Whether you like it or not, whether you can be together or not are three different things

Two people who like each other but are not suitable should try to run in together, in case the run-in is good, no two people meet the suitable.

If you like each other, then believe that there is something in you that can attract each other; And you feel that you are not suitable for each other, indicating that there is another part of the conflict and contradiction between them.

In fact, most couples have a favorite part and an inappropriate part, and no relationship is perfect. And couples who can be together are only willing to tolerate each other's inappropriate parts because they like each other more and less inappropriate parts because they like each other.

They are together because they like each other, and then they accommodate each other because they are not suitable for each other, and they continue to accommodate each other. If you feel that it is worth moving to each other for the sake of each other's liking, then go ahead; If you don't think it's worth it, you can also consider giving it up.

Secondly, the relationship needs to be run in and managed, if there are some contradictions and conflicts between you at the moment, but you can improve your emotional intelligence and know how to better manage this relationship, maybe the incompatibility between you will slowly become suitable in the end.

<> "Why do two people like it even if they are not suitable when they are together?"

01 What is "running-in" "Run-in" is that the two of you have a common goal and want to work hard for each other's happiness and future, so it is both sides.

02 What is "unsuitable" "Unsuitable" is that there is only one person working unilaterally, you want him to become what you want, and he wants you to become what he wants.

If you insist on changing the other person, then why not find someone who suits you in the first place, and loves each other without changing? Sometimes you have the illusion that not being suitable will be the same as complementarity? But complementarity also has to run in, the reason for the establishment of complementarity is that even if the two of you are different, but each other has found the rhythm of getting along, and each other's skin can make up for each other's shortcomings and move towards happiness together, and it is not suitable to make up for it at all.

I'm wronged" "I feel like I'm sacrificing because of your heart", and I will always be unhappy together and have no way to communicate. A good partner will make you better and better, you will be willing to become a better person for him, and you will become better and better together. The two of you always have to move forward and backward when you walk together; And the person who is not suitable will only force you to no way out, or make you feel very lonely and lonely on the emotional road.

The best way to judge whether you are "running-in" or "not suitable" is to see if the problem has been solved after the two of you quarrel. Partners who can run in, they will find ways to reconcile with each other, and both of them are willing to work hard for each other's relationship; But if the two of you are not suitable, you will always quarrel about the same problem, and there will be no solution, and you will only quarrel endlessly, consuming emotions and hurting each other.

Why do so many two people who know that they are not suitable still force each other to run in? In fact, we are unwilling to face the fact that we are not suitable, we are afraid that without him, we will not choose to hold the spine quickly, we would rather live in inertia and comfort ourselves with habits, and use avoidance to live one day at a time. It's not difficult to get, you have to learn to let go first, and run in with the right person, life is a very beautiful thing, it will be extremely happy in life, so that you can't help but grin when you sleep at night.

Sometimes, two people may be together not because they are really compatible, but because they share common interests, similar life experiences, or emotional dependence. In addition, some people are afraid of being single or lonely, and Sola is so devastated that even if two people are not completely compatible, they will choose to stay together.

At the same time, our brains secrete neurotransmitters such as dopamine during a relationship, chemicals that can make us feel happy and satisfied. This feeling can make us think that the other person is the person we are looking for, even if it is not.

While these reasons may explain why two people are together, it is difficult for the relationship to last in the long run if there is no real emotional connection and mutual respect between the two people.

That's macro because I liked it from the beginning.,Often like a person is the kind of love at first sight.,I don't know each other.,Especially the younger the more you look like this.,The book is already like it.,How can you give up easily?

If it's not suitable, don't be together, it's better to find someone like me with good conditions and good character.

Hello, I think it depends on why it is not suitable, if it is a family situation and material conditions, it is still possible to be together, because material conditions can be changed through struggle. And if it is spiritual, for example, although two people love each other, but their respective values and life concepts are different and inappropriate, then they should not be together. Because even if you love each other now, you may have contradictions and inconsistencies in the future due to different concepts.

If it is inappropriate in some other aspects, such as whether some parents will calculate whether the zodiac is appropriate when they give their children a blind date, whether the eight characters of the two people's birthdays are compatible, or whether they directly take the two bends of the jujube person to see the fortune teller, etc., I think you can serve these situations together. All in all, I think you can consider loving each other, as long as you don't have too different concepts such as grand values.