Why are you still worried about each other when you break up?

Because you can't let go of her in your heart, but you should understand that there is no happiness in reluctance

Some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one, don't wait until it's hurt to beg for forgiveness, don't wait.

When you lose it, you can make it back.

Since you have broken up, it is to recognize the reality, if you still feel that you can't let go of her, try to try to do it all over again.

If you don't have a chance to do it again, you have to think about what you do, and you want to control her because you still have feelings for her, right?

Use time, time is the best medicine for lovelorn mood.

You haven't accepted the fact that you've broken up with her, and now you still fantasize that you're still together

Two people have been together for a long time, have become accustomed to each other, and know everything about each other. If you break up, you will definitely have these feelings, and it will be good after a long time.

That's because you're not used to life without her! If you care about each other, you'll probably still be together!

This can't absolutely say that you haven't forgotten her, it can only be said that it is a habit, and habits are formed over time, and in the same way, it still takes time to get rid of this habit

'Cause you still love ...

If you still love it, just say it, the taste of loss is really not good...

You should still be in love with her.

Find someone to forget her again, or get back together with her, you choose.

It's normal, because you're used to taking care of and caring for her.

After all, she has been in love, but now you shouldn't need to worry so much, someone will care about her.

For many couples who break up, they are still very worried about some problems with each other, what kind of psychology is this? In fact, this psychology is a normal psychology, so let me talk about my personal opinion.

First of all, there are many forms of this problem, such as voluntary breakup, peaceful breakup, forced breakup, face-turning breakup and other fancy breakups, for these reasons after the breakup, sometimes we will find that we are still worried about each other, concerned about whether they are doing well, whether they are happy, whether they are sad and so on, in fact, these problems are also generated by our emotional problems.

Secondly, if we find that we are still thinking about each other after breaking up, don't doubt it at this time, that is your true thoughts, your thoughts are that you can't let go of each other, because you have feelings after all, so you will still worry about each other unconsciously after the breakup, at this time you can choose to refrain and tell yourself that you have broken up, if you are thinking about the past, it will only make you miserable, and you will not be able to get out of the past feelings.

Finally, the reason for worrying about the other party after a breakup does exist, but there is one thing that is really enviable, that is, the other party may be very happy, or people leave you and feel very happy, these are all possible, at this time your worries will not only not move the other party, maybe it is still a burden to the other party, then this will make yourself more painful, rather than this, it is better to understand, let go of the past, no longer worry about him, and make your life better.

So after the breakup, there is no need to worry about the other party, because this is just a little thought of your past feelings, and it doesn't explain any actual problems, so there is no need to worry about the other party, your worries are just superfluous or some things that have not been missed for the other party, and you may still feel that this is his feelings so you are worried, which is why you are still worried about his main psychological reasons after the breakup, knowing the problem, then you have to find your own answer, if it is me, I'll choose the question before I don't think about it anymore.

Because you haven't really let go of the other party or love pants model him But Hu Gaochuan is an unrequited love for you who are now broken up If the other party has no object and you don't have an object You can consider asking her out Talk about it seriously and see if you can reconcile If there is a chance of redemption If the other party has an object, then you can choose to bury this love in your heart You can also wait for him for a while If you wait until he turns back, then cherish your relationship Don't break up again Leave the recipe for each other If you don't wait for him to come back Then wait until you die and start a new life as soon as possible, and you will meet a better one.

After a breakup, you will be very worried about some problems with the other party, which is also a very normal performance. Although you broke up with each other, you have been together, loved each other, and still have a very deep relationship. If something happens to the other party, you are more worried about him, which is also human nature and a normal thing.

For example, if you break up and don't get together, but you treat him as a good friend or a friend, you will naturally worry about him when something happens.

However, if you are just worried about some small things about the other party, for example, whether the other party eats or not will affect your health, what the other party's mood is, and you still care about the other party, then in fact, you still have feelings for the other party, not for the feelings between friends, and you have not let go of the other party. You still like the other person to have this kind of worry. For example, if a couple has a very unpleasant quarrel, well, and generally breaks up, there must be some contradictions, they will get angry, they will quarrel, and they will break up with resentment.

But you don't have this emotion towards the other person, and you will worry about the other person. That means you don't have any feelings for the other person. In that case, I think it would be possible to compound if it were not a matter of principle.

After all, two people have been together for many years and have feelings, and they both know each other, and if they miss fate, they may regret it for a lifetime. There is something that should still sit down and try to solve it, rather than breaking up together. Cherish hard-earned emotions.

If something happens to the other party, it is normal for you to worry about the other party, it does not mean that you have no feelings for the other party, because as a normal person, you will have compassion and compassion, not to mention that there are emotions between you. So it's normal for you to worry about the other person.

If you are more concerned about the other party's body, that is, you still love each other, and the rest of your feelings are not over, if the other party encounters something, it is normal for you to worry about him, after all, you have been together.

You don't let go of the show For you now it's unrequited love It's normal It's normal to talk about it for so long There must be some feelings If the other party doesn't have a partner You can try to contact her Have a good talk with her Maybe she's waiting for you If he has a partner then the best thing is not to bother Bury your love in your heart You can do something that interests you Slowly let go Don't think about him.

It may be that you still love him and are worried about him, or you are afraid that he loves you too much and you can't accept what you will do to break up.

Worrying about him after a breakup is a kind of psychology that is still in love, which means that you still haven't completely let go of your heart, so you're worried.

In fact, it's just that the rest of the love is over, and I have been thinking about the other party in my heart, hoping that the other party can change his mind.

Because you have too much affection for him, you still like him. So I'll worry about him after the breakup.

This kind of psychology is still used to taking care of him, you should come out of a relationship in time to find a new love.

I believe that everyone has had the experience of breaking up, some people are forced to break up, and some people are active to break up. No matter what form it takes, as long as you have truly loved it, I believe it must be difficult to let go of it, especially the first period of time is the hardest. After a breakup, some people will be immersed in pain and unable to extricate themselves, unwilling to admit the fact of the breakup, and even find traces of the other party still caring about themselves through various ways.

Sometimes, we keep comforting ourselves over and over again, persuading ourselves to let go, but we can't control the emotion. I believe that as long as we go through a period of time, we will really let go, time will teach us, and it will also take us through. Regarding whether or not you will pay attention to each other's dynamics after a breakup.

Let me admit first, I have seen my ex's social **, and even obtained the other party's information through various means, trying to detect the other party's current situation from the slightest clue. But that's not all, there are no other thoughts, just a desire to keep letting go of yourself in this way. In this information age, it is difficult for us to be separated, and then we will have no contact at all, even if we do not intersect with each other, we will know each other's dynamics through mutual friends.

Some people will post their own news through the circle of friends and Weibo to gain the attention of the other party, and even cause the other party's current jealousy or suspicion. In fact, it is normal to have this kind of behavior, there will always be some difficulties in life, and after this stage, I will slowly be relieved. For couples who have just broken up, their inner feelings and stupidity are actually still there, but they can't be together because of reality or some reasons.

At this time, our hearts will not accept reality, and even if we are separated, we will miss each other and want to attract the attention of the other party in various ways. When I see my ex doing well, my heart will be touched, and it will even become unbalanced, why am I so sad, he can live so well. So he struggled in his heart, trying to make himself better, wanting to prove that he could still live well without him.

In the process of this contest between the two sides, I slowly let go.

When you first break up, it's likely that you're still thinking about each other. This is because the emotional fluctuations and psychological trauma caused by a breakup take time to digest and adapt, so in the process, it is likely that you will often think of each other and even want to get back together.

However, everyone's situation is different, and some people may come out of a breakup quickly, while others will take longer to adjust and adjust. Therefore, whether you will miss each other when you just break up, and the degree and frequency of thinking about each other will vary from person to person.

After a breakup, you will miss each other because of why, I think it is due to the following:

Clause. 1. The other party has long formed a habit of being good to himself, and he will naturally think of the other party. In a relationship, the other party's care and concern for themselves is one of the reasons to maintain the relationship.

After a long time in love, I have long been accustomed to the care of each other, and there will be traces of each other everywhere in life. Even if you propose to break up, you will often think of the good of the other party. For example, someone will pick you up when you get off work, someone will pick you up when you eat, and someone will help you when you open the lid.

Suddenly, your life is not as convenient as it used to be, you will encounter difficulties everywhere, and there is no one to help you with care. In that moment, you will often think of the other person's kindness to you.

Clause. 2. Seeing other people showing affection, or seeing something that has the common memories of two people. On the road of love, two people always have a lot of sweet pasts, a lot of memories and things to do together.

And when you propose to break up by yourself, you feel that the other party has not met your requirements, but your heart will still be dependent. When you see things that the two of you have experienced together, or things that you have had good memories with, you will always be touched by the scene and remembered the bits and pieces of the past. You will feel sad and sad, after all, there is a other person, you can do happy things, someone helps you share your worries, and someone helps you create more happiness.

Clause. 3. Psychological needs prompt you to miss each other. After all, two people have loved each other, they have been attracted to each other's former advantages, and they want to be able to last for a long time.

But because he proposed to break up, the other party did not keep the relationship and did not continue to insist on it. The girl still feels unwilling in her heart, and wants to let the other party know that she is good, so that she can turn around and coax herself, give herself a step down, and maintain her relationship. But the other party's abandonment, Chang Xian, who is still difficult to give up in the girl's heart, will often recall.

Even though I have given up now, the psychological need is very strong.

Hello, subject.

After reading your problem, because of a quarrel, your boyfriend brought up to break up, and every time you quarrel after that, you are worried that he will say to break up every time he quarrels.

There are possible reasons for this:

1 You are too dependent on your boyfriend, who occupies an absolute important place in your life. So the fear that he will be separated.

2. It may be that you will also propose to break up or divorce in a quarrel in the past experience. Like your mom and dad, grandparents.

3Perhaps, you are insecure, and your boyfriend is prone to thinking when he says this.

How to correct it. 1. Establish your own circle of friends and have your own close friends, the longer it lasts. Your sense of security will be stronger.

2. If you have a job of your own and have financial income, you will be much better.

3. Can you think about it if he really breaks up with you, can you accept it? What will happen to you? What do you think of from this? If you can't bear him to leave, what do you think he will do to stay with you?

4 Actually, your worries may just be an idea, and they may not really happen, because couples will always quarrel, there will be quarrels, and if the quarrel can make the problem clear, then their feelings will go further. If you don't have endless quarrels, it really hurts.

Best wishes.