Should such a boyfriend break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divide it! If, as you said, your boyfriend is not self-motivated, then as the gap between you grows bigger and bigger, he will become more and more inferior, and the final result will be unhappy, and the man's inferiority complex is very terrible!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When he has the skills and skills, maybe it's not your boyfriend, you have to learn to persuade your boyfriend, don't be too mean, this so-called self-motivated, or something takes time and experience, I can see that you are also a kind person, and you are also very affectionate to your boyfriend, which requires you to help a lot in life in the future, every time you talk about this issue, people are silent, indicating that self-esteem is also very hurt, but do you see his strengths, do you see the efforts he makes, Just like a swan, at first it was also an ugly duckling, which is all based on the efforts of the day after tomorrow, if you see that your boyfriend is really not self-motivated, when a monk hits the clock for a day, then break up as soon as possible, otherwise things may hurt more in the end.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There will definitely be harm to be gained, and now this society will definitely fall behind if it is not motivated. If you break up, you can only blame him for not fighting for your future, who is poor now, and can't even live the most basic life, so that you can only worry about life every day. Can't you guarantee that he will still love you as much as he does in the future, while he is afraid of our lives?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you live a good life first, but he still collapses. Let's break up, it's good for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can try to gradually become indifferent to him. Remember, gradually, and very slowly.

    The best outcome for him to be unaware is that he suddenly feels that you are so far away from him, and that it is impossible for the two of you to succeed.

    At this time, you can try to propose a breakup.

    The method is not necessarily good, but it can be used as a reference.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Know what you want to make rational decisions.

    Compassion and love can't be intertwined.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's hard to open up such a man, but you have to see if he's really not motivated or feel that the current form is really not suitable for him, you are a woman, you should be independent, not think about this man in everything, in case one day you give him everything you have and he fails you, then what should you do, the world is now independent of women, if you regard him as more important than your life, you can't turn back, in case one day he really hurts you, you will lose badly.

    I'm telling the truth, because there's a very clear example of a woman who doesn't think you can use your sincerity to try to change a man, because that's harder than going to the sky. A man will take all your kindness to him for granted, and when you start to be a little reactionary, he will start to resent you, and even wonder if you are starting to stop loving him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's talk about it and talk happily.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    With such a husband, do you think you should break up?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Think 3 days first.

    The first thing to consider is whether the idea of breaking up is genuine. Maybe it's a momentary impulse, and then regret it, just don't break up. For this reason, give yourself a 3-day buffer time, and if the feeling of wanting to break up has not disappeared after 3 days, go ahead.

    Organizing personal belongings.

    Keep your personal belongings in his room and his personal belongings in yours. Even if you decide to break up, if you have something, sometimes you will be reluctant to give up and be led by the nose. Organize your personal belongings and tidy up your mood.

    Don't blame the other person.

    There should be a reason for the breakup. Maybe the other party is not good, and you are injured. Even then, don't blame the other person. Because blaming the other person will make the other person angry, and the original purpose of parting may not be achieved.

    No excuses. If you ask to break up, the other person may blame you. At that time, you may be said something that you don't want to think about later. Even so, don't make bad excuses to break up with him.

    Don't take the breakup issue seriously.

    If the topic of breakup becomes serious, the other party's mood will be even lower. That being said, it's impossible to be overly happy.

    Just be sincere and don't make inappropriate jokes.

    Dispose of the memories that belong to the two of you.

    It's hard to deal with what belongs to the memories of the two of you. Therefore, it is important to recognize that this has a great impact on you. If you can get rid of these things, you will feel more relaxed and it will be easier to take a new step.

    Not contacted. Once you've decided to break up, don't contact casually anymore. There is a sweet saying to be friends even if you break up , remember that it is something close to a miracle. Connecting easily can lead to a loss of distance and a breakdown of separate relationships.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you know that your boyfriend is with you to cheat you out of your money, this situation should break up with your boyfriend in time. After all, you are with him, you do not get happiness, and you do not get sincerity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Have a good talk with your boyfriend and hope he gets rid of this bad habit. Because it will affect you later in life. Hope he'll listen to you. If not, then break up, and it's best to make a decision right away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Whether you should break up with your boyfriend or not depends on how you feel about him, and whether you can accept some of his attitudes towards you and some things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For such a boyfriend, you should break up with him, after all, he doesn't really like you, which means that such a man is too attentive and doesn't know that you pay for him, otherwise he won't treat you like this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is called what you get, you don't know how to cherish, and once you lose it, you feel a pity. When two people get along together, they like each other at the beginning, and it's also a period of love, girls sometimes recognize a little sex, and boys can let it endure, but you have been very cognitive and stubborn for a long time, and everyone's patience is limited.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your boyfriend dislikes you, then think about it again, make an appointment with him for a meal, explain it well, keep it, if it really doesn't work, break up, and eat this casual meal to end your relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you have this consideration, it proves that your boyfriend is no longer so perfect in your heart, so you have to recognize your heart, can you still see him?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to believe in your own feelings, once the average woman has a bad feeling about this aspect of the relationship, it is basically true, from your description, you can clearly feel that your boyfriend will not respect other women at all, and the respect for you is just to flatter. So, you get the idea.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Should I be separated from him? In fact, it mainly depends on whether you feel happy when you are with him, and whether you have enough words and hobbies together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This kind of man is not worth it, and he will not be happy when he gets married in the future, and the two of us can understand it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Should you break up with your boyfriend, then you can see from daily life whether he really loves you, and tell him how you feel about him, so that he doesn't want him to pay attention to it, and if he can change for you, it means that he still loves you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't have him in your heart, please let it go. When you give each other a chance, you also give yourself a chance.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on whether your relationship can continue to be maintained.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better to think about it, after all, it's not easy for two people to be together.

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