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In fact, you know very well in your heart that this person is not worthy of love, but you really can't let go of him in your heart, right? Loving someone is like this, and you are willing to sacrifice and pay in every way, and now you have counted so many pays, and you feel that you can't get the love you deserve, and you feel very wronged, but you can't give it up. I can understand your ambivalence, but what can we do as your readers, except to see if you pour out sympathy, constructive advice obviously can't be given, I believe that most people support you to leave this man, but are you willing?
Are you willing? If you are not reconciled, you are always giving, but haven't you always insisted on doing this? So how to do it depends on yourself, ask your heart clearly, and then make a resolute decision, some things should be put away, and some people should be separated.
Leaving him may be very painful and reluctant for a period of time, after all, living together has been together, living together is the most unforgettable for women, when you give your body to him, you have already decided that he is the man in this life, and he will never leave in this life. However, now you can count so many nots, so many unwilling and unconvinced, which proves that the psychology has begun to be unbalanced in this love, such an unbalanced love, how to maintain it? Even if you persuade yourself to join him again today because you are reluctant and unbearable, are you comfortable in your heart?
Doesn't it the same to continue to be together, and continue to complain in your heart, thinking that he doesn't know how to love you? According to what you said, maybe the real reason why he covets you is that you are too good to him, everything depends on you, whether material or physical, he just relies on you to love him and do not hesitate to give, so he will treat you like this, such a man does not know how to cherish you, so we will feel that you are better away, you measure it yourself, love is your own, the happiness of life is also your own, make a choice seriously. I wish you true joy and happiness as soon as possible, and finally send you a word, life is a lifetime, time is short, find someone who understands your value to spend your life together!
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Divide it, such a man may take care of you for the rest of your life, why bother yourself, there will always be someone who treats you as his all, gives himself freedom, and gives himself the right to find true love.
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He is a selfish person, it is not worth it for you to be soft-hearted, and directly and decisively separate!
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Grit your teeth and break up, this kind of person is not worthy of love.
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This doesn't tell the man to divide it quickly
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