The bad side of a white lie, the good side of a white lie

Oh no.,I know (someone might plagiarize.。。 Whether the lie is well-intentioned or malicious, to deal with others with such lies is to deceive others; To deal with oneself with such lies is to deceive oneself. White lies, which always emphasize their good intentions, are deliberately divided into the moral category of good in the perceptual world, so that white lies seem to draw a clear line with the malicious deception that people hate in moral evaluation, and thus become more easily accepted by people.

However, we should not ignore rational thinking because of emotional likes and dislikes, and for this reason, the author believes that on the topic of whether a white lie hinders integrity, the deceptive nature of a white lie determines that a white lie will inevitably hinder integrity. A white lie will generate a lot of hope for the deceived person, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and if one day the lie is dismantled, then the blow to that deceived person is huge.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, and tell the truth to his relatives who are already sick.

At this time, everyone will form a united front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make the patient full of hope for **, so that the patient can spend the rest of the years in a peaceful state. Is this an undermine to integrity?

When a child who does not rhyme with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his relatives, how to explain to him that his relatives have gone. We think the best thing to do is not to tell him the real situation for the time being, just to say that he is far away for business, or studying and working abroad.

When the child is sensible and has a certain ability to bear, and then tell the truth, the child will also understand the behavior of his relatives and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Is it also an obstacle to integrity?

When the mother of a soldier who is on a mission in the field is terminally ill and breathes from the heat, how much he hopes to see his son for the last time, but the son can't come back, can't do a little filial piety for the old mother, take care of the mother who once broke her heart for her son, he is very sorry, and he is also very worried. And the old mother understood her son very well, and told her relatives around her that she should not tell her distant son after she left, and she could not distract him, but to say that his condition was stable, so that he could be loyal to the country with peace of mind. Is such a white lie an obstacle to integrity?

I don't know if it's probably anyway.

If Xiao Ming's white lies to Qiuzi are revealed, it may make Qiuzi even more heartbroken.

Maybe it's a little too simple.

The motive of a white lie is good, and if it will cause more serious consequences and the gains outweigh the losses, make up white lies;

2. If the willpower of the person facing the object is very weak and cannot accept the sudden blow, it will make up a white lie, which will not make it worse and add fuel to the fire, and that person will not have any problems in his heart, which can be regarded as a comfort. 3. In any case, a white lie always wants to achieve a good end, so I think there is nothing wrong with a white lie.

4. There is a saying that goes like this: a white lie is beautiful. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the hopes of others, the lie can be transformed into understanding, respect and tolerance, with magical power to soothe the hearts of others.

5. If it is for the sake of no longer suffering and no sorrow for yourself or others, what if there are more lies?

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Analysis: The development of integrity requires honest reception. A white lie is a lie after all.

Furthermore, those who tell white lies think that they are well-intentioned, and they are at ease, so that if there is a first, there is a second.

This is a lie after all, and once people get used to it, who can know whether the next lie will be good or malicious?

What if you know?

Good intentions, but what happens to the deceived once they know the truth?

will be more sad, thinking that the world is hurting with both the good intentions of the deceit and the deception.

Moreover, since it is a lie, it is a lie, that is, one party knows the truth, and the other party knows the illusion!

It may be kind to those who know the truth, but it does not mean how much kindness there can be for those who know the illusion.

Since it is necessary to use white lies to make a fool of himself, then the deceived person must be very fragile psychologically, and he hates being deceived very much.

I have been deceived, and I must be deceived back to feel at ease.

This is an example of an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth!

With the first, there is the second. The deceived become deceivers, and once there are deceivers, it means that new deceivers will be created.

Does a white lie hinder the development of integrity?

As long as the nature is good, as long as it is for the good of the other party, the most important thing is to have a clear conscience after saying it!

White lies are sometimes beautiful!

If it's to help a friend, that's good.

A white lie is also a lie, but it has a different meaning than a real lie!!

Can you say that good intentions can be bad?

It's good, because as long as it's good, it's OK.

But today, when we talk about "lies", there is also a definite term - well-intentioned, and with the addition of this qualifier, the nature of lies has also undergone a fundamental change. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, the dialogue of people's kind hearts, a trace of warmth for people to comfort each other, and a kind of tender ...... that flows from the bottom of people's heartsNo one will be interested in its credibility, and even if someone who hears a white lie knows that it is a lie, he will still try to believe it, and he will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes he will be grateful from the bottom of his heart.

Some friends believe that a lie is always a lie, no matter what the starting point is, no matter what the result is, what cannot be changed is its deceptive nature. Therefore, a lie, whether it is a lie that is not good or not a good lie, even if the starting point is good, still violates the principle of good faith, because the essence of integrity is to be honest and trustworthy, and since the lie has been told, it does not matter if the truth is told.

Some friends think:

White lies have good intentions and good results. White lies not only do not hinder integrity, but also greatly enhance friendship and affection between people, and have an indelible effect on social stability.

Because it should be good. Because the emphasis is on "white lies"!

Since it is well-intentioned, there should be no harm, but a risk!

Risk: After knowing the truth, the person you lie to may turn your face without appreciating it, affecting your relationship!

The person you lie to may lose trust in you after knowing the truth, and some things may have to be considered before deciding whether to tell you or not!

The person you lie to is very likely to feel deceived and fooled after knowing the truth, and is extremely angry, even if he is well-intentioned, when he knows the truth, the pain of being deceived will be more painful by the truth!!

It's possible that you need to expand n lies because of this white lie to cooperate with this white lie!

Personal opinion: Since it is a lie, it will not be good, whether it is good or malicious, it is always a lie, what is better than knowing the truth, clearer and more clear? The reason why white lies exist is because they question the other party's courage to face reality (for fear that the other party will not accept it) and their ability to persuade themselves (for fear that they will not be able to comfort the other party), so they ......

Use ...... sparingly

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Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is a lie. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even to others, causing losses to the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith and don't know what to do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, lovers, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved", "At most, how long can I live in this world?" and so on. They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are the truth, who would be so cruel as a judge sentenced a prisoner to death, to his relatives who are already sick.

What about telling the truth? Is this an undermine to integrity?

It's very hard, word by word, don't plagiarize it. If you don't like it, don't spray.