Can a girl who is not pretty not have low self esteem?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course you can, ** and there is no rule that girls who are not beautiful should have low self-esteem. People are not beautiful does not mean that they can't have anything, like all people, they lack nothing, people who are not beautiful also have their own advantages, have their own world, only their own wonderful life can be, why be inferior? The taste of inferiority is not pleasant, I advise you not to talk like this, live a good life, as long as you live well, it doesn't matter what happens.

    Happy to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Absolutely! I have always believed that God is fair, and if he gives you this, he will not be you, so if you are not beautiful, then you must be outstanding in other aspects, and you will be confident in yourself if you look for it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not pretty, of course, don't have inferiority, a man marries a wife, is the kind that can run a family, if you marry a vase back, not only do you have to provide it every day, but you also have to beware of whether she is red apricot out of the wall.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can not be pretty, but you must have good quality, be a temperament girl, a beautiful girl her beauty can only last for twenty years, but a girl with good quality and good temperament will be beautiful and beautiful for a lifetime!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, as long as your boyfriend doesn't mind, what do you care?

    If you don't have a boyfriend yet, remember that none of us can be relied on in this world. You're great, others can only look up to you, and then you'll have everything.

    If you sink into inferiority now, you can only bury the consequences for your own tomorrow.

    Trust you to be excellent.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, if the girls who are not good-looking have low self-esteem. What to do with the ugly boy??? In fact, appearance does not fully represent you, you can also have other highlights, such as personality, temper, temperament and so on. There are many kinds of beauties... Hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The beauty of the soul is the beauty of nature...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why have low self-esteem.

    Just because it's not pretty.

    Although your appearance is not very pretty.

    I think. You must have something more merit than those who are prettier than you.

    Don't always think about your shortcomings.

    Think about your strengths.

    That way you'll be very confident.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why have low self-esteem. You must know that the beauty of the soul is the real beauty, and people are beautiful because they are lovely. Believe in yourself that you are the best.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cosmetics, high heels, and fashionable clothes are all designed for women, and if the world is full of beautiful women, then what do you need these things for? (I'm right).

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard, and I'll regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Dizzy, did you make a mistake, hug it.

    If you are not pretty, you have low self-esteem?? It's not your fault that it's not pretty. Are you still pretty if you're talking about a pretty woman being vicious???

    Even if it's not pretty, you have your highlights.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Pretty girls also have a lot of trouble.

    What if it's not pretty.

    Why have low self-esteem.

    What matters to a woman is the connotation, not the appearance.

    Can a face be beautiful for a lifetime?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is recommended that you see a psychologist.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What kind of logic is this.

    Should you feel inferior if you are not beautiful?!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is difficult to be absolutely fair in life, some people are born beautiful, and they can easily become the goddess in the mouth of others, and they are sought after by thousands of people, while some people have been unpopular because of their appearance, resulting in inner blockage, and even inferiority. Although many people may say that they don't care about their appearance, in fact, there are many people who are discriminated against because of their ugly appearance. So if a girl is not good-looking and has low self-esteem because of this, how to relieve her inner emotions?

    (1) The first thing to do is to accept yourself, not to complain about the injustice of God, but to learn to appreciate yourself.

    Girls who don't look good have low self-esteem in their hearts, mostly because they don't fully accept their looks psychologically. But the cruel thing is that people can only try to overcome their inferiority complex when they can calmly accept their appearance. If a person can't even accept what he looks like, then it will be even more difficult to get rid of his inferiority complex.

    Therefore, the first step for a girl who is not good-looking is to learn to accept her appearance, and when she has no ability to change him, choosing to accept it will make her heart more comfortable.

    (2) Strive to improve yourself, so that talent and morality become your new shining point.

    Appearance is innate, ordinary people can't change it, so if you want to be outstanding, you have to learn to improve yourself. When Heaven closes a door, it also opens a window for you. Losing the advantage of foreign trade, if you can exchange it for noble character and talented minds, it may also be a good choice.

    is like Huang Yueying during the Three Kingdoms period, although her appearance is not beautiful, she has become a famous strange woman in history by relying on her wisdom.

    (3) If you really can't accept your appearance, you can choose a series of acquired ways to change your appearance such as plastic surgery and makeup when you have the ability.

    If none of the above methods can make you completely abandon your inferiority complex, then you might as well use plastic surgery and makeup to change your appearance when you can. However, if none of the above methods can make you confident, plastic surgery alone is not very realistic.

    Appearance is something that ordinary people can't change, so learn to accept it and improve yourself. Don't care about your shortcomings, but care about your shining points.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As a girl, you have to know that there will be no absolute ugly woman, if you have low self-esteem because of your looks, then I suggest that you learn to make up and dress, and then read more books, so as to improve yourself from the inside out, so as to be positive.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Are you a girl?

    Ask the question: Yes. Answering this will really make people very unhappy.,And then this reminds you of what I look like.,Question Now I'm afraid that they will say bad things about me in the class.,I always feel like he's called that person.,It's a bit of a hint that I mean to say bad things.,Yesterday I deliberately said in the class group to see his circle of friends.。

    The answer is yes, at this time we will become very sensitive, careful, worried that others are saying bad things about us (although it is not necessarily true), but this worry is real, and some actions of others will also trigger our associations.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think there are two leaves the same in the world, everyone has their own unique charm, not necessarily on the outside, the inside of the person is more important. Be calm, because everyone is unique.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In terms of appearance, everyone has their own characteristics, many people are not born beautiful, they can change through the later stage, if the economic conditions allow, you can do medical beauty, facial coshaping, etc., many girls will also make themselves beautiful through makeup.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can improve your work ability, and you can also improve yourself from dressing up, so that you can become more temperamental, and you can not feel inferior at all.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are fat, exercise more, be healthy, if you are not good, pay attention to skin care, learn makeup, read more books, improve the depth of your thoughts, work hard, make money, and go to beauty salons for targeted micro-surgery.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Confident girls are the most beautiful, not everyone in this society will judge people by their appearance, build self-confidence, and people with strong hearts will be favored by others.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think I can go to a plastic surgery clinic for a microfacelift, such as a double eyelid or something. Then go to makeup school to learn makeup, and you will definitely look a lot better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your appearance cannot be reversed, then you have to become better than others in other aspects, make yourself study harder, and become a person who really speaks by strength.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, sometimes there is really no need to feel inferior, after all, a person's appearance does not tell his true talent, you have to look at it a little.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girls are ugly, and at this time you have to learn to put on makeup. Let yourself make up for the congenital deficiency from the makeup.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Many people will feel unconfident because of their appearance, looks, height and figure can't be blamed on anyone, parents can't be blamed for themselves, all we can do is to make ourselves confident. It's just a personal opinion to think that I'm ugly, there's no need to lack self-confidence, look in the mirror, smile, in fact, I'm pretty good-looking. As long as you hold your chest up and think you're beautiful, no one will laugh at you.

    This is a psychological disorder, this situation should not be determined by appearance, beauty and ugliness is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality, and the beauty of the soul and the size of the ability are the key, especially for men, so there is no need to have this inferiority complex.

    2.Often seeing oneself feel that oneself is ugly, which is manifested in the weakening of excitement for aesthetic objects, no longer producing a strong sense of beauty, and even expressing disgust for objects, which now refers to the loss of interest in anyone or anything in life, and even the feeling of boredom, boredom or insensitivity. It has to do with mood, thinking that you are beautiful every day, and maintaining a good mood will make you more and more energetic.

    Emotions can really affect your appearance. Emotions not only affect the direction of our facial muscles and integrate into our "physiognomy", but also affect our metabolism and interfere with our "skin physiognomy". If youth has an ageless face, it must be that you have treated your emotions well.

    3.It's about mood and your own confidence! When you're in a good mood, you look at yourself with a very cheerful mindset "You feel beautiful, and when you're in a bad mood and you don't have confidence, you feel ugly and ugly."

    Therefore, psychological suggestion is really important, if you imply that you think you are ugly when you are in a bad mood, you will be dissatisfied with yourself, so you still have to learn to have confidence in yourself, always hint at yourself, and say to yourself that you are good-looking.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Girls have low self-esteem, it is a very bad phenomenon, his life is very hard, people are tired and tired, because he has not felt the feeling of being cared for since he was a child, he is very sensitive, he has grown up and forced himself to learn to care about others, it is very painful, he thinks about others everywhere, he is careful everywhere, the leader arranges work, or his colleagues let him do things, try to do his best in everything, he is afraid of doing badly, others are unhappy, he is dissatisfied with his opinions, he observes the faces of others all the time, he has too many concerns, he is very sensitive, there is no way, No one cares about his feelings, he can only live silently, no one will help him, there are many such people, society doesn't care, no one cares, even if you want to find a psychiatrist to see, no money to look down on, psychiatrists are high, the consultation fee is particularly high, ordinary people have no money to look down on, the fee for seeing a psychiatrist is too high, **too expensive, ordinary people can't afford it, it's a hospital for rich people, the poor can only endure it, helpless and helpless, no one cares, no one asks, just like a weed in this society, No one cares, his life or death, this should be asked to girls, maybe they think that the girls who are acting on TV are different from others when they develop, and some will have low self-esteem, and they dare not raise their heads fiercely, for fear of being discovered, which is almost like this.

    I'm a little inferior, I'm not sure of what I'm doing, I don't know if I'm doing it right, even if I do it right, I have to check it several times to rest assured, I can't see others chatting and laughing with friends cheerfully, I don't want to, I want to do this but I can't do it, I feel powerless, and I'm embarrassed to say hello when I meet my colleagues.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Their beautiful appearance makes them favored by many men, which satisfies their vanity, but the inner world is becoming more and more empty.

    Beautiful girls also have low self-esteem, and ordinary-looking girls can also be confident.

    Therefore, even though appearance is becoming more and more important in today's society, people should not pay too much attention to it.

    Because our appearance is given by our parents, we can't control it, and paying too much attention to our appearance will only make people feel helpless, so focusing on what we should do is the most important thing.

    Self-esteem refers to an individual's level of satisfaction with their overall condition.

    People have their own set of criteria for judging values and tend to use it to evaluate themselves.

    If you get a positive result after evaluation, you will experience self-esteem, and if you get a negative result after evaluating yourself, you will experience an inferiority complex.

    When self-esteem is distorted, it is vanity, and vanity is actually to cover up the inferiority of the heart.

    Some girls are beautiful and have a strong sense of self-esteem, i.e. they are satisfied with themselves in every way.

    However, due to strong dependence, they are not confident enough, and outwardly manifest themselves as having too high self-esteem, being overly sensitive to certain things, and being very concerned about what others say about them.

    Internally, it is manifested as low self-esteem, does not believe that he has the ability to solve various problems, does not think that he has the ability to achieve goals, and always likes to take shortcuts to achieve goals.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't get too caught up in your appearance and other people's opinions, learn to love yourself.

    As a girl, I was also very worried about my appearance, and I used to think that I was not good-looking, but the reason for my deep inferiority complex was far more than just because I felt that I was not beautiful enough, but also because I felt that I was not good enough, I couldn't socialize, and there were imperfections in my personality, etc., and the inferiority caused by these problems even made me very sensitive and fragile during college, and I once refused to socialize with people.

    But after living in my own world for a long time, I will gradually hope to be loved by others, but at that time, the way I sought love seemed strange to others, because at that time I had no experience in some things and did not know how to interact with people, and I did not learn to accept myself before I found the love of others, and I loved myself first, and I only blindly hoped to get love or advice on some things from others.

    After going through some things, there was a time when my mind was chaotic and I was on the verge of breaking down, but slowly, I began to reflect on my personal reasons for having these experiences and learned to love myself first.

    I still feel imperfect, but I love my imperfect self because in a sense, imperfection represents infinite possibilities in the future. I know that I am still not beautiful enough, but I also know that I like beautiful things, so I will still do my best to make myself more beautiful and live a more exciting life in the future; I know I'm not good enough, but I also know that I like to work hard and improve, so I will continue to grow on my own path of improvement in the future.

    As for what others think is success, let it be; I know that I am still not good at socializing, but I also know that I will still have an active side in the face of people I like or the field I want to study, so in the future, I will still choose not to deliberately let myself be too receptive or let go, just be casual.

    So, friend, love yourself and don't mind too much about what others judge you, your life is yours.

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