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Since ancient times, the virtues of the Chinese nation, filial piety, benevolence, courtesy, and righteousness, when you were able to come together with him, you must have the advantages of liking him. Introverts are generally not good at expressing or communicating, so since you are a husband and wife, you should also try to communicate more in order to maximize the interests between you. Contradiction is an inevitable necessity of the existence of the fundamental relationship of human existence.
The spear can attack the shield and defend well, which can be described as an inevitability of the combination of yin and yang, and the problem will always have its causal element. Maybe there is a deviation in some of your views, then sometimes you need to analyze calmly, find out the crux of the problem, and try to balance the relationship as much as possible. Marriage is not easy, since we are together, for the sake of family trivialities, you will easily divorce, and you may regret it later.
I don't know your current state of life, but I hope you can be a wise woman, not everything is passive, take the initiative to grasp, show your positivity, and handle the relationship between the small family and everyone. After all, the elderly are not an obstacle for the younger couple for a lifetime. There should be many ways to solve it.
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Yes, such a husband is really sad. Communicate with him more and talk to him. If you want to continue living together, you have to change yourself and don't ask too much of him.
He listens too much to his parents because he is very filial to his parents and has no opinions, but after all, you are living a lifetime. If you're nice to his parents, that's it. Be patient with them, be patient, love covers all sin.
Touch them with love. Jesus loves you.
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Where is your conscience when an upright Chinese actually believes in a Jesus who has nothing to do with you, and says that your parents can live for a few days, and they are old? Poisonous scorpion heart, if you don't believe in so many good sectarian education in China, you will understand how ignorant you are after you die, and what do you think of your parents' nurturing grace? Not as good as an arrogant so-called God?
I believe that before you were superstitious about God, you were also superstitious about burning incense and worshiping Buddha, and you never believed in orthodoxy. People from developed countries come to China to poop and believe in Jesus, you still feel fragrant, but the supreme treasure of benevolence, righteousness and morality taught to us by our ancestors has been discarded, and others have been fooled and thanked others. You must know that the truth is here in our Chinese education, and our country is forced to develop harmful science.
You say that you are not disgusting, and Jesus loves you, indiscriminately, and Jesus' universe is too small! There is only heaven and hell. You're scared, aren't you?
If you don't believe in Jesus, you go to hell. Bah, only those who have demons in their hearts believe in Jesus.
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To be good to his parents is to be good to him, he is a filial son, has the virtues of the Chinese nation, is worthy of your love, and can also set a good example for your children.
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Women must not find a man who is obedient to their parents to marry, because there are almost no problems in such a marriage, and the mother-in-law will not treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter, don't believe in deification.
In the face of such a husband, there is no other way but to go with the flow.
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You said that your husband listens to your parents, and I think you also listen to your parents. If you listened to your husband in everything, you wouldn't have this kind of thinking now.
So you want him to listen to you when you ask questions, but who do you listen to? Do you ask him or who first when you encounter something?
He is setting an example for your son and letting him know that when he grows up, he will also listen to his parents.
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I used to hear the older generation say that it was best not to find someone younger than himself, but I don't believe it, I'm a year older than him, I always let him do something, sometimes when the two of them calm down, I also reason with him, it doesn't work, he feels that he has to make money mainly with him, what to listen to him, there is no way to say.
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The best way is for you to find a way to reconcile, if you can't reconcile and divorce, don't say that you will settle for the sake of the child, if you keep arguing like this, then the impact on the child will be greater, and the child who grew up in an unharmonious family will leave a psychological shadow, it is better to have a happy single-parent family to be happy!
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Let's leave, but don't tell your children, just live together, it's OK if the rooms are different, my husband and I are like this.
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People come through painful choices in this life, whether you choose your child to be wronged or choose yourself to be wronged To add a point, no matter who the child lives with, how happy it is, it will definitely have an impact on the child, and the difference is only big and small, and we can't define whether this influence is good or bad Just like Tony Leung's hesitant eyes, I like it very much, who knows if he likes it or not, the key is himself.
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It's normal for husband and wife to have a little quarrel, and the two should sit down and talk about why they quarrel. Whose problem the hell is it! Get to the root cause of the problem!!
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1.If he doesn't let you, will you let him, you love him before you marry him, and be more tolerant of your lover.
2.Look at each other's strengths. Instead of looking at each other unpleasantly.
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Think about each other's strengths, for the sake of the children, and have a good time.
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