Do you reach out to your ex after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I won't contact again, because the person who proposes to break up first often doesn't have you in his heart, so your interruption and contact will seem very humble, therefore, after the breakup, I never contact my ex.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If there is nothing that must be contacted, I will not be contacted, I am a person who can afford to let go, since it has been separated, there is no need to contact, and those who can continue to be friends after breaking up can't do it here.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Usually we don't get in touch, but if it's a peaceful breakup, then we can still be friends, usually give some blessings, but don't bother too much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, because I think the best ex should be like dead. So even if I encounter something big, I won't take the initiative to contact my ex.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After the breakup, I don't reach out to my ex anymore. Because since we've broken up, there's no need to connect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course not, since you broke up, don't do anything superfluous, it's irresponsible to yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If I had broken up, I wouldn't have reached out to my ex. Now that we've broken up, let's divide it neatly. There is no need to contact again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will never contact my ex after I break up, I feel that if I break up, there is no need to contact or talk about some previous things.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When we break up, I won't take the initiative to contact my ex because I think it will be very shameful. It will also make him feel that he can't forget him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I wouldn't reach out to him because he was a very annoying person and hurt me in the relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the two of them break up, there will be no relationship, and if they contact again, they will seem very humble, and I will not take the initiative to contact him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, they all broke up and still contacted, so it's not okay to break the thread.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After the breakup, whether or not to contact the ex. The answer is simple, if you can control your emotions, then you can contact him. If you can't control your emotions well, then don't rush to contact him, if you contact him, you are talking to him about feelings or reasoning, trying to persuade the other party.

    Then I advise you never to contact him

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If we break up, I won't contact my ex again because it would be particularly awkward to meet again, and I don't feel the need to delay each other's time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, choose to forget the past.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, there is no grass at the end of the world, so why go back and gnaw on the rotten grass.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is still contact between them, but I just want to know if the other party is doing well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Will not be contacted. Let him and his new love get away.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't disturb each other, don't contact each other, and don't get along with each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I got in touch, but it was deleted three times, and I settled down. It has nothing to do with me in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No. After breaking up, they each lived their own lives, and in order to consider the current feelings, they would not contact their ex, and they didn't have the idea of wanting to contact Zhongjizai.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now that they have broken up, they are strangers from now on, and there will be no more contact.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Look at whether you and your object are still high in their hearts, if they are separated because of some things, then don't miss each other, after all, it is not easy to meet in the vast sea of people, Liang Shilead. Don't make yourself regret it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In general, no.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After the breakup, I will not continue to contact my ex.

    Because since you have broken up, you have to face a new life and no longer be nostalgic for the past. It is often said that it is best not to choose to be friends after a breakup, and that not disturbing each other is the best kindness. Kindness is not necessarily kindness to the other party, but also kindness to oneself.

    I am most afraid of finding out that you are still standing in place after contacting, and the other party is already far away.

    The end of a love is an extremely helpless thing, as long as you have loved, you can't face the fact of breaking up calmly. A deep relationship, if you want to let go immediately, that with a strong edge is indeed difficult. However, there is no need to contact the other party anymore, some feelings are over when they are over, put those good things in the bottom of your heart, and wait for it to go away is the best way.

    Ways to get out of a breakup quickly and easily:

    1. Explore new hobbies

    When a relationship ends, you may feel at a loss about your situation. Maybe you're with your ex doing everything, and now you're having a bit of an identity crisis. It's a great time to explore a new hobby.

    Not only can it help rebuild your confidence, but it can distract you from thinking about your ex anymore.

    2. Go out with your friends

    After a breakup, your friends can be your biggest support system. They will help you remember who you were before your relationship. On top of that, you're sure to have a great time with them and forget about your ex.

    So, instead of staying in your bedroom all day and soaking up the pain of a breakup, accept a friend's invitation to hang out.

    3. Keep your distance from your ex

    This may seem obvious, but if you want to get out of the shadow of a breakup easily, keep your distance from your ex. This means avoiding meeting them, avoiding communicating with them, and avoiding talking to them socially. In fact, it's probably best if you remove them from your social networks entirely.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I would choose to delete it, or wrap it up and bury it in the ground. Breaking up, for most young people, is a chance, someone has only been in love once in their life, that is, marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single at the age of envy of the mother's fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met an almost suitable person, and I decided to live the rest of my life. There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate.

    There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul. In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will become a rare experience in the mountains of your life.

    When you are old, you will feel that this life has been in vain when you recall the love and hate of your youth, and the bravery and romance of your youth. It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem. Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up.

    It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love.

    Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it. -02 The way to break up, you should make some decisions, do not procrastinate, break up, and break up, which are some of my suggestions for everyone who has fallen out of love.

    There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain". If after the breakup, you did not delete your ex's WeChat, but still paid attention to your ex's social platform, still kept your ex's **, and carefully collected the gifts given to you by your ex; Then, what awaits you is a long period of pain. Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, just like friends, sometimes it's good to chat.

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