Loving someone If there are many difficulties together, is letting go the best option

Dear Friend:

Anyone's choice is different, and yours is not called love.

At most, I like it.

Why? From ancient times to the present, the child "love" is difficult to explain, but it is easy to explain.

Because everyone is the author of their own life, they are all writing a life that is different and worried, as if it were similar. So why is it so difficult to discover something from the notes of history, but also the happiness and fulfillment, joy and happy love story that everyone longs for?

What you see in front of you now is the cultural heritage left by the "author" of that era, Take the top ten love stories in ancient China as an example: ( 1 Liang Zhuhua Butterfly 2 Cowherd and Weaver Girl 3The Legend of the White Snake 4

Long Hate Song 5The Legend of the West Chamber 6Phoenix 7

Peacocks fly southeast 8Immortal with 9Chang'e to the moon 10

Dream of Red Mansions) From these 10 love stories that can be said to be household names, I believe that according to your wisdom and vision, it is not difficult to find that they all have a similarity, that is, love is very poignant, love is very heartbroken, love is very helpless, and those who have seen and know their stories are deeply blessed by the protagonists in the stories together... Here I am very irresponsible to summarize, it is the one I said above, stupid. As long as you can feel that you are stupid for the sake of someone, you are in love.

You're not stupid yet.

Not stupid enough to give up for her, so you don't love.

If both of you know that there are many difficulties, but you all have the courage to face them, it is better not to let go, after the storm is a rainbow!

If you really love each other, don't let go, but there are exceptions, if your love is too heavy and brings too much pressure to each other, it is recommended to let go 、、、

It is not easy for the two to come together, and it is a rainbow for him to cherish After the wind and rain, it is a rainbow.

Letting go is not good for immediate success.

To overcome difficulties together, it is not easy for the two to come together, and he wants to cherish it.

If you really love her, no matter how difficult it is, you should persevere, bless you.

Alas, the same problem floats by... I'm struggling with it myself.

Will you really let go of someone in love, we naturally want to possess, and this is a choice determined by our human nature. But the drama that often appears in TV dramas is that the second male is willing to let go in order to fulfill the love of the female protagonist, so can you really love someone at the highest level? Many people actually can't do it in a relationship but still have to let go of the fact that they love each other, but this is based on the fact that both of them love each other.

When it is clear that two people love each other very much, one party may give up because of practical factors, such as mismatch of material conditions, etc., which is difficult to judge whether it is because I love you too much and don't want to affect you or because I don't love you enough and dare not have the courage to struggle. But it is also certain that there will be situations of letting go when loving someone in the case of love. In fact, I have always believed that people living in this world will only live for themselves once, and it is already very lucky to really meet the person who can move their hearts, if you really love someone, please don't let go, first work hard and finally lose to fate is not too late.

Of course, there is also a second situation, that is, when a person is unilaterally in love with another person, although he really likes that person very much, he thinks that he will not only be tired of paying, but also a burden to say that he is passively accepting. This is what we mentioned earlier, the unilateral love of the second male in the idol drama belongs to the type that will let go directly in the later stage. This kind of is a way to use one's own feelings to fulfill the other party, and it is also a relatively sad choice.

Therefore, it is possible to break up and leave for various reasons when you love someone, but I still believe that loving someone is a state where you want to possess and want to work hard for the other person.

True love for someone doesn't mean you have to choose to let go, but sometimes letting go can be the right choice.

In the face of difficulties and challenges, true love may require more effort and patience from Fu Qihao to overcome the problems that hinder the development of the relationship. However, if the effort has become a burden and has brought constant pain and resentment to both parties, it may be a wiser choice to let go. In addition, if the expectations and values between the two parties are too different to reconcile and compromise, it is also possible that the finch may need to consider letting go.

Of course, when deciding whether or not to let go, you need to think deeply about your own feelings and needs, while also respecting the wishes and decisions of the other person, and avoid making overly hasty or hasty decisions.

In conclusion, true love for someone does not necessarily mean that you have to choose to let go, but sometimes it may be necessary to let go, depending on the situation and personal preferences. In any case, respecting one's heart and feelings, as well as cherishing the trust and understanding with one's loved one, are the keys to maintaining a healthy love relationship.

If you really love someone, it is generally not easy to choose to let go, but love is mutual, and if you don't get a response, then letting go is also a choice. First of all, true love is precious, so you must have no regrets, and you must also have no regrets in this life; Because in the sea of people, it does not mean that you can have true love with everyone; Secondly, true love is very precious, it is not a matter of one person, only if both people are true love, it will be valuable; Finally, true love for someone does not mean that you have the other person; If the other person doesn't love you, then letting go is another way to love.

In a person's life, true love for someone is unforgettable; But if you really love someone, then you will care very much, and you will care very much; If you truly love someone, you are everything, the only one in life; But if you really love someone, if you don't want to be with you for the rest of your life, then there is no need to force it; If you really love someone, just hide each other in your heart and engrave them in your life; It doesn't have to be with each other, and it doesn't have to be with each other every day.

True love is hard to find, and it is unforgettable, but you don't have to have him; Since he is not willing to be with you for the rest of his life, hiding him in his heart is also another way of love; As long as the other party is engraved in the mileage of life, there is no need to keep everything else in mind; Since you have paid, you don't have to be sad, just love; As long as the beloved is happy, then let go of his hand, and he will be happy; If your beloved is not by your side, you will be happy, so there is no need to force him to suffer with us.

If you like someone, you don't have to be with him, although some people sing that "I don't care about the longevity of nature, I only care about what I once had", but not everyone will be happy. The most important thing to like someone is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your mood.

There is a song that sings like this: "It turns out that the crush is also very happy, and there will be no choice at the side:"Why don't you never feel that emotional things are too difficult to bear, and if you don't want to possess it, it won't be bumpy": "No matter whose heart your heart is, I won't be frustrated, I just want to be a quiet passerby." ”

Therefore, whether you like the same thing or like someone, instead of burdening yourself, it is better to face it easily, even if you give up or leave one day, you are more precious. If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere.

The best way to have something you like but can't have is to keep it deep in your heart and make it the most beautiful memory.

I wish you to find your own happiness as soon as possible!

Only after losing it do you know that you have to cherish, people are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around you who have been silently loving you, when you realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have passed, and people have gone.

If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who know how to cherish only when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will be disturbed for a long time.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest....Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find such a person around you, please cherish it.

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

This world, every.

There's one to seek.

If you miss it, you won't come back.

If love. on, don't.

It's easy to give up. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

Life is beautiful, and love that can't stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

In fact, there is nothing wrong with love, it is only us who is wrong, because we ask too much for love, too perfect, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, because everyone has the right to love and the right to be loved! If you really look at this love, go on bravely, you will find that life is so beautiful with love, because when you love someone, whether you are worried about him or miss him, it is a very good thing in the world! However, if you don't love, or this relationship has no result, then you have to give up decisively, because giving up is also a kind of beauty, if you don't give up your life, there may be only one possibility, that is, pain, if you let go, your life is 10,000 possibilities, which is more important, I believe you will know!

Your life is in your own hands.

If it is true love, it will not care about the distance between time and space.

When the heart is together, love will be together.

You can keep each other warm!

The fate depends on the heavens, and the share depends on oneself.

If you manage your love with your heart, you will definitely get what you want.

Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place.

There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love.

There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts...

Take it easy, keep an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think, you still have to face it, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself...

Believe in yourself and you can do it ...

Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is unconditionally for each other, do anything.

Do something meaningful! Even one person is not lonely.