Is it worth love for a person who just wants to harvest love and doesn t want to give?

Hehe......Do you think it's really worth it to love someone? We often hear lines like, "Is it really worth it for you to go?"

We may know that it is not worth it when we are rational, but love is a thing that makes you lose your mind......If a person can always be rational in love, then this person is terrible! Hehe......Just my personal opinion, don't mind! Going back to your question, if you analyze it rationally from the perspective of a bystander, it is not worthy of love!

Love is the dedication of two people, and it is impossible to maintain it by unilateral efforts ...... alone

This one is a bit of a contradiction. If that person really likes you, he will give it, so now it's important to judge if he really likes you anymore.

Dear landlord, I'm glad for your question Actually, there are things you like that won't belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, and love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

It depends on what you think, love is fought for by two people

In fact, many times, we give a lot to our other half or other people, but it does not mean that all the efforts are rewarded, so some people will have such doubts, that is, why some people pay a lot but do not get a return when they are in love? For this problem, in my personal opinion, in fact, I think it is likely that I am self-inflicted, or the other party does not like me at all, let's take a closer look.

1 Self-inflicted affection

In fact, when falling in love, some people often make themselves amorous, for example, we don't care about your feelings at all, but you take this matter very seriously, especially for most girls, sometimes they are more picky, and he is also afraid to pay in terms of feelings, but for such girls, if they pay a lot in some aspects, even if they don't get anything in return, it is very normal, which is also caused by his own self-inflicted amorousness.

2 The other person doesn't like him

For every couple, in fact, when we are in love, if one party does not like themselves, then no matter how the other party pays, then we will not get the corresponding return, and we will feel very tired in the process of falling in love. And it's struggling. It may be acceptable to one party at first, but if it takes too long, then it is likely that they will eventually separate.

Therefore, we should pay more attention to this aspect of the problem in our daily life, for everyone, understanding this aspect of the problem is of certain benefit to us, of course, if you meet the person you really like, even if he is not interested in himself, but if we treat him sincerely, then after a long time, he will be influenced by our behavior, before I said that some of the middle is related to this problem, I hope it will be useful to everyone.

Although you give a lot and show that you love each other very much, but the other party does not love you so much, even if you give everything, he may not be so moved, he does not like you, and he will not pay a lot for you from the heart, so it is normal not to get anything in return.

This is because the other party doesn't love him at all, so he can't reciprocate even if he gives more, and I think that in general, when you encounter this situation, you need to get rid of this feeling in time.

When you are in a relationship, some people give a lot but don't get it in return because the other person doesn't really love you, and you are dispensable for them, so they won't give more like you.

This may indicate that the other party does not love you enough, and when you fall in love, you must make your contribution proportional to his effort, so as not to feel unrewarded and think that the two of you are paying the same.

Some people often give when they are in love, which can make the other party accustomed to getting this kind of unearned things, and they often get it easier to get and will not cherish it, so some people give a lot when they are in love but do not get it in return.

It's normal to not get something in return, after all, not everyone knows how to cherish the other side, and you have to learn to cherish each other to cherish each other and get something in return.

In love, two-way running is definitely the sweetest and most satisfying, but there will always be a person who pays more and can't get anything in return, either the other party is a slow-burning type, or just not loving enough, only treating each other as a spare tire, or two people to communicate more, only pay but not get the return of love, the injured is always the one who pays.

Sometimes we give a lot and still don't get anything in return, and that's probably because you're copying in the wrong direction. So you should know exactly what you need, and then you can work hard.

Because of blind humble giving, boys will not take it seriously, they will only take it for granted, so some people give a lot when they are in love but do not get anything in return.

Because the person you love doesn't love you, it turns out that love is not something you can exchange for giving him the whole world, and some things will have results if you don't work hard.

That's because they're so stupid and never ask the other party to reciprocate them, in fact, it's also because the person he loves has become accustomed to his giving.

Although he is a giving personality, her other half is not, which leads to a lot of effort in his relationship, but he is not reciprocated.

Some people give a lot when they are in love, but they don't get anything in return, which means that they love someone wrong. In the relationship, only he gave unilaterally.

This question is a good question, one is that you are not ladylike when you meet people, the second is not your dish, the third is the transition, the fourth is that you are responsible for everything, and the fifth is that you are not good enough.

Love is important, you don't need a reason to love someone, and you don't need a reason to pay, so the essence of love, maybe a smile of yours is the best way to give. There is no end to paying, there is also an end, your pay is your gain, and your gain is also your pay. Love is deep and natural!

How deep the love is, how great the giving can be, when you really fall into a love, you feel that the pay should not be calculated. Because that's love, not a sale. And you can't pay blindly, it depends on whether the other party is the person who is worthy of your everything.

Otherwise, you can only make yourself more painful and hurt in the future.

Love is not to get, let alone to give for the sake of getting, really loving someone is just involuntarily caring about her and being good to her.

You can't care about so much, and you forget to care so much.

Since childhood, we have learned that if you want to get something, then you have to give something. This truth still holds true in relationships. A good relationship does have to pay to get it, but if you blindly give, it will make this relationship become your unilateral emotion, and wishful thinking without asking for anything in return will only make you more humble in this relationship.

To understand a truth, feelings belong to two people, and the feelings that go both ways are meaningful.

Love is all about taking what you need.

Love, like shopping in a shopping mall, requires the other party to meet the other person's needs, and if one party cannot meet the other party's requirements, or if one party is unwilling to participate in the transaction, then the transaction will certainly not produce good results. Think about how cruel love is when it doesn't end well. True love is about giving to each other, and everyone is appreciated.

Someone who loves you won't let you give wishful thinking.

A man who loves you with all his heart will include you in every plan of his future, maybe it will be difficult at first, maybe the sweetness will gradually become boring, no matter how hard life is, he will not choose to leave. Good love is the perfect result of the efforts of both parties, and whether a person loves you wholeheartedly or not can be judged from several details. There is no difficulty in the world, but I am afraid of someone with a heart, and a happy relationship must have the intention of both parties to take it seriously.

A person who loves you may not have many good words, but he will prove to you with his actions that he can give you everything you want. <>

Summary.

In a relationship, the most important thing is that both parties are balanced, empathetic, and give unconditionally when you invest a lot of money. The best state of love is that you can hover between giving and receiving, you can pay for love, and he can sacrifice for love. Such a healthy relationship model is conducive to maintaining a long-term love relationship, and the so-called talkative and healthy relationship model means that both parties can discuss love from the same perspective.

Love requires polite communication, which is the most ideal and comfortable state of love. <>

In fact, if you want to do anything, you must pay, if it is wishful thinking, there is no hidden meaning silver key, so you must be cautious about feelings.

I feel that it is not feasible, Nahong's early relationship is a matter of two people, if a person's unrequited love will only be eternal unrequited love, there is no result at all. Regardless of whether it is a female cave bird or a boy, we should still avoid such unrequited love

I feel that it is not feasible, feelings are a matter of two people, if one person's unrequited love will only be eternal unrequited love, there is no result at all.

First, true love is based on mutual understanding, without deception and concealment.

Second, true love is unconditional love. That is, what you love is the other party itself, including their appearance, character, temperament, etc., regardless of the other party's status, whether He Suilan is rich or not, etc.

Third, people who have true love are willing to give for each other and can give everything they have for each other.

Fourth, people who have true love feel that the other person is their only one and irreplaceable.

Fifth, true love can withstand any test, no matter whether the other person is sick, down, poor, etc., it will never leave as always.

Sixth, people who have true love can't see each other enough, and they don't see each other for a day, such as every three autumns.

Seventh, people who have true love have a clear understanding of each other, and when they see each other's gestures and eyes, they know what the other person wants to do.

Eighth, people who have true love are not free from disagreements and quarrels, but even if there are disagreements and quarrels, it is like the upper teeth touching the lower teeth, which will not hurt the muscles and bones, let alone affect the relationship.

Ninth, people who have true love love for each other, including loving each other's strengths and accommodating their shortcomings, loving each other's family and friends, etc.

Tenth, there is a true love of the Zen file, the two sides have formed a community of destiny, both are anxious about each other's anxieties, think about each other's thoughts, be happy for each other's happiness, worry about each other's sorrows, share weal and woe, share weal and woe, and stay together for life.

Remember, love without reciprocation will never last. Time will dilute everything.

This is a true story that happened in our factory, the unit came to a single female college student last year, sweet appearance, good character, as soon as the workers called "factory flower", such a girl, very roller skating is popular with the workers, naturally there are suitors.

Worker Xiao Zhang and Xiao Wang fell in love with the factory flower at the same time, Xiao Zhang is short and average-looking, outgoing and lively, and Xiao Wang is tall, handsome, introverted and shy, not talkative, everyone thinks that Xiao Zhang is unlikely to succeed in the two opinions, Xiao Wang's Changxiang Tong contains phase and conditions and factory flowers are more compatible!

It is also said that Xiao Zhang is whimsical, but Xiao Zhang does not care about the cynicism of others, often sends flowers and gifts to girls, and also hears that girls like to cook, so they often go to the vegetable market to wait, and they also say that they are smiling by chance.

However, Xiao Wang rarely sends flowers, and even sees a girl blushing when he gives gifts, and sometimes he doesn't even dare to say hello when he sees someone else in the factory.

Slowly, the proportion of the two in the girl's heart changed, and Xiao Wang also saw Xiao Zhang's enthusiasm for the girl, and over time, Xiao Wang was afraid that something would happen, so he could only give up the idea of pursuing. Headline Story Challenge

Xiao Zhang, who is not favored by everyone, naturally gets the girl's like. Through this story, people understand a truth, love needs to pay, and even pay more than others to get the love you want!