My boyfriend who has been broken up for six months is still stalking, what should I do?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-02
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how long you've been breaking up, you've broken up now, and breaking up means that there is no relationship, your ex-boyfriend is still stalking you, and you can call the police.

    In fact, for this matter, it is completely up to your personal thoughts, if you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, then his stalking to you may make you happy and may also save your heart; If you don't have any feelings for your ex-boyfriend anymore, then you'd better make it clear to him, don't break it like this, break it off cleanly, otherwise it will be bad for anyone.

    Solution: 1. You still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend.

    I think if this is the case, if your boyfriend can continue to stalk you for six months after you broke up, it proves that he actually has feelings for you and wants to get you back.

    At this time, your boyfriend gives you a step, you just go down the steps, don't keep holding the shelf, and enjoy this stalking, enjoy your boyfriend's pursuit of you, this is purely your inner superiority!

    Six months is long enough, and human patience is limited, in case your boyfriend wears out, it's too late for you to cry.

    Second, I have no feelings for my ex-boyfriend.

    In this case, if you want to get rid of his stubbornness, you must be decisive, speak hard, and don't hesitate to give hope to others.

    You have to tell him clearly that you don't love him anymore and don't want him to pester you anymore, or you can just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and don't bother your life anymore.

    In short, you can say whatever is unpleasant, and it is best to let him retreat from the difficulties and stop coming to you for trouble.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you have been broken up for six months, and your ex-boyfriend is still stalking you, it proves that your ex-boyfriend really cares very much, likes you very much, and loves you. You must have had very good memories that caused your ex-boyfriend to miss the past and want to get back together with you. You must have done something to him that he remembers, you must have given him some memories that others have not given him, that proves that you must have loved him very much at that time, so since it is the person you once loved, then don't be so cruel to him.

    Please give him a little time, give him a little patience, and let him forget about you slowly. However, don't be so cruel to him, not to be indecisive, not to give him a swinging attitude, but to adjust your own tone, not to hurt the person you once loved, not to speak ill of him, to use the simplest language, in the most peaceful tone, to tell him your decision and tell him that this decision is irreversible.

    If you really don't want him to pester you all the time, then you can ask him out for a good chat. You have had such good memories in the past, so why not sit down and talk about the future now? You can slowly relieve his inner depression, inner loss and sadness of losing you through patience.

    Talk to him about your thoughts and tell him why you broke up with him. If he really can't forget you, he really can't let go of you, then you tell him that you already have someone else in your heart, and you are ready to be with someone else, I hope he will forget you, I hope he will never disturb your life in the future, and let him know that he will not be the person you want to go on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it has seriously affected your life and work, then you can choose to call the police, because this is beyond the scope of harassment.

    The reason why he will stalk you may be that he thinks that you still have some meaning to him, and you must show your attitude and position at this time.

    If we want to avoid him, we can change the place of work or home address, and if he can't find him at this time, there will be no way to harass him.

    We can ask our friend to help, sometimes there are many people and there is great power, and he will be afraid that there will be too many people on your side, so he will not dare to come.

    Don't try to entangle with the other party, the more entangled, the more unclear the relationship will be, so just let it go and leave him alone.

    We can find a new boyfriend, and when you have a new boyfriend, the other person may be in a difficult situation.

    Many girls who are in the pain of falling out of love may have tried many ways to get their exes back, constantly apologizing and explaining, making all kinds of promises, ** more than information, begging each other to entangle each other, and so on. But the effect is not ideal, and if the situation is serious, it will be directly blocked by the other party, and they will never get along with each other from then on. Intimacy is more like a game between two people, your constant exposure of the sense of need is like a constant attack, which will make him constantly defensive, make the target's barrier thicker and thicker, and finally even completely isolate you, then any behavior you do is ineffective.

    The right thing to do is to give him enough time to fade the negative impression you have in his mind. You must know that blind explanations and promises will only make the other party feel that you are too purposeful, and when you are too purposeful, everything you do will be redeemed for the sake of redemption in the eyes of the other party, and it will feel that you are acting and ineffective.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's good that you don't reply. If he acquiesces that you don't reply, your life will be much better. And you are also giving the other party a way out.

    He may lack control over that kind of information, and he thinks you need to go with him all the time, but people change. Some of the things that you liked about him at the beginning have gradually become the main reason why you broke up with him in the end.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, we should believe that in the vast sea of people, the world. Being able to meet is actually a kind of fate. Meeting is fate, knowing each other is fate, and companionship is fate.

    Some losses are doomed, and some fates are destined to never come to fruition. Sometimes believing in fate and believing in fate is not a kind of confusion and relief for us to our own destiny?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this case, on the one hand, you should be resolute and not let him have any illusions. At the same time, if he pesters you and harasses you, you can also call the police to deal with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ignore him, break up and break up, such entanglement will only be annoying, you find a boyfriend, he is dead.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What the hell are you expressing?

    Do you want to break up with your boyfriend and find a third person to make trouble?

    If you don't look for you, it's over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What the hell is expressed?

    Do you want to break up with your boyfriend and find a third person to make trouble?

    If you don't look for you, it's over.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you should let him know that there is no possibility for the two of you, and you must let him die, and then don't have any more contact! The most important thing is to disappoint him, and this can be achieved by finding a new boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Make it clear to him that it is impossible between the two of you, and it is a waste of time to be entangled, so it is better to put your time elsewhere.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this time, don't be soft-hearted, show a resolute attitude, or change to a different city life, so that you can get rid of him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Afraid of losing the person you love the most, you can't help but pester the other party to express things like "I hope you come back", which will not only lower your status, but also make your ex's impression of you worse. Don't rush to redeem after a breakup. The first thing we need to do is self-reflection.

    Reflect on what shortcomings you have that your ex can't bear? Recall the negative emotions that your own actions or words brought to the other person when you were together in the past. Learn to use empathy to experience the other person's emotions at that moment, empathy means that you can perceive the other person's emotions in an event, you can put yourself in the other person's position to feel the other person's emotions and feelings at this moment, and learn to empathize.

    Second, after a period of calming down, the emotions of both parties have been eased to a certain extent, and at this time you have also noticed a lot of your own problems, as well as the negative emotions caused by these problems. Once you understand your own problems, you must correct them accordingly.

    In remembering, when you are calm and improving, you must keep a calm mind and focus on yourself and what you want to do to improve your quality of life. Because improving yourself is a value-added process, a high quality of life can make you more confident and quickly enter the state of attracting your ex. The Veblen effect states that when you can constantly see your own value and increase your self-confidence, you will attract the other person, and the other person will care more about you.

    Be sure to spend more time with you as a way to promote mutual growth, make you more independent and more connected. There are many things you can do to improve yourself, such as: keep working out and running, learn new things, read useful books, develop your cooking skills, and manage your time well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

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    Break up with your boyfriend, but the other party is always stalking, how to deal with it?

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    broke up with her boyfriend, but he was messed up. 3 situations are illustrated: 1. The breakup was brought up by you.

    2. Your boyfriend is not willing to break up with you. 3. Prove that your boyfriend likes you very much. Since you brought up the breakup, there must be a reason for you.

    But you may not be speaking clearly, not firmly. Let your boyfriend think that you are headstrong, impulsive, and not really trying to break up. That's why he continues to chase and beat you fiercely, and fight to the death.

    This problem is actually quite easy to solve, if your boyfriend comes to pester you again, you will simply be neat and resolute, and hit him ruthlessly and reject him. Or you can quickly find the next boyfriend, so that he can break his mind. Otherwise, if you continue to be entangled like this, it will be a pain and a kind of torture for both of you.

    Feelings should be love is love, if you don't love, break up, when you make a decision, cut the mess quickly, and never be soft-hearted. Of course, as a boyfriend, your girlfriend has already proposed to break up. Because you love her, you don't want to let her go, and you still mess around, which is commendable.

    Will you win because you love to fight? But if your girlfriend is determined to break up with you many times, since you love her so much, you don't want her to cry bitterly and sadly. As a man, you have to be broad-minded, you have to learn to let go and wish her happiness and happiness!

    The most beautiful love is: I don't care if it's eternal, as long as Yunliang has it!

    It's because I've found someone else that he's going to get them in trouble.

    You have to communicate with him well Since you are not together, you don't deserve to be noisy, you have to bother each other, and it has nothing to do with him from now on, he is just not reconciled, and he has not yet recognized the reality, your attitude should be tough, don't let him think that there is still a possibility of being good with Qingbi.

    What can he do to stop him from making trouble with others?

    One is to communicate with him on your side, and the other is to let others avoid contact with him as much as possible, and if it doesn't work, you can also call the police to deal with it.

    He now wants to find acquaintances to find others through my phone messages, and then find trouble with others, I just don't want others to know.

    Then you should try to protect your information, if it is really troublesome, it is recommended to call the police.

    Would it be useful to call the police.

    Useful. Okay thank you.

    You're welcome, if you can, please give a thumbs up after settlement.

    If you call the police, what will the police do?

    The police will act as an intermediary to help you mediate, and if the man has been agitated, there will be a corresponding way to deal with it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You really don't like the boyfriend next to you and want to break up, and he is still entangled, so it's best to deal with this situation coldly. His invitation, please eat, go out to play, first make it clear, don't love, don't like it is not love it, don't accept it, and can't force yourself, accept. Please don't pester himself.

    Emotional things are barely coming, and the twisted melon is not sweet. And then don't care about everything he has, ignore it, don't get involved. After a long time, he felt that you really didn't like him, and he gave up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Clearly tell them that they don't want to, and they won't associate with them no matter what, so that they will die.

    Tell yourself that you already have a boyfriend.

    If you pester.

    I will immediately call the police or tell my boyfriend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, you have to make sure if you really want to break up, if you really want to break up, it's very simple, find a guy to pretend to be your new boyfriend, he will see if he knows and will look away from you! First of all, you have to make sure if you really want to break up, if you really want to break up, it's very simple, find a guy to pretend to be your new boyfriend, he will see if he knows and will look away from you! First of all, you have to make sure if you really want to break up, if you really want to break up, it's very simple, find a guy to pretend to be your new boyfriend, he will see if he knows and will look away from you!

    First of all, you have to make sure if you really want to break up, if you really want to break up, it's very simple, find a guy to pretend to be your new boyfriend, he will see if he knows and will look away from you! First of all, you have to make sure if you really want to break up, if you really want to break up, it's very simple, find a guy to pretend to be your new boyfriend, he will see if he knows and will look away from you!

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