Why do some women not want to get married now?

Personally, my main thing is that I don't want to have children.

The threshold for marriage is high not only for men, but also for women.

I just don't want to get married, so it's gone.

Because men are not stupid, women don't have many opportunities to sell accurately and improve their lives.

Girls who don't want to get married must be very kind, because they have seen through the true faces of some garbage men and long-tongued poisonous women, and they are voluntarily single.

Today's women are financially independent, ideologically independent, and rely on themselves for everything, so the reason why they don't want to get married is that they don't want to add a burden to their lives.

Because now the distance between people and people is far away, you say that you can't move WeChat, QQ, ** can cultivate real feelings, and now many girls also have their own careers, there are things to do, love and marriage is not their only pursuit, and they are also financially independent, they can support themselves, and even live well, they really don't necessarily have to get married.

I think that our current single women do not want to get married, but have more pursuits and choices, sometimes we feel that a person, life is more free, there will be more free space, and there is a lot of pressure in life now, and we women really have enough ability to face these pressures, to make their lives better, whether it is work and life, we can face all the difficulties, so sometimes we feel that a person is more suitable for themselves.

Because women nowadays are becoming more and more independent, they can live well without their other half, and the more important reason is because they haven't met the right person, and they don't want to take the initiative.

Many are independent women who don't want to be held back by things like getting married and having children, so they hate getting married, even unmarried.

Some of my own experiences are very disappointed in marriage or love, and do not have any hope.

I think they might.

I guess I think life is stressful.

I don't want to burden myself too much.

That's why they chose not to get married.

A woman getting married is nothing more than trying to find someone she can rely on and shelter her from the wind and rain, but after marriage, she finds out that all the wind and rain are brought to her by you, in this case, who wants to get married.

Too lazy to accommodate others.

What is Marriage? People of the older generation may feel that marriage is a necessity in life, something that must be done at a certain age. But for today's young people, marriage is the icing on the cake of a good life, not a send-off.

Therefore, we must choose a person who suits us, and it depends on what married life can bring to ourselves, if we just let us blindly accommodate others, then most women will choose not to marry Li Minzi, especially women with ability and financial freedom. Too lazy to change yourself.

I have met many women who also want to get married, but don't want to change themselves, most of them live very selfishly, are more satisfied with their current living conditions, although they do not exclude the lives of two people, but they really don't want to change themselves.

I support these women for this issue, because a good relationship and marriage must not be based on you giving up on yourself, and the person who is really right will not ask you to change yourself.

If you really need to give up yourself for a person, a relationship, a marriage, and become someone you don't know, then I really don't recommend you to jump headlong into it, because I have seen too many women who have lost themselves, they are not happy in life, and their marriages are hardly happy.

Insist on living your best self, waiting for the right person to come to you, until then, live well, so that it is enough, as for marriage, go with the flow, you will meet the best.

Too lazy to argue with each other.

What is the most frightening thing about marriage? Probably the endless. For the bride price, for the children, for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You can't agree with your husband, and you're exhausted by constant arguments and conflicts.

I believe that no woman wants such a marriage, but I also want to say that this is by no means the case in all marriages.

This question should be divided into two!

1. The kind of woman who is very good, very independent, has a high IQ, and usually has a high income, will feel that the mother-in-law in marriage is the burden of life, and marriage also has to face the ...... of having children, education, husband and wife relationships, etcThese are difficult problems to deal with, for this kind of woman, their advanced IQ is a good hand in dealing with economics and finance, but they are often powerless in dealing with various relationships in marriage and family.

2 Some ordinary girls don't have so many concerns, they don't ask for much, they teach each other every day, and the family is also a kind of happiness in the Wubianling, this kind of blandness is more suitable for them.

Conclusion: The burden varies from person to person, not absolutely.

1. Economic pressure.

Marriage is not just another form of love, love is more about considering emotions, and marriage needs to consider reality, car and house loans, child support, and pension. Many elements of marriage require financial support. I don't want to get married, probably because of fear of stress and poverty.

For you, if the lives of two people are not as good as those of one, then you would rather not get married than lower your quality of life in exchange for worldly necessities.

2. Disappointing love.

Other people want to get married, but you may not want to be in a relationship at all. You have a negative attitude towards love. You are afraid of being hurt. You even fear that you might be hurt.

Your negative attitude towards love comes from the outside world, either because you haven't met the right person or because you've seen so many disappointing relationships that you don't want to get married.

The other part comes from yourself. You are not equipped to deal with the problems in your relationship, so you avoid them.

3. The desire for freedom and the fear of bondage.

For modern people, a large part of their reluctance to get married is that they like freedom and don't want to be bound by marriage. Most of them prefer to be single, or have a relatively open and free emotional life.

You are the type of person who is self-centered and cares more about yourself and your inner feelings. But once you're married, you may need to think about your family, can't do what you want to do, can't go on vacation, and this can also cause you to hold back when you get married.

4. Fear of future uncertainty.

The meaning of marriage is to support each other in life, and two people should not only share, but also give. In this process, we should share the joy and pain together.

But obviously, you don't have much faith in the future, you don't even know what your life will look like, and you're not sure what your life together will look like. This uncertainty about the future makes you uneasy about marriage, and you want to know : Is marriage a good decision?

5. The influence of the family from which he was born.

Children who grow up in a warm family environment will know how to express their feelings better. On the contrary, children who grow up in discordant family environments will have problems in interpersonal relationships, such as not knowing how to handle arguments, deliberately avoiding the kindness of others, and so on.

Maybe it's because your family didn't provide you with a harmonious environment to grow up in, or because your parents didn't set a good example for you, and you are disappointed in the marital relationship and don't know what to do.

6. Fear of marital responsibility.

Responsibility is an important factor in maintaining a marriage. From simple care and devotion to the family, to the complexities of raising children, caring for the elderly, and even sacrificing work and play time to focus on the family, these are all things that need to be done.

Marriage is sacred to you and needs to be decided carefully. Maybe your heart is not mature enough, or your attitude towards love is not strong enough, you are not sure if you can be a good partner, and when faced with these responsibilities and obligations, you will want to escape.

Today's women don't want to get married, because they have been hurt emotionally and are afraid that they will repeat the same mistakes after marriage, so they can't meet the person they like for a long time, and gradually lose confidence in marriage.

A woman who marries far away is the biggest compromise in this problem.

Every parent doesn't want their daughter to marry far away, and women before marriage always can't understand their parents' thoughts too much, they all think that marrying far away is nothing, but the difficulty is indeed that life brings them involuntarily. Girls are always the one who makes concessions in marriage, and this rule has long been written into everyone's subconscious in thousands of years of traditional culture. Once a woman gets married, it means saying goodbye to her mother's family, saying goodbye to her past self, thinking that she is married to happiness, but in fact, she is married to a long period of loneliness, even if there is no New Year's holiday, the busy work and family on weekdays also make a woman's way home extremely difficult.

The water spilled by the married daughter is a stereotypical rule that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the Chinese people.

Nowadays, unlike a few decades ago, most families have several children, and even if someone is not there, it will not seem too lonely on the day of reunion. But nowadays there are more and more single-child families, and every child has been pampered since childhood, and it is difficult for the elderly to accept it from the bottom of their hearts when they suddenly leave when they grow up, which is why the contradiction of who to spend the New Year at is becoming more and more intense. Before marriage, people will naively think that love can overcome everything, and life after marriage is still a matter of rules.

At the wedding, he swore that "he will be where he is", but the times will always be changed, and there will always be a little loosening of the original deep-rooted ideas.

<> some things just can't be both, no matter how you choose, you will still end up in a dilemma, and you will not get a satisfactory result. Not all questions will have a fixed answer, and not all enthusiasm should be answered. The husband and wife may be able to set a rule in advance on this matter, but it is not suitable to add some rules and regulations to future marriages, which will do more harm than good to the health of the marriage.

Perhaps the best thing for both husband and wife to do when facing this problem is to be understanding and tolerant, and make the greatest concessions, and maybe the problem can be solved.

In our real life, I believe we all know such a phenomenon, because more and more women have received a higher education, and there is a certain self-awareness, so many women often do not want to get married, and even feel that marriage may be a burden, but in fact, marriage is not something that everyone must refuse or must have, so looking for an ideal marriage is something that everyone dreams of.

Why don't women want to get married anymore?

1. High level of education. With the progress of science and technology and the development of the country, a woman's education level has become higher and higher, and they have experienced a lot of things when they are educated, have met a lot of people, and their personal self-perception has also changed a lot, so women at this time often have a little self-awareness, so they feel that marriage will become a burden to themselves, but will drag down their own pace forward.

2. Treat marriage as a burden. Many women now have a unique ability to help themselves and support themselves, so they will think that once they fall into the grave of marriage, they may seriously deviate from their normal life, so this kind of women who regard marriage as a burden will not want to get married.

3. Choose a partner more carefully. Because today's women have a higher self-awareness, and they also have the ability to choose each other, they are more cautious when choosing a partner, maybe they don't want to get married, but they want to choose to marry later.

What makes an ideal marriage?

1. Solid material foundation. An ideal marriage is at least a solid material foundation, although love is very important for two people, but if there is no solid material foundation, then romantic love will eventually turn into ashes and become ethereal.

2. Self-realization. In addition to having a solid material foundation, the ideal marriage should also have personal self-realization, although two people are united together for some reasons, but two people can still be themselves and realize their own value, this kind of marriage can allow two people to grow up separately and spend the rest of their lives together.

3. Mutual respect. When two people become very close, they often don't pay so much attention to each other's feelings, and sometimes they even don't respect each other so much, but in fact, if you want to run an ideal marriage, you should respect and appreciate each other, so that you can let each other find confidence in yourself, and never live a more stable life.

But in any case, a marriage is not something that can be decided by one person, and because women themselves have received a high degree of education and self-awareness, many women do not want to easily enter the grave of marriage, but this kind of person is just looking for an ideal marriage, as long as they find them, they will also step into it desperately.