What does it feel like to have two people together who are not a good fit?

I guess I'm in that state right now. I'm a person who hardly argues, but he can always easily touch my anger. Because the two have different thinking patterns and different ways of doing things, they quarrel almost every day at the beginning, and many times because of different understandings of a sentence and a different understanding of a behavior.

The two can argue for a long time about a sentence and a thing, but later find out that they didn't get each other's points because of different ways of thinking. Tired more than liked.

Like I said, he sent my dog sick, I was in a hurry, I wanted to ask for leave to take the dog to the hospital, but he said, do you think your boss will like you, and then said that I was a meal, I feel that he is really inhuman, I said that the dog is sick and I am uncomfortable, and the dog has a bad stomach, and then she said that you are like this for this matter? It's not appropriate, we have quarreled many times, every time he sees me whether it's in front of my friends or others, the first thing he does when he sees me every day is to discipline me, scold me and say I'm fat, I don't know how I can bear it, once I said that his sister-in-law is fat, this sentence, he pulled my hair, and I fought, of course I can't beat him, one sad thing, now I really feel that I am not a person of the world, not together, before he said he would break up with me, I also said that I changed, in the end I am no longer positive and optimistic, is full of negative energy and feels that he is very bad, because he always says that I, heheda, inappropriate is inappropriate, he is really inhumane to me, I have to let him do everything, he is a boyfriend, is it still me who makes trouble unreasonably every day.

The inappropriate feeling is that you understand that they are fine, but being together is like pumping at a flat tire; hoarse, shouting but unable to speak; Exhausted but always standing still.

Only after getting along for a long time do you know that it is not suitable, and you don't know it when you are in it, and you suddenly understand it. I realized that I was not conquered by love and feelings. Instead, I think the other person will change into what I want, but it's not...Nature is something that is innate!

Probably the inappropriate appearance is that the character you don't like is half of the other party, and it is uncomfortable for yourself....

Before saying a word, I will think about whether to say it, how to say it, how he will react, how I should take it, he doesn't understand the jokes, it will be boring and embarrassing together, very depressed, I don't want to see each other when I leave, I hate myself when I am with him, and I feel unreal.

We are also really inappropriate, not the kind of inappropriate that can get along if we are willing to run in, and it is better to be separated now than to torture each other after being together. Sometimes it's really better to have a long pain than a short one, and even if I'm sad to death now, I know that this is the best outcome for me and you.

Quarrel when you meet You can't say two words of the Cold War, and you miss each other crazy after the Cold War, so you meet and quarrel You can't say two words of the Cold War, and after the Cold War, you miss each other like crazy, and you keep circulating, and you don't stop getting tired, which is a waste of time, so it's better to get rid of yourself.

Tired! The most important word, if you feel tired, it's basically not suitable for the two of you.

Others say that I am gentle, kind, and good-tempered, but after meeting you, I suspect that I am jealous like a shrew.

If two people are not suitable, there will always be these three feelings, and one of them should be disconnected.

I'm not afraid of the difficulty of being alone, what I'm afraid of is that two people feel more difficult together, and this difficulty comes from the heart.

I said that I wanted to have my own house to feel at home, and he said that the house was not worth the price at all, and it was good to rent it for the rest of my life.

Signs that two people are not suitable: they have no common topic, they have different ideas about problems, they have a big concept of consumption, they have different schedules and rests, and they begin to dislike each other.

1. There is no common topic

When two people are not suitable, the most prominent point is that the three views are not the same, and the two people with different views have nothing in common, so when two people first meet each other, they may feel that they can't finish talking, and they feel particularly enthusiastic, and they will talk about the two people from childhood to adulthood, but after the enthusiasm fades, they find that the two people basically have no common topic.

2. Look at the problem differently

Many couples will encounter such a situation, maybe two people chatting and chatting but quarreling, because there is nothing outstanding about a thing, but some ordinary things, there is nothing wrong with two people, each has its own words, but two people look at the problem from different angles, and neither of them wants to let anyone.

3. The concept of consumption is large

There are many differences in living habits between two people who are not suitable, such as consumption concepts. Maybe their family conditions are relatively different, so it leads to two people's consumption concepts are different, there may be one party who upholds diligence and thrift, can save a point is a point, and the other party is required to enjoy life and pursue quality. In fact, there is nothing wrong with these two people, it's just that these two people are not suitable.

4. Different schedules and rests

Two people are not suitable, and another manifestation is that the schedule and rest are different. If one person is a night owl, and the other person goes to bed early and gets up early, then these two people don't even have time to intersect sometimes, 24 hours a day and night, and one of them must be sleeping every hour, so in this way, they have no way to continue to communicate, and no matter how strong the feelings are, they will become weaker.

5. Start to dislike each other

When couples begin to dislike each other, it shows that the other party is not so important in their hearts, and as time goes by, after people find some shortcomings in each other, the relationship will slowly decline, and the love will slowly decrease, so this is the time when two people start to be inappropriate.

When two people are together, they will feel very tired. If you insist on being together, it feels awkward to be together. How tired it can be for two people with different views to be together, there is only a reasonable reason to kick them away.

Inappropriate people will feel awkward together, something that should be fought for. If two people are not suitable to be together, it will hurt both of them a lot if it drags on like this.

Two suitable people together, can lead to quarrels. Two suitable people live together and try to get in touch for a while.

Not two people together. Not two people together to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and distress.

When together, two suitable people have to learn to give.

If you haven't registered your marriage yet, all kinds of inappropriateness, it's best to break up as soon as possible, even if you are reluctant to get married, then the life after marriage will definitely not be good. When it is broken, it is broken, and if it continues, it is chaotic.