Why don t you talk when you talk to a woman

Because she's not as bored as you and doesn't want to chat

There are many single people in society, they are not in a hurry, but their parents are very anxious, so they will introduce their sons or daughters to blind dates through various means. At this time, the boy may take the initiative, and the girl will be more indifferent, for example, when chatting, the boy will always introduce a new topic, and the girl will reply with some short words such as um or oh and then stop talking. This shows that girls don't want to go on a blind date, and they don't look down on this boy, for example, the boy is not very handsome, his own conditions are not particularly good, and the family is not very rich, so he can't let the girl like it at all.

Although most girls don't want to change their strength by getting married, they also need to find someone they like.

In fact, the problem is not in the boys, nor in the girls, the main thing is that the two people don't look at each other, otherwise there will be a very hot topic after the chat. If the boy finds that his blind date has the above performance, he can explain the situation clearly as soon as possible, and don't keep procrastinating, which is delaying his time. Maybe the girl is chatting with another person of the opposite sex when she chats with you, and at this time the girl is very active, because this boy is relatively good-looking, which makes the girl very excited.

The boys and girls who enter the blind date market are not particularly to get along, but there are some very picky people. As long as they don't dislike each other, they can also achieve positive results, but this situation is rare, and they may not meet the right person.

I think the main reason for this situation may be because the other party and the boy do not have any topics to talk about, or it may be because the girl has some other situation and does not reply to the other party in time; I think the main problem is that the boys' topics are too boring, the interaction is very poor, and the two sides are not on the same channel.

The reason why this phenomenon occurs is because for girls, they feel that the two of you are not suitable for the whole process of getting along.

1.Dissect girls' interests and hobbies.

Chatting needs to have a topic, if you don't know what to talk about with a girl, it's better to learn about her interests first. You can learn about her life and hobbies from social networks, moments, Weibo and other channels. After understanding her interests and hobbies, you can find some topics to chat with to increase the depth and breadth of the topic.

2.Start the conversation with open-ended questions.

If you don't know how to talk to a girl, try to start by using open-ended questions to elicit the conversation. Open-ended questions do not require a specific answer, but can lead the conversation to a topic. For example, "What do you think of the night view of this city?"

3.Ways to increase tacit understanding.

In the process of chatting, pay attention to listen to the words of the girl, and don't blindly grab words or express your own opinions. In line with the girl's words, give responses and feedback. At the same time, you can also come up with some ideas of your own to elicit hers.

This can better increase the tacit understanding and trust between the two parties.

4.Pay attention to the place and occasion.

The location and occasion of the chat has a big impact on the choice of topic. If you're in a noisy bar or nightclub, don't choose a topic that is too serious, but choose something that is light and interesting. If you're chatting in a quiet café or park, you can choose more in-depth topics, such as outlook on life, philosophy, and more.

Pay attention to the place and occasion of the chat, choose the right topic, and enhance the communication between you and the girl.

5.Be confident and sincere.

The most important thing in chatting with girls is to be confident and sincere. Don't be nervous for fear of losing your words, and don't deliberately say things that aren't true in order to cater to girls. Keep your own attitude and style, and communicate with a sincere heart, so that you can leave a deep impression in the hearts of girls.

6.Pay attention to words and imagery.

When chatting with girls, words and images are also very important. Don't say inappropriate or inappropriate language, and don't behave in a way that is impolite or inappropriate. Pay attention to your words and deeds, maintain steadiness and politeness, and let girls feel your kindness and warmth.

7.Learn to pay attention to girls.

Chat with a girl and learn to pay attention to her words, deeds and expressions. Girls sometimes express their emotions and moods through facial expressions, body language, etc. Learn to observe and analyze the girl's performance, give timely feedback and respond to her emotions and feelings, and shorten the distance between each other.

8.Learn to adjust the subject.

When they first meet girls, many people will try to start with the topics they are good at. But sometimes these topics are not attractive to girls, so you have to learn to switch topics in time. If you find that the girl is not very interested in the current topic or does not want to talk about it during the conversation with the girl, consider adjusting the topic so that the girl is more engaged and actively involved in the discussion.