I lost myself, I couldn t find the motivation to move forward, and I was lost again and again in my

Everyone has their own unsatisfactory places, please be optimistic, don't look so pessimistic! You are still confused, you still need to meet a Bole who knows thousands of miles, and at some point you will know that you are so good!

Hehe, when Bole hasn't discovered you yet, you have to hone yourself.

It's gold that always shines!

You are still young It is recommended that you become a salesman, there are many benefits, one is to understand the inside of various industries, the second is to exercise their ability in all aspects, especially to deal with all kinds of people, and the third is to support themselves.

People live for themselves and fight for the life they want!

People live to earn a breath, there is no natural genius in the world, there is a chance to take it slowly.

Yes, gold always shines.

Make yourself positive.

Everybody has inertia, so it's hard to be cruel to yourself.

Set goals, this goal is divided into two is a lifelong goal, I believe you have already had, there is a short-term goal, this is the goal within a few years, and then plan to implement, the implementation must be calculated by day, plan out the plan to be done every day, every night to have a goal review, how much has been done, how much is not enough, how to improve the next day, etc., must be specific, I hope to help you. It's not terrible to be confused, it's terrible to have a goal and not to implement it, come on.

Don't be presumptuous.

It's a good thing to have dreams, but the reason why you think the way you do now shows that your motivation is not strong enough and is easily influenced by external factors.

Many times, you will complain about the environment, but in fact, your heart is not firm enough, because you don't know where your direction is.

Ideals are divorced from practice, find a hobby.

Hello landlord, it is fortunate that you can now find your weaknesses and know your situation, and it can be seen from your words that you are a young man with ideals and ambitions.

Then let me briefly talk to you about some of my life experience, it is very important for people to have a goal and an ideal, but do not position too high, look far, detached from reality, that will be very tiring, in such a tired situation, how to talk about ideals and ambitions, will only bring more and more pressure to themselves, and finally the speed is not reached, in a good lofty position, the goal will undoubtedly become a castle in the air. Do not do things frivolously, learn to be grateful for life, slowly set their own thoughts, do not doubt every kind of career, all day long what to say to themselves that have no development prospects, that salary is too low, what we lack is exercise, what is lacking is a perception of life, only when you have suffered all the hardships, what hardships have been passed, there will be a kind of soul sublimation, this is a kind of realm of improvement, such people are often easier to adapt to the new welcome, competent for various positions, because we have the most basic conditions for hardship and hard work" People will always suffer for a while, but not for a lifetime" This sentence is used to encourage myself in times of adversity, because I believe that it is only for a while. So now you need to have a place where you can exercise and settle down for a while, and then set a good position, believe in yourself, and set off in the direction you yearn for.

I hope it can help you, I will leave my QQ, and I can communicate more in the future.

Oh. To be honest, I used to feel the same way as you, and I have been confused and helpless!

But I belong to the kind of people who can't be defeated or killed, and my belief is: as long as I live, I have a chance to turn over! So then I set myself a one-year plan, a two-year plan, a three-year plan, a five-year plan, and a ten-year plan!

In fact, at this time, you should calm down and adjust your strategic line!

Let's face it: what can you do? What will you do?

What are your strengths and weaknesses? If you don't have anything now, then you can only rely on yourself to work first to earn some money, and if you are free at work, you can do something else in the evening, in short, don't let yourself be idle, so that you can use your spare time and work time to enrich yourself. Oh, and don't forget to read some motivational and psychological books too!

It's also important!

The root of many people's troubles is that they fail to examine themselves, set themselves too high and find that they do not have that ability. So you don't start at the bottom, be solid, and walk step by step. That way your experience will tell you when it's time to do something!

Didn't he say that failure was success for his mother? If you fail more, you will accumulate experience, give up meaningless illusions, there is only a result in life, there is no if, and if you don't work hard now, you will regret it in the future.

From a young boy full of confidence to a self full of vicissitudes, what he gained was experience, bitterness, lost his innocence and yearning, and wandered back and forth at the crossroads of life. I figured it out, I succeeded, and I couldn't figure it out, and I lived a muddy life.

The younger students of the basic department were full of ambition when they entered the school, and after two years, they began to doubt whether to take ** as a research direction. Find what you like, and then work hard to learn, if you work hard or can't learn well, you won't like it.

I will give you a solution from two aspects.

1. How to be a successful self.

1. Clarify goals and standards.

Start by identifying the criteria and specific goals for what is considered to be successful.

2 is your success.

Your criteria for success should be the same as your outlook on life and values.

Consistently, that kind of success is your success, no.

It's what others think is a success.

This is important so that you don't get scratched by the world)

3 Promote one's strengths, and the long is short.

Aim for the goal to improve and cultivate yourself.

4. Be determined and diligent.

Aim at the target, stubbornly and relentlessly!

2. What is life for?

1 Negative and generalized.

In order to live forever, if you can't live forever, other goals are meaningless and will eventually pass away.

Some humans are struggling to break the fate of nature.

2 Optimistic and narrow.

Live for your own values, your values are:

Happy first. First, it is still worldly success and love.

1. Scientific Exploration....

Persist in it, there will be goals and pursuits in life, and you will not be confused for the time being.

Time will tell everything objectively until you wake up.

And the key core or root of all the distress is: outlook on life and values.

That is, often you don't know what you really want, and then you are haunted by the vanity of the world, thinking that it is also what you want, and you end up being confused and empty even though you get it!

There is a pursuit, and it is the pursuit you want, and then you can smile calmly and persevere!

That's because you don't know what you're looking forward to, you don't know what you're insisting on, have you ever thought about why you're failing, if not, then think about it, success is mostly in yourself, if you persist, then success is not far from you.

Haha, looking for Bole at the end of the world, I would like to be a horse. Thousands of miles to find a horse, I am Bole.

It's better to understand yourself first, think about your hobbies, and study, opportunities are for those who are prepared.

The first point: you have ambitions but no direction, the so-called aspirants have long aspirations, and those without ambitions have long aspirations.

The second point: a person who knows that he has no strengths, in fact, often his greatest strength is to know how to reflect, so as to forge ahead.

The third point: fantasy is good, which means that you still have expectations and yearnings.

But don't be delusional that a few words can teach you success in life, and there are no failures in the world. All you can give you is a revelation, a way of thinking, not a path.

If you don't say it, you don't say it, and if you say it, you say it in vain. Hahahaha.

If you can have something or a person that allows you to continue to work hard, then I think you should be motivated, not afraid of the high eye, afraid that you dare not think, dare not do, since you have an idea, you have to work hard to do it, if you don't work hard, how to know if you are a good eye.

There is no ambition without indifference, and there is no far-reaching ambition without tranquility. Indifferent and quiet, clear and insightful. Clarity can calm the mind, and seeing can clear thoughts. The mind is quiet, and the direction of the mood and ambition can be known, and the way to the distance can be known through the thoughts.

The loser says: hope is the horizon, even if it can be seen, it will never reach it; Successful people say: hope is the North Star, even if it can't be touched, it is always ahead.

I believe that no matter how hard and difficult life is, as long as you have hope, you don't have to worry about losing your way. Read a book with your heart, and maybe you will get the answer you want.

Obviously not enough blows. If anyone insults your father or mother, and takes away your wife and children. The first reaction was to kill him? Or will you be angry and try to be strong, and in the future you will trample the place under your feet like a dog? You still have a way out, tomorrow the old lady will starve to death, don't you have to do it when you go to the urinal? Got it?

Whoever writes here can't change a person, it's hard to change yourself, look at yourself, and find a doctor if you have a problem.

Get a job to do. Survive first, then live wonderfully! If you have work experience, jump again, jump again to work!

The main thing for me is to look at your own inner thoughts, to be bold to pursue your own life, to pursue your dreams, and of course, the things around you are mainly to start small and firmly seize every opportunity.

I don't understand this feeling, I haven't experienced it. But you can travel around, and you might get the hang out in the process.

Then start from the actual situation, and then work hard slowly if you want to accumulate experience.

>> don't let the past dictate your life, but let the past make your life.

Any restriction starts from one's own heart.

The most unhappy people in the world are the ones who always care about what others think.

Don't show off when no one knows your worth; Don't be discouraged when no one appreciates your talents; Don't be confused when no one understands your interests.

Don't drift in the sky, hit the ground!

The scenery is so beautiful in the sky that only the scenery under the two feet is your own, right?

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, Qi Xuling When you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

Gao Qi. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover, the honorary hand always knows you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Dear friends: Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm! I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself!

In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened?

Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired. There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made!

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life. Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :) I hope to encourage you together. ~