Go with him or listen to your parents, and go with him or listen to your parents

Their connection is inevitable, they have a common love for their sons, even if they don't love each other anymore. Let's put it this way, he must love his son more than his son's mother, and more than you, when you have children, you will know, or you think for yourself, do your parents love you more, or do they love each other more, they give each other a mouth, they will resent, just like your boyfriend and his ex-wife, but if you give your parents a mouth, they will be heartbroken, but they will not hold a grudge against you, just like the place of his son in his heart.

Would he not contact his precious son's mother for your sake, even if that woman made him so sad, even if he hated that woman, but after all, it was the mother of his precious son.

You either accept it or you give it up. You're still too young to talk too much, think for yourself and calm down.

Let's go back! Your parents won't hurt you, your parents are from the past!

You will! Think of your parents, your home.

Don't be silly. Let's listen to my parents. You're so young and you're sure you'll find a better one.

After all, he's 12 years older than you. 12 years old. What is the concept?

If you are stubborn with him, have you ever wondered how your parents will feel? After all, he was a divorced man. Although there is nothing wrong with the love between you.

But then again. You are not an age group after all. He thinks you're looking at a child, do you understand?

There are a lot of things between him and his ex-wife, I don't think you will know about the landlord, and he will not tell you. If I were you. I will choose to listen to my parents, after all, parents are also for their own good.

I'm just offering a personal suggestion. If you still love him obsessively, then you choose him. Leave your parents' feelings and your future alone.

Parents, do you see bettas?

Listen to parents. Your parents love you the most and will never harm you.

And they have experience.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you!

That's right, people say that giving up is also a choice, but it's easier said than done, why give up in the face of the person you love? Even if she really gave up, would she be happy? Only people who truly love each other can give each other joy and happiness.

Friend, I support you, we don't want to be great people, just be ordinary people who have true love.

Be persistent in love, no matter how difficult it is; Work love, whether it is fruitful or not. As long as you do your best, you will not regret it. Giving up is definitely an unforgivable mistake.

Find a place to heal.

Falling out of love will happen in life.

It's good to be in the past.

I don't know if I feel the same way you do now.

She and I could be like you.

She was caught in the middle.

I can also relate to her feelings.

I also love her very much, and I am ready to marry her.

But the more I think about it now, the more impossible it becomes.

I haven't graduated yet.

She graduated this year and went to work in Guangzhou 、、、

I may not go back to Xi'an again.

I... Crying...

I cried sadly for the first time in my life!

Although ** said to come back. Come back and see me.

But I...

I decided to leave Xi'an after graduation.

Get out of this sad place!

Don't be sad, brother.

Let's talk about it first when your career is stable.

Or don't delay your own!

Your love is precious, don't give up easily! In that case, you're all likely to hold a grudge for the rest of your life. Your difficulties and obstacles are actually more ordinary, and many people have experienced similar experiences.

I don't have a specific solution, but I can warn you: if you don't have a good way to deal with this problem, there will be more than one solution that suits you, and the time has come to test your wisdom and use your brain.

Talk to her parents? Go ahead and prove yourself.

Because of the love of your parents and hitting the bottom of my heart, I hope you have a good person.

Exactly like my parents.

I only choose what I can accept, but don't fight them in person, because they will always be good for you.

They always think that there are a lot of bad people out there now, I'm dizzy, and I'm about to run to the third person, what should I do, what should I do, just listen to what they say right, and just deal with it in person if it's unreasonable. What are you afraid of when your legs are on you.

People always have to grow up, it is impossible to live under the protection of their parents all the time, and they must learn to be independent, although their parents are kind, but after all, there is not much benefit to themselves in the future.

Parents care about you, just because you never go out, you suddenly go out your parents ask so much, if you keep going out, your parents will be used to it, and they won't ask.

It has to be. It is also a kind of filial piety to reassure them.

I don't know what to do, my parents don't care about you, and in the end they don't love you, and they don't care about you. When you become a parent, you will know what they are struggling with.

I usually don't want my parents to worry.

Then you just move out.

It's all there! Here's what I said to my parents: I'm going ... May I?

Yes, otherwise your parents would have thought you had gone.

You have to remember that there are no parents who harm their children, only children who do not understand their parents. Every parent wants their children to be happy. You must still be young and have experienced too little, and you can't see things as thoroughly as the state chain, so it's better to listen to the advice of adults.

If you are above twenty-five, you will not ask such a question, I hope you test him, let him wait for you to be twenty-five years old before marrying you, this is also to give yourself a sufficient time to test your feelings for him, if he is still waiting for you after twenty-five, then, this generation of hungry people will recognize him, because he is worthy of your love, but I think, he will not, do not believe it, you can test him to return, in short, the happiness of your life is not buried because of impulse and irrationality.

Choose filial piety, you can find your daughter-in-law if you are gone, and you will never be able to come back if your parents are gone.

In fact, it is not possible to say who is right and who is wrong. Of course, your parents are doing this for your own good, for your future, with good intentions. Your boyfriend's family has also paid sincerely, unreservedly, and yes, the problem now is that the two of you have not found a common ground, a balance point to communicate.

If the man pays again, he will be powerless, this is a fact, you have to make it clear to your family, and you have to emphasize it. If your family still refuses to give in, then discuss with the man to postpone the matter, and after a year or two or more, wait for the man to pay off all the debts and have a certain amount of savings. The consequence of this is that during this period of time, the man may give up on you because of this, because he has given everything, and he has been made difficult by your family, maybe his heart is very unbalanced, you think about it from a different position, if you are him, you probably can't hold on.

There is also a possibility that you will be together even if you are really together in the future. The man will also have a pimple in his heart about this. His family will have an opinion of you.

In fact, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, since you are in love, since he has done his best, and your family, including relatives and friends, have seen the sincerity of his dedication, it is enough. At least he's genuinely good to you. Do whatever it takes to be good to you.

Cherish it. The man has 100 yuan and gives you 99 yuan, compared with the man who has 1 million yuan and gives you 100,000 yuan, the meaning is different, he pays everything he treats you, even if he only has 99 yuan. There is no need to say the truth.

Some parents really care about the happiness of their children, and some parents really care about their own face. The situation now is that you need to make a choice between the face of your parents and your own happiness.

Your parents raised you so big, you are so far away from them, they are also married and become other people's people, so you can also comfort your boyfriend, it will be fine when you get married, if you love him and he loves you, these will pass, don't take it too seriously.

There's some truth to what adults say, but I'm not sure that my heart is the most important thing, isn't it?

Is it you getting married or your parents getting married?

If you want your parents to contribute more money now and in the future, listen to them, and if you don't need it, for the sake of your feelings and happiness, then you make your own decisions.

I suggest that you still help your parents to set up a processing plant at home, start with some simple work, try to do what you can, do what you can, after all, this is also a way to integrate into society, and your parents can also guide you by your side! Remember not to be petty, say that if you don't do it, you won't do it, just think you're already working! Be humble and try to do it first!

Rush for a few years or a year and a half to accumulate a certain amount of savings and then take the test to do other work problems*** There is something wrong with what you said, please understand.

If you want to spread your wings and soar, you have to go through the training first, and this grinding does not grow under the care of the eagle's wings.

Therefore, I suggest that you go out according to your own path, the factory at home is your parents' and not yours, although it is still yours in the end, but if you enter the factory now, on the bright side: you can bear some pressure for your parents as soon as possible, and you can also reduce the fatigue of the family; On the negative side: it will only cause you to be complacent, and as a result, I think it will undoubtedly be a stifling for those who have their own ideals.

If you go out, your home is your last support, but also your most solid backing, no matter what the result is, I think you will have a way out, so there is no such tragedy as "breaking the kettle".

So, go out and fight while your parents are still in their prime, let them see that they can also make a difference.

Good luck! ~

Fallen leaves will eventually return to the roots, go out to experience a little good, you know what hardship is, I have been out for many years, when I came out with the same dreams as you, but now I feel that it is really not easy for parents, when they are older, what you can do is to let them rest early, enjoy happiness early, and give them a happy old age.

I support you to get out because only then will you understand what I am saying.

Respect your own choice, because the thinking of the older generation is to seek stability, such as the iron rice bowl in the past, but the current society is different, aren't many of the people who were laid off in the first batch of those who were also paid? This can't be said that the old man's thinking is wrong, after all, their experience is in the **, but at least you go out first, and in the end it really doesn't work, isn't it good for you to go home, there is a way out, things have to be done, and now you don't know the result You retreated, this mentality tends to make it, how can you have a strong self-confidence to do a career? ? Believe in yourself, believe in the ability and I believe in you!!

It's up to you, if you want to live a plain life, then listen to the arrangement at home (I feel that the arrangement for you at home will not be very bad), if you want to start your own career, then go out. If you don't have to make a decision in the near future, you can go out and feel it first, and then decide whether to continue the struggle or go home and live a smooth life.

Don't look at others, if you want to break through, if you see others do it, you will suffer a big loss, if you want to live a stable life, listen to your parents.

If you want to live a vigorous life, then break in, break into a world is not a big deal, seize the opportunity, believe in yourself.

It's okay to go out on your own, but don't hope for others!

It depends on what you want.

Listen to your inner voice, what do you want to do?