, where you can get courage and temporary stability, enough to get back up and start from scratch; When you encounter emotional frustration or injury, home is your soft pillow, where you can get a temporary vent and get a little bit of your own space; When you succeed or achieve, home is the place you miss the most, where you can share the joy of your success with your family and friends, and you can enjoy the fruits of your achievements with your brothers and sisters.

Home has always been such a warm place, and it has always been so fascinating. It's been a long time since I've been home to see, and at this moment, I'm really homesick, I miss my father, grandmother, uncle, younger brothers and sisters. It's almost a month and a half, and I should go back and have a good get-together with them, talk about it, talk about it.

It's been three years, I haven't spent a month and a half with my family for three years, and I really miss that kind of warm day. After I went to junior high school, I often didn't go home, let alone after high school. On many holidays, I missed the day of reunion with my family because of my studies or because I didn't know enough about home.

Gradually, I am getting farther and farther away from home, and although I still have a lot of time to spend with my family in the future, I can't afford to waste or miss every possible opportunity.

If home is a beautiful person, then homesickness is a long line, no matter how far you go, no matter how high you fly, home will always be the place you miss the most.