Change the bad things you didn t want to do before you talked, what bad things do you want to change

I think if you don't speak through your brain, it's probably because you don't have good thinking habits. In other words, you may not just speak without your brain, and you may think less in other situations. To change this problem, the most fundamental thing is to develop the habit of thinking, which can be done when you are alone.

When you try to talk to yourself in your head, when you think of something, now you doubt it in your mind and think about whether that idea is more reasonable. If you can develop this habit when you are alone, you can do the same when you interact with others. Have a good life.

In your case, first of all, you should be a straightforward person with a straight temper, but you regret it.

First, keep a diary and record the events of the day, especially the things you regret, and reflect on them. At the beginning of a new day, think about yesterday's actions.

Second, try to speak as little as possible, and if you must speak, you must know the value of speaking.

Third, it is certainly not something that can be changed at one time, and persistence will always be effective.

Hope it helps.

Shut up. Listen to what others have to say.

My eyes always blink very often, and very hard, and I have been like this since I was a child, and I still can't change it.

I don't know what my situation is, my eyes always blink unconsciously, and I don't feel uncomfortable, but I just squeeze my eyes hard.

When I was a child, I was beaten a lot because of this incident, and my dad always thought that I was doing it on purpose. He thought that I would be able to fix this problem by beating me a few times, but in fact I still haven't changed it.

I know it's a bad thing, always squeeze your eyes hard when you blink, and when you talk to others, you really feel a little disrespectful to others, and it looks very good.

I really miss when I was a kid, because no one ever cared about this kind of thing at that time, and I didn't really care about it, but as I got older, people always told me that I had this problem.

I knew it very well in my own heart, but I just couldn't change it, and I felt desperate. Every time someone reminds me, I always want to hammer him in the head, I don't know what's wrong?

For a while, I felt inferior because of thisBecause I have recorded it with my mobile phone, it is really ugly when I squeeze my eyes, and I always feel that my image has been damaged.

As I grew up, I consciously corrected this problem。Whenever I want to be in a hurry, I always turn around or cover my eyes with my hand to keep it from being seen by others.

I don't care much about this anymoreI found that the more I didn't care, the lighter the situation, and the more I thought about it, my eyes were like springs, and I kept blinking and blinking.

No one is perfect。Everybody has their own little problems, and I guess that's insignificant. The quality of life still depends on whether you work hard, or how many responsibilities and obligations you have assumed.

Life doesn't owe us anything, and a little bit of a problem is not a problem, as long as you are brave enough to face your life and live happily.

Today's young people have developed a lot of bad habits, staying up late, staying up late to play with their mobile phones.

I used to have good eyesight, and I could see the blackboard (and the words on the blackboard) when I sat in the last row, and I often stayed up late to play with my mobile phone, play games all night, and get up the next day with a red contact lens effect. Now without glasses, it is difficult to distinguish between male and female at a distance of 30 meters, and there is no distinction between humans and animals at a distance of 50 meters. said that it was fun to go to bed at ten o'clock, and picking up the mobile phone was like drinking Meng Po soup, forgetting everything.

When I woke up the next day, my phone was out of battery.

It is also a bad habit to lie in bed. As soon as the alarm goes off, tell yourself that it's okay to sleep for five minutes. When I woke up again, it had been almost an hour, and I continued to play with my phone.

If you can't get up, you can blame the quilt for being too sticky, and after 300 rounds of fighting, you finally used a move Shaolin King Kong leg to kick away the quilt to decide the winner! If it weren't for the discomfort of holding urine or being too hungry, this trick might have to be kept. I feel more tired getting out of bed than going to work.

Finally, I still have a habit that I can't break and don't want to break. I just miss you! It's like being poisoned, but you don't want an antidote, and you want to do it until you die!

I have a bad problem of laziness that I can't get rid of when I try to change it.

Actually, laziness is a part of human nature. That is, laziness is innate. Everyone knows that laziness is the counterpart of industriousness, and industriousness is manifested only when there is laziness.

Speaking of which, it is not to let the landlord continue to be lazy, but to let the landlord realize that laziness is not his own bad problem, if it is a bad problem, this problem will definitely be able to get rid of it! As I said above, laziness is common to everyone, but why are there still hardworking people in real life? Because these hard-working people, in their hearts, have a criterion, which is this criterion to keep themselves from being lazy This criterion is like a goal I think the landlord can understand, right?

Laziness is a psychological boredom. It manifests itself in a variety of forms, including extreme states of laziness and mild melancholy indecision. Anger, shyness, jealousy, disgust, etc., can cause laziness and prevent people from doing what they want.

The laziness of some of the students is highlighted in their daily studies and daily life.

Lazy. Sometimes I really want to be diligent, but I always can't help but be comfortable, I just want to do nothing, but I regret it afterwards, especially in studying, which makes my efficiency very low, but I can't be diligent. I have three main types of laziness.

The first is slackness with evil, or laziness with evil, and its essence is procrastination and postponement. People in the world or practitioners have this mentality. The world will do the right thing, today to push tomorrow, tomorrow to the day after tomorrow; In Buddhism, if you postpone the cause of meditation, today it seems that you are very tired and you don't have time, but tomorrow, a lot of entertainment has to be done, and it is postponed, and the day after tomorrow, what will ...... happenWe will postpone the revision of the Fa today to tomorrow and the year after next year.

Even though we know that we should do the good Fa, but we just push it today and tomorrow and never do it, this is called being lazy with evil.

The second is laziness in scattered and bad things, and dwelling on the unremembered and evil dharma is called loose and bad things, and scattering in bad or inferior things. The same evil laziness mentioned above, "same evil" is literally equivalent to bad karma, in fact, sometimes it is not necessarily evil, but it has the same state as and in accordance with evil. And scattered bad things are scattered on bad things, and bad things refer to the eight laws of the world, or some evil things and bad karma, all of which are called loose bad things and laziness.

Let's talk about the third type, self-deprecation and laziness, which is equivalent to self-abandonment and despise yourself. Some people have low self-esteem and have a self-defeating mentality, which is a kind of laziness. For example, some people say, "I'm too old to do good deeds."

It is laziness to give up the practice of the good Dharma on the grounds of old age. Some people say, "I can't do my karma again." Using heavy karma as an excuse to abandon the good dharma and despise oneself is also a kind of self-contempt and laziness.

When it comes to these so-called reasons, they are untenable to analyze as a basis for laziness.