There s no motivation to move on, what should I do?

The future is still too far away for the current self, and no one can say whether it will be good or not. You don't care much about your academic performance now, maybe you are tired of studying, you are only a freshman in high school, it is not too late to change, but it depends on whether you really want to change the status quo. It's okay if you don't study well, but you have to have your own ideals.

If you don't have ideals, your life will be too monotonous. Even if you are not satisfied with anything now, you still have to be yourself.

It's normal to have no goal and no direction in the first year of high school, what you have to do now is to find a goal, for example, what are you interested in? In the past, my goal was to be a love saint, and now I am also working hard in this area, the future road is to take an exam by yourself, and if you fail to take the exam, you can't decide anything, and besides, I haven't done well in the exam since I was a child, and I'm not living a good life! I believe that as long as you find your goal and go down to it step by step, your future will definitely give you the answers you want.

As a repeater, your experience is the same as when I was in high school.

I don't want to talk about other preaching, and even if I do, it's useless, and I'll forget about it after a few days.

The only suggestion is to travel more, read more books (not online**), and participate in more group activities.

That's all, I hope it helps.

Do some introspection, set a goal according to your own situation, and then work hard.

Which subject is interested, cultivate interest in learning first...

First of all, you can use "difference" to increase the intrinsic motivation of action.

Compared with "carrots and sticks", "gap differences" are more able to make themselves start to act and change. Look at the difference between "who you are now" and "what kind of person you want to be". For example, if you want to be a very good salesperson, you look at the people around you who have great sales ability, and see what is the difference between you and him?

Where is the gap? Then find the direction of your efforts and increase the sense of urgency to take action. Then think about it

You today are determined by your past you, and your future you are determined by your present you, so you need to make your own choice, whether you want to change or not. This pressure of difference is combined with this motivation of our own choices, and it is only when we can make a real difference.

Second, set multiple milestones for goals and tasks to reduce resistance to action.

One of the main reasons for procrastination comes from the stress of the target task and the lack of control. For example, if the task is difficult and I don't know how to start, the task takes too long and is stressful, and I don't know if I can do it well.

To reduce these drags, tasks can be split into intermediate milestones (small goals). First of all, it reduces the resistance to starting action, and secondly, every time we reach a milestone, we feel that we have made progress, that we have a sense of accomplishment, control, and motivation to continue. For example, in the practice of "Elite Special Speed Reading Software" to master the speed reading ability, first of all, it has a level setting, you can use the level as a milestone (for example, today's practice to upgrade a level), and secondly, you can also use the specific training content as a milestone (for example, practice this link 5 times)...

When we break down a big goal or task into smaller, easy-to-achieve goals that you can control, we'll be more willing to do it.

Third, learn to transform tasks and adjust their sense of rejection of tasks.

In the process of doing things, we will inevitably have situations where we don't want to do it while we do it. Don't force yourself to "waste" (consuming time and energy, but not producing) when you encounter this situation, you can change your thinking: if you don't want to do it, then go to the "to-do list" and pick one thing that I am in a little mood and not so repulsive to do!

If I still don't find something I want to do in my to-do list, think: what can I do in half an hour, what can I do in the evening, what can I do tomorrow? Make a plan or make a to-do list.

You may think it's a waste of time, but it's not, and it's both a way to motivate yourself and a strategy to find a way.

1. Know yourself and find the direction of your efforts.

If there is anything that will make you feel comfortable doing it and have a sense of accomplishment in doing it, it may be something you like and are good at, and if you find it, you will find your purpose and direction in life. Many questions can only be answered by asking more questions, and if you believe in yourself, you will definitely be able to do it.

Second, bravely move towards the goal, step by step to do everything at the beginning of the difficulty, setbacks and losses are inevitable, to be able to endure temporary pain, only dare to step out of the comfort zone, in order to make progress. In this process, we must not be opportunistic, because the gains outweigh the losses and are not conducive to long-term development. Zeng Guofan, the leader of the Hunan army of the Qing Dynasty, relied on "hardening the village and fighting a dumb battle" to quell the rebellion of the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom.

Don't rush to achieve results, be happy with every bit of progress, encourage yourself to persevere, and slowly you will gradually get better.

3. Strengthen inner cultivation and maintain a peaceful mind.

You can feel mixed feelings, convince yourself that the inner balance is broken, and ask yourself what is affecting your mood and whether it is something you can control. Change what can be changed, and what can't be changed is natural. You can relax by talking to yourself, or you can gain strength by traveling in nature, and you can also read about how good people adjust their minds and maintain inner peace.

In short, believe in yourself and you will be able to do it.

The best thing about stressing yourself is the motivation that comes with it.