Can such a boyfriend change? Or a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In your description, I don't see the slightest merit in you writing about your boyfriend. Just complaining, complaining that he is not generous and stingy. As you can guess, you are very dissatisfied with your boyfriend.

    Also, what girl doesn't like to have a boyfriend who is responsive to her needs? This big flaw of his makes you not see how good he is for you. Actually, think about it, he's slamming the door like this, you're still there:

    persistence", it can be seen that you are not a person who pursues material comforts either, and he also has something you like. Let's talk to him and tell him very seriously: I don't want to live too luxuriously, and I don't need expensive gifts.

    I just want to have an atmospheric boyfriend, I won't let him pick the moon for me, give me enough stars. I just hope he'll be generous to me, the money is earned and spent! I don't want to work so hard, I finally have to go shopping and eat with my boyfriend and have a hard time calculating how to save money!

    I'm not going to report my life to you, and I'm going to report my life to you like a prisoner. If you're not at ease, break up!

    In fact, in this society, love needs money as a guarantee. Giving the other person some small gifts will also make the other person feel happy and loved. I am in favor of giving some gifts to lovers on some special days, and I think men, macho, should make their girlfriends happy and enjoy the beauty of love.

    Of course, you have to give your girlfriend the gift she wants, even if you don't spend money, you can pick on yourself, but be generous to your girlfriend. Have you watched the TV series "Family Property"? Goofy inside is like this, taking away a lot of his girlfriend's favorite food at the party, but his girlfriend thinks he is ashamed.

    Would you be happy if there was such a person who had no money but valued you more than anything else?

    If you don't want to keep the relationship anymore and the relationship doesn't bring you happiness, break up! You don't have to be in a bad mood for a man who is angry with a small family. Either way, it's your feelings, and it's up to you to choose the ending.

    You can do whatever you want. If you like this man, you will spend your own money, save him from calculating and calculating, and make you upset to watch!

    I wish you happiness!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Should such a boyfriend break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Boys feel that it is not suitable to break up, and they will break up when they break up, there are so many good men! Once the boyfriend is not suitable, it is difficult to change it, and the long pain is better than the short pain!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sorry to hear about your experience, now you ask what to do? What if I'm not sure if I'm in a bad mood? Or how to get back your boyfriend who dislikes you so much and you still hold on?

    You are in a bad mood, you are disliked by your boyfriend because of poor family conditions, give up your relationship, you are very hurt and sad now, you can find friends to talk to, accompany, you can also find a listener, many people are willing to help you accompany you. If you want to contact me at any time, I can accompany you and talk to you, and I think all the teachers who reply to you are also willing to help you.

    I want to have a few analyses and suggestions about your boyfriend, you can refer to it, my analysis is not necessarily right, but the point of view is different, you can help you according to the situation, and ignore it if it's useless. Mature love is to love it as it is, not to love it as I want it to be.

    What you need is a man who accepts the real you, you can only say that this boyfriend is not capable of supporting the family and wants his wife to raise children, such a boy, are you sure that even if he does not dislike you, do you want him to be the father of your future baby? Your so-called relationship is very good, a family condition has been shattered, there are too many winds and waves in married life for two people to help each other, it can only be said that you are lucky to find that it is not suitable now, after all, there is still a chance to choose the right one in the future. If you talk about marriage, it will be more troublesome to find that it is not suitable than now, and if you have a baby after marriage, it will be even later to find that it is not suitable!

    You tell me. > who else said that girls with poor family conditions must not be able to find a good other half, this does not seem to be necessarily, at least there are many girls with bad conditions who marry very well, and the family conditions are not good, you can let yourself see where you can improve yourself, marry, family conditions, your own state, luck, comprehensive aspects, not a certain condition! But there is one point, you are a little unconfident, this is something that needs to be grown in the relationship, good boys will make you more and more confident, not make you more and more humble!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then what he said like this means that the relationship between the two of you is irretrievable, and he has no feelings for you and no longer likes you, at this time you have to learn to let go and learn to stop losses in time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, especially in terms of feelings, you can't change it with hard work, so if your feelings change, it's best to let it go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course it's true, this sentence is particularly correct, and I have deeply experienced it in my life. Some things really can't be changed by effort, maybe they are just meant to be.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is said that to love a person is to love all of him, including his shortcomings, because people cannot be perfect, but sometimes some couples really can't do this, let's take a look.

    What does my boyfriend mean when he wants to change me.

    At the beginning, it was because I loved you very much that I would accommodate you in everything. I think your boyfriend did this for the sake of a longer relationship between the two of you. Because if you change a little bit, he will feel that you are paying attention to him, he will be very moved, maybe your relationship will change for the better.

    Does my boyfriend want to change me and break up.

    Anyone's patience is limited, so you can't always let you do things alone, if two people have a long-term plan, you can change it a little for each other, so that you can slowly run in better, there is no need to break up, if it is not worth breaking up just because you want to change.

    Does my boyfriend want me to change because he loves me?

    Loving you and loving you is actually only felt by himself, maybe he just wants to make you more perfect, or maybe he wants to turn you into the girl in his mind, if it's the latter, then he doesn't love you, it's just his personality. If he doesn't love you, he doesn't spend too much time with you.

    Is it necessary for a boyfriend to grasp the way he likes?

    Not necessarily, you don't have to be his puppet, why change? The principle of love is that it will not change for anyone, if you change, you will not be the original you. To put it mildly, if you changed for him, but then broke up.

    Will you change for your next boyfriend? Do you really want to lose yourself?

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