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There are many decisions that people make when they are emotional, and they regret it in hindsight.

The opinions expressed when I am angry are relatively extreme many times, and I always feel that my brain is pumping at that time when I look at it afterwards. And this kind of extreme viewpoint, if you use it to persuade people, it is very unconvincing, and you can't achieve your set goals, which is no different from doing useless work.

If both of them are excited at the time and seem to convince each other, they will usually stay awake as usual.

So I've always felt that it's useless to be angry, it's useless to be sad, and it doesn't solve anything.

Until one time I was chatting with a teacher who had been teaching for many years, and she introduced me to her "technical anger" teaching method.

Here's what she said: "Actually, sometimes I'm not angry at all about what students do, so why should I be angry? It has nothing to do with me, and being angry is not good for the body.

But I had to be 'angry', and I had to scold them in class and get angry. In this way, students can know that they are doing something wrong, they may not know that they are wrong, but they know that if they do this, the teacher will be angry, they will be scolded, and the probability of recidivism will be reduced. ”

She is an elementary school teacher.

Later, I thought about it carefully and realized that I had never seen a university teacher get angry, not once. They are always very calm in their lectures, whether the students listen or not, and only occasionally stop to look at the students who are affecting their lessons, and then continue to lecture.

I think that's actually the norm.

I don't get angry at irrelevant people because there's no need. On the Internet, sometimes I am very emotional and reason with others, but it will soon subside.

So, those who seem to be very excited and angry on the Internet are really angry and excited?

Maybe it's just a means to an end.

Du shuddered and said that people with bad tempers are easy to get angry, but is it more difficult for people with a mild temper to recruit Yan Hujia? Why is that?

People with a bad temper tend to get angry because they don't control their emotions well. When they have emotions, they like to vent them, and when they are done, they will be normal. People with a mild temper can control their emotions well, but emotions will accumulate, once they accumulate to the point of eruption, then they are about to face a volcanic eruption, which will be very ferocious, and they will be hysterical, and they rarely get angry, and others can't catch the time point of their anger, the emotional point.

Therefore, I will feel that people with a warm temper and a warm temper are even more difficult to handle.

Because not getting angry does not mean that there is no fire, but it can control its temper very well in normal times, just like a volcano, only when it erupts, how strong the explosive power is, it can show that people who are not angry are like volcanic eruptions.

People usually say that the definition of good temper or small temper is that they will not lose their temper or control their temper in small things, such people are usually more rational and have strong self-control ability, and some things that make others lose their temper will be rational in them.

The simple understanding can be such that people have an onset of their temper"Thresholds"It's higher than the average person, so the general thing doesn't lose its temper or it's easy to disappear when it's small, but there is a saying"Just because you have a small temper doesn't mean you don't", will always come across more than this"Thresholds"Touch him"Bottom line"people and things. The severity of such people and events is bound to be greater than ordinary things. Naturally, it will erupt.

And because their usual good temper gives people a preconceived feeling, when they lose their temper, there is always a big gap between their usual feelings. The unexpected is even more shocking. Naturally, there is no fuss about taking it for granted.

So the above causes the problem bamboo"Good-natured people are terrible"feelings.

Because people who don't get angry, they are not good at venting themselves, and there is something to hide in their hearts, once someone touches his bottom line one day, he will vent all the fire that he has hidden in his heart for a long time, so don't easily provoke those who seem to be optimistic every day, and don't get angry about a little thing.

There are no really good-tempered people, it's just that personal cultivation and endurance are different, and often people who don't lose their temper will have more terrible attacks than people who lose their temper often, and he is what the powder keg is.

Everyone has their own bottom line, maybe beyond her limit, she can't bear it, she can only break out. The rabbit will bite people when they are in a hurry, which is the reason.

It's called an outbreak! It's good to be inclusive, but there's a bottom line!

Often the more Sven people break out, the more terrible it is!