Are you afraid that you will become mature? I m immature, how can I become mature?

Of course I'm not afraid, now we post-90s are competing, many people have lost their hair, and I feel that I really can't afford to raise a family at the immature point.

Haha, not afraid. I especially want to be mature.

The psychology has matured early, and the appearance will not deliberately pretend to be tender.

I'm not afraid, I'm more rational about dealing with problems, I'm at ease, thank you for growing up.

The sign of maturity is whether you can independently solve the problems of all aspects of your life, study and work, so I am an adult, so I am not afraid to become mature at all.

Yes, fear of happening things that you can't handle, fear of taking on more and more responsibilities, and then fear that you can't afford it.

Don't be afraid, you will only become mature when you have experienced something, and then you will not be afraid of what you will face later.

I'm not afraid, I feel it's a good thing to be mature, so that I can slowly integrate into society, so that I can get a light and have social experience in the future.

Don't be afraid, then I will be able to solve my own affairs and I won't have to worry about my parents.

Afraid, afraid that I can't do it, feeling that I have no way to face those things, and that my life will be a mess.

I'm afraid, I'm still a little girl, and now the social pressure is so great, I'm afraid that I won't be able to bear the sudden death.

In fact, there is no need to be mature, it's good to live a good life, isn't it the best choice to live what you have thought?? Why bother yourself for others, those who say you're immature or something, I think it's because they can't resist the pressure of society and change themselves, and it's best to be yourself

I'm just talking about it casually

Deal with things less for yourself, think more from the perspective of others and make decisions taking into account the overall situation.

Ask how to mature, so let's first look at what immaturity is

1. Straight personality and willful. When doing things, you don't listen to advice, and you do it with death.

2. Don't speak and do things tactfully, and don't save face for others. We need to seriously figure out the phrase "if you see through it or not, you are still good friends".

3. I don't understand the complexity of things, and think that things should be done according to the "right"! However, when there are always many things in life, how should be done according to reason, the reality cannot do that, once you do the "right" thing, it will hurt more people or magnify the problem.

4. I don't know how to communicate with people, and I can't talk to people and talk nonsense. You have to bow your head when you should bow your head, and you have to pretend to be a grandson when you should pretend to be a grandson. No matter how good you are, you still can't do it without gifts.

5. Can't have the courage to take responsibility, can't take responsibility! When encountering things, I love to shirk, as long as there is a bad situation, and the things are not done, I will blame others, first pick myself up and push it on others. Mature people should bear the responsibility, and sometimes the responsibility that should not be borne has to be borne for the overall situation (commonly known as carrying the black pot).

6. The skin is not thick, and you have to suffer the sin of face when you die! Can't withstand the blow and is psychologically fragile. I always feel ashamed, I have no face in front of my relatives and friends, and I don't want to live anymore.

The above are all immature and have not grown up, I hope it will help you.

If you can eliminate the above immaturity of yourself, you will be felt that you have become mature, and I hope it will help you.

Maturity is a reflection of the individual's age and experience, which makes the personality and way of doing things stable. Personally, I think it's good to be yourself, you don't have to change too much, and you can be your truest self.

Don't watch soap operas, pay more attention to people's livelihood, pay more attention to the news, learn more facts, and learn more useful knowledge.

1. Be able to control your emotions and control what you do!

2. Know when to say and when not to say.

3. Know how to think about the interests of the whole collective, know how to let everyone get benefits, sometimes it doesn't matter if you are wronged!

4. If you meet people and friends you are interested in, you are willing to let go of hypocrisy and talk to them sincerely! Show your truest side of yourself!

5. When doing things, you can consider leaking the consequences after that! Always think about reducing the impact on others, even if you don't know each other. Think about how you can achieve the most results with the least cost, and be able to calm down and think about what you and others are doing.

6. Always thoughtful when you go out, you can adapt to the situation!

7. Make your own decisions about your own affairs, and you can listen to the opinions of others.