How can you become unna ve and not be deceived?

Don't trust anyone easily, let's get in touch with society more. This requires experience.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant effort is considered worthwhile, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Be a person and have reservations about others in love, how to prevent meeting inappropriate people.

If someone is chasing you and you also feel that you can continue to socialize, then it is very good to get along for a while and go out to eat, whether you have introduced you to his relatives and friends, whether he has told you about his thoughts on the future, whether he has taken you to meet his parents, whether he usually has it, put you in his heart, whether these have to be considered, he has half a year, after all, a long-term love is the happiest.

Do a good job of making friends and introduce the best relatives and friends of the person you are in love with, so that even if you are a very scumbag person, you will understand it clearly, because your relatives and friends will definitely not introduce you to the scumbag person, and the so-called prevention is like this.

Circle of friends or people you know on the Internet, you have to pay attention to this, no matter how flattering the rhetoric, or use money to hit you, it is recommended that you still be careful.

There are also scumbags in the romantic relationship between colleagues, because it is just the understanding of work and leaving work, you may not be anything, and you need to be tested from time.

Is it a good fit for a person? Is it good for you? When a person lies to you once, it means that there is something wrong with the person's character, no matter what the excuse is?

When a person treats you badly and ignores your existence, it's just when you're an appendage, so as long as a person is honest enough with you to be nice enough to mention you among relatives and friends, and to your parents. A person like you in the circle of friends must be a good person, and there will be no feelings to deceive you, so don't contact him, so as not to be hurt.

It's always telling yourself not to believe in something ridiculous, and to know that only your hard work will pay off.

Don't embarrass yourself, just live happily. If you really want to have a sophisticated or cold heart, society is the best school.

Perhaps there are too many lies in this world.

But it's still wonderful.

Time will tell.

After all, some people like to live with masks on.

Let's be skeptical of these people.

Which ones are true and which ones are false, it will become clear after a long time.

People, don't trust a person too easily.

After all, it is yourself who is hurt

It's better to be: don't treat him.

Zi said: "People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do." "Knowing that he is such a person, it is best to stay away and not deal with him.

But there is a difference:

There is a kind of person who deliberately deceives others and traps them in order to achieve the goal of harming others and benefiting themselves. This kind of person is essentially no different from a fraudster, only to a different degree. Once discovered, it is best to draw a clear line and never get along.

The first is to prevent being deceived and suffering material and spiritual losses; The second is to prevent those who are close to ink from being blackened and adversely affected.

The other is hypocrisy, saying good things in his mouth, but he never really wants to help others, "plucking a hair and benefiting the world, not for it". You have something to ask him, he agrees very easily, and then he never really fulfills this excuse and that reason. For this kind of person, it is best to "treat others in their own way", and also treat hypocrisy with hypocrisy, but also.

Another is vanity, likes to brag nonsense, exaggerate, and slap a swollen face to become fat. It's not that it is intended to harm others. So that a man knows his faults, and does not count on him or rely on him. It's okay to talk and laugh together and have a good time.

There are also people who fail to fulfill what they say, or they may indeed have special reasons, practical difficulties, and occasional dishonesty, not that they are not sincere in the first place. This needs to be distinguished from those who have consistently dishonesty.

Distinguish different situations, how to deal with them is easy to solve.

Treat each other with sincerity at once. The time spent with each other and the attitude of looking at what he says to others can also be seen.

A sentence is called: the road knows the horsepower, the people can see the hearts of the people for a long time, and the strength of the horses can be known after a long time, and the quality of the people's hearts can be seen after a long time. This kind of thing can not be seen overnight, it must be judged through long-term observation and the way the other party behaves, in short, keep your eyes open and don't trust strangers easily.

Every time I listen to someone tell a story, or read someone else's text, or see a certain picture, tears welled up in an instant.

I knew it must have touched a part of my heart, otherwise how could the tears come out. Tears never deceive, and bodies never deceive.

If you deceive others, you can't deceive yourself, can you?

Many times I feel that my heart is struggling and painful, and I want to escape, but running back and forth will be more difficult and painful. After countless experiences like this, I learned that I had been lying to myself.

When I realize that this part is willing to admit that I am vulnerable, struggling, powerless and unbearable, my heart does not need to pretend to be strong, I don't have to pretend that I am working hard with great respect, I can embrace my imperfect self, I can allow myself to be not good enough, I can allow tears to come out, and my heart gradually becomes soft and warm.

A person can never give someone something that he does not have in himself, and it is useless to say that empathy is like scratching an itch in his boot.

If you keep deceiving people and trying to deceive yourself, no one can deceive you after all.

In fact, what I want to say is that the body and mind are together.

1. The unity of knowledge and action will allow me to leave pain and return to inner peace and certainty.

People can't fool themselves. The result of deceiving yourself is more entanglement, more struggle, and more pain.

Is it still trustworthy to be deceived by it? Deception is divided into unintentional and intentional! 1. Some are for someone to deceive you!

2. Some people deceive for some kind of benefit (this situation is more common, some can be good to you at first, but you can suddenly make a big turn after your defense is low!) So look at people and don't just look at the surface)! 3. Some people deceive you for your own good (this is the so-called white lie, maybe the other party can't bear to deceive you for your good position!)

But maybe you will be distressed and blame him or her, but you should be wise! It's not easy for people! If you don't care, you won't bother to hide the things that might upset you)!

4. Some are deceived by love and hate! If it is not deceived again and again, the nature is too bad, and you absolutely cannot accept it, you can generally trust it again, but in the future, you should pay more attention and don't trust others too easily! After being deceived and finding out, do you want to ask for clarification?

Do you dare to guarantee that you know that you are not lowering but making you sad? But if you insist on getting to know it to the end, then you can find out through relevant people or letters, and I think it's better to avoid asking directly in person! It's better to just laugh it off and stop caring about it!

When will the deception stop? I guess that's impossible! Who would dare to say that they have not lied to anyone?

Who dares to say that it will not lie in the future? Deception is sometimes just a product of helplessness! How can you forget to be deceived by someone you care about?

First of all, you must know why he or she deceived you! If it's the kind of deception you don't want! If it is irretrievable, then please laugh it off, maybe you are not willing to do so, maybe it is not a matter of a moment, but then what is it, don't be too persistent, don't think too much, let go a little!

Treat it with a mindset that doesn't matter! For your sorrows, your sorrows, your afflictions, your troubles are not exchanged. It is not easy for people to live in the world, why are they still persistently and distressed to recall those gains and losses!

After that, I don't see the gains and losses anymore! Promise is also sometimes the embodiment of deception! Sometimes you don't be too naïve, too ignorant, too impulsive, and don't hurt yourself too much because of a false promise!

Try to get to know some of the people you care about and care about you! Deception does not distinguish between familiar and unfamiliar! If it's you yourself who deceive someone else!

Then I think we should all be brave enough to face our mistakes! A lot of deception is our impulse and quick talk, and we dare not admit it, so now the misunderstanding is getting heavier and heavier! But I can't avoid being embarrassed!

But it's best to admit your mistakes! You need to know! The deception will one day be self-defeating!

And finally....No one is perfect, the world is peaceful and chaotic, and life is mixed with sweet and sour! Deception is only a small part of life, don't be sad about it! I wish you happiness and happiness and get rid of the troubles and troubles in your life as soon as ......possible