What if I love him but don t fit together?

You can love him – but you can only be his lover. You should look at the people around you to see if there are people who have always loved you and try to give them a chance. In that way, when you miss him, you can come out and meet him, and if you don't want him, you will give your future husband a good life.

Don't say I'm teaching you badly, I'm telling the truth. Nowadays, many people in society who love each other are not husband and wife. They all have families of their own, but they live happily together.

Because the family is not formed by love alone, and most of the family is formed by "interests". He can't give up some of his interests for you, you know? So look at the opening point.

It's like you like an antique vase and you can't afford it, but you can go to the antique store every day to see it! People don't have to give up, but they must not force it, and everything should go with the flow. Everybody's going to be fine.

A family, the female protagonist and the male protagonist outside, this is a common idea, but it can also be male and female.

5 years, that's a long time.

The choice is still up to you.

The current boyfriend is very good. Go back to the past, and you will be miserable for the rest of your life. He's not the same person as you anymore. These differences are a stumbling block for your later life. Try to love your new boyfriend! I wish you all happiness!

People should know what they want and go for it.

Thinking too much, is it really that hard to love someone?

You already think that you are not suitable, even if you love very much, but the love of two people, the most important thing is the right question, time is the best medicine, you can smooth all wounds, and you will definitely meet loving and suitable people in the future.

How important it is to be suitable

Whether the view of money is consistent. Almost all of our lives are inseparable from money. Our attitude towards money can affect most of our lives.

Therefore, it is very important to have the same view of money when two people are suitable, otherwise they will often quarrel. For example, one person spends lavishly, and the other is very picky. The view of money is completely different, and naturally, there will often be contradictions.

When we go to eat together, one person wants to eat better, and the other only wants to eat the cheapest. When it comes to shopping, one person wants to buy something decent, and the other person only wants the cheapest, and the quality doesn't matter at all. Because of the different concepts of money, the attitude towards life is also completely different.

Naturally, there are often quarrels over how to spend them, and there are constant quarrels over money.

Such a day is very painful, and if there is no tolerance, life will be even more difficult and difficult to last.

Whether there is mutual trust. Although sometimes, two people are together, but if there is no full trust, it is difficult to last long. For example, sometimes, because the company is really going to work overtime, and the other party always suspects that he is going on a date, and he often follows him.

No matter how you explain it, the other party just doesn't believe it, and even has to constantly check the mobile phone call history, chat history, etc. For example, if you dress better later, the other party thinks that you are deliberately dressing up, and you want to find someone to date, etc. If there is a lack of trust, it will become overly sensitive and suspicious.

When trust is lacking, either they hide from each other, or they are suspicious, and such a day must be very tiring.

Only by trusting each other can the two people live their lives easily, and their lives will be beautiful and happy.

Whether the three views are consistent. Only by having the same three views, speaking and doing things, can we be on the same channel, can we understand each other, and can we communicate better. If the three views are inconsistent, the two people will have nothing to say.

I don't understand what you're saying. I can't understand what I'm saying. The point of understanding is not always on one channel. Originally, what you said was for the good of the other party, but the other party thought that you were deliberately making things difficult. Anyway, the other person always seems to understand you from the opposite angle.

To do something together, two people always quarrel accidentally, and they can't work together at all. The three views are inconsistent, life is very painful, it is too difficult to communicate, or even impossible to communicate at all, in this way, naturally, it is difficult to last.

You can consider breaking up, changing someone, or just going to be the right person, after all, it's the right person.

Without feelings, it is destined not to be long-term, and a little contradiction will erupt, and there is a great chance of separation.

The most important thing to be together is to truly love each other, and if you go together because it is suitable, it is difficult to get real happiness and joy from a marriage.

In fact, I think sometimes suitability is more important than love, after all, in the life of two people, if it is suitable, it will slowly be like.

The feelings of the two people are slowly sublimated, from strange to familiar, and then to knowing and loving each other.

I know that two people are not suitable, and there is no good result together, so what can I do if I love her very much.

How to say it, two people who are not suitable are like two hedgehogs who love each other very much, and they want to hug and keep warm, but they find that they have stabbed each other all over their bodiesIn the end, either one person endures the pain and pulls out the thorns on his body, endures the pain of being stabbed by the other party and hugs each other, or two people choose to go the opposite way and leave each other.

Sometimes some people are really the type we like, that is, the appearance of our lovers in our minds, some people are really the people we love the most in our memory, but so what, life is not only the love time in front of us, but also the dull years in the following decades, the two of us are not suitable, we know from the beginning, if you insist on living together, in the end, you may also slowly wear out your love for each other, and then this relationship will be sweet from the beginning, and the person will be beautiful from the beginning, slowly evolves into making you reluctant to mention it again, unwilling to accept it again.

I think if you find that two people are not suitable, try to separate as soon as possible, because in this way, you have not seen each other's faces because they are not suitable, and finally they don't get along with each other, this relationship is still so beautiful in your heart, and then recall it after many years, at least you think about the beauty of the past, not many years later, full of scars, full of regrets.

Sometimes love doesn't have to go to the final end, parting halfway, giving each other the best memories, but also the best way to deal with your love, if you have to endure these discomforts, to the end of the relationship, then the end may be your heart hurt by each other, then love is no longer beautiful, and you may not want to mention it again, wait until the twilight years to recall the past, maybe there is no good time for you to recall, and ending at the most beautiful time is also a kind of regret beauty.

You can try to change yourself, and in this way you can get along with each other, and maybe it will become appropriate.

I love someone very much, but it's not suitable to be together, in this case, you should put your love silently in your heart, and if you are reluctantly together, you won't be happy in the future.

It is not recommended to continue a love without results, so I suggest that you should keep a certain distance from him, silently hide this relationship in the bottom of your heart, and send a blessing.

If two people are not suitable, there is no way to maintain it by love alone, even if they are together, they will quarrel, you can carefully explain your mood to her, and you can observe her reaction.

Since you know that it is not suitable, you must choose to break up even if you love again, otherwise this kind of love will only become a kind of torture.

It's not appropriate to be together and love each other, then at this time I should give up each other for love, in order to make each other better, this is the greatest love.

If you love her very much, then be together, it is not so important whether it is suitable or not, the most important thing is that the two have feelings.

Falling in love is a complex and very sensitive matter, and sometimes we will encounter some unfavorable factors, such as the relationship is not recognized by the other party or the other party's family and friends oppose it. At this point, we are often caught in a dilemma: do we keep going, or do we let it go?

In this article, I will briefly ** this issue.

Number one: take your emotions seriously. As a dignified person, you must first figure out how you feel and seriously consider whether the relationship is worth continuing.

If you feel that this person is worth waiting for, guarding, and pursuing, then keep trying; If you find it increasingly difficult to hold on, you should be honest with the other person and your heart and end the relationship in time.

Number two: understand why. When you are perceived as the "wrong choice" to be with someone, you need to ask yourself why you think so.

Is it the other person's injustice to you or the other person's behavior that makes you feel embarrassed or hurt? Or did you make the wrong decision on the spur of the moment? In either case, you have to dig deep and find the cause in order to make the right decision.

Number 3: Ask for help. Sometimes we feel like we're struggling anymore, but we don't know how to make a choice.

At this point, friends and family become your treasurers. Please find people who listen and support you in the spiritual world, and think about problems and solutions with them. If necessary, you can also seek the help of a psychologist or a professional such as a relationship or grip counselor.

Fourth: Honesty and communication. Long-term addiction and secret bad relationships We must communicate deeply and be honest to solve the dilemma, even if you love each other very much, you must also be clear about your happy and unhappy position, don't just feel sorry for the other person's happiness, even if you really can't be together, there are many subtle but relatively objective ways to deal with it.

Communication can bring clarity to problems, expand your horizons of mutual understanding in future relationships, and ultimately help you and the other person make the right decisions.

In general, when you encounter a relationship that is not favored, you must dare to face your emotions and problems and make the right judgment. As mentioned above, we can take our feelings seriously, understand the causes, ask for help and communicate openly, and constantly improve and adjust our mindset in the process of solving problems. Only in this way can you get through the storm and move towards a healthier and happier relationship.