I quarreled with my parents, and what were the reasons for my quarrel with my parents

How old are you? Quarrels with parents are a common occurrence. Because your parents are the ones who really care about you, there are some things that they will especially care about and stop you from doing them.

Wait until you calm down and think about whether your parents' opinions on you are right or not, whether they are thinking about you. Or maybe it's because you're asking too much of your parents. Each generation has different expectations, and they all want the next generation to get what they can't get and take some smooth path.

If you feel that you are right, you need to communicate patiently with your parents.

This condition is typical of puberty, and everyone has experienced it. You have to vent your emotions well, you can throw pillows, listen to songs, etc., and the next day or after this incident, things will get better, and everything will pass.

Think about the starting point of your parents, it is nothing more than for you, otherwise there is time to quarrel with you, who doesn't want to stay idle and do something? To put it bluntly, your parents just care about you for your good. Before you want to argue with your parents, stop for five seconds and come up with Gojo parents who are good to you, and then if you still want to argue, then think about Gojo again.

Isn't this commonplace -- a few of today's children don't quarrel with their parents.

After copying it, it was over ......You can still hold grudges!

Hungry, if you are cheerful enough, take the initiative to ......Work something out.

If it's not enough, ......Let's just live as usual......

I really can't do ......Just let time solve everything.

There are many reasons for quarreling with parents, but it boils down to two things: disobedience and incomprehension. Parents don't understand their children, and children don't listen to their parents, which is the reason why children quarrel when their parents are the mainstay before they are independent.

Children do not understand their parents, and parents do not listen to their children, which is the reason why children quarrel when they become the mainstay of the house.

What are the reasons for conflicts with parents.

There are both child reasons and parent reasons. Generation gaps and rebellion often lead to conflicts and conflicts between us and our parents, on the one hand, we enter adolescence and yearn for the right to be independent. On the other hand, our parents are strict with us and have high expectations, which often blames us for not obeying discipline and not in line with our desire and behavior to pursue independence.

First of all, I want to say that my home is the same as yours.

Parents quarrel, as a child, in fact, the grip is the most headache, both sides are relatives, not the other side, so this is a very tricky problem. Let me say my opinion:

1. If your parents' emotions are more intense, you can persuade the party who is more intense, let him or her say a few words, tell them to be harmonious for you, and if you know which side is wrong, you can reason with him or her, and then adjust them to be a lubricant between combustion and stuffiness, you must not lose your temper, because you are a junior after all, and you can't help one party to say harshly to the other, it's best not to. In fact, it is normal for parents to quarrel sometimes, everyone has it, so you don't have to worry too much.

2. If they don't do this often, it proves that there should be no problem in the emotional skin bend, as for you, it is better to remain silent, and after two days, it will be fine.

3. However, if their cold war has not been eliminated, then, as the emotional bond of your parents, you can play an important role at this time, inquire about the reasons for their quarrel from the side, and then make some adjustments from it according to the actual situation.

4. When they quarrel, you say loudly: Don't quarrel, you always quarrel like this, I'm annoyed if you don't bother! Have you ever thought about my feelings, why can't you say calmly, I want a warm and harmonious family, can't you do such a request?

Or just slam the door so they'll understand that you don't like them arguing and that there's you, which is a very effective way to do it, but it's not the best way.

5. In fact, silence is my most recommended method. Because no matter who you speak for, it is adding fuel to the fire, because they all think that they are right, as soon as you speak, the two are evenly matched, because of your joining, the balance will inevitably tilt, and the other party must feel more wronged, and it will be even more endless. So, you watch from the side, as long as your parents don't do anything, they quarrel with them, and when you're tired, it's fine.

6. You must understand that as a child, you must abide by the boundaries of what a child should do. Parental quarrels are the business of parents, and the affairs of the previous generation are solved by themselves! Of course, we don't feel good when they quarrel, but there is no way, don't blame yourself for the reason for your parents' quarrels, so you will be burdened with a lifetime of pressure.

These things don't belong to us in the first place. Just tell them how we feel. That's it.

If there is another quarrel, you can walk away.

7. (Emphasis) If one parent tells you anything to the other party, you must politely refuse to listen! Don't stand among your parents and be the judge of the war between your parents, it will be counterproductive.