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Don't be too introverted at first. Talk to your friends. If you don't have friends, find someone who is usually kind to you.
People who won't bully you come. Take the initiative to talk to her. Don't be afraid, learn to smile and don't care what others say.
Go your own way and let others say go. Then there's self-improvement. I have achievements and advantages.
Naturally, others will not underestimate you. You will talk and deal with you more. Gradually, your career will be wider.
You know how to speak. Finally press these above. It should be fine.
Introverts and not dealing with people are solved. Honestly, there won't be any more. You won't be bullied by others.
Think of the good in everything. If it really doesn't work, don't be discouraged. Don't give up, continue to change while developing your strengths.
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Honesty and loyalty are human virtues, so why should we give them up! Sleek certainly has its advantages, but people who really want to make friends will not be willing to associate with those who are too sophisticated, so friends, please don't deliberately change yourself, maybe one day, you will find that you have won friendship and love because of honesty!
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When being honest hurts your own interests, you will become dishonest, but quality people can't do it.
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Take the initiative to do things, don't wait for the task to be in your hands to carry it out, and consciously share the worries of the boss, and the boss will also see it. Honest people will do their job diligently and diligently, with the goal of completing the task. As for "dishonest" people, they will often take the initiative to ask their bosses if there is anything else they can help within their ability after completing their tasks.
Of course, the boss will be very happy, "dishonest" people bring benefits to the leader, can the leader not like them?
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Honest people need to improve 3 places so that they will not be treated as "soft persimmons" by others
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Wicked people will not have a real honest side, even if they are honest, they are pretended, and honest people are not without a bottom line, don't mislead people here.
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People are not honest at any time.
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1.Don't speak too straight, don't say what you don't say.
Roughly speaking, don't be too direct, but learn to read words and colors. Observing words and emotions is an essential skill in all relationships. Not knowing how to read words and emotions is equivalent to turning the tiller without knowing the direction of the wind, and the boat that is not good for friendship will capsize.
Frankness and straightforwardness are indeed a good character, but it is different when entering society, and being too straightforward can easily cause negative effects.
Those whose feelings change from the inside, will certainly manifest themselves in form and outward. Therefore, we often understand the hidden true feelings through the superficial phenomena revealed, which is also known as "deep feeling".
2.Don't be too honest, turn your face when it's time to turn your face.
The writer Sanmao once said: Don't be afraid to refuse others, if your reasons are legitimate, because when a person makes a request, he has two answers ready in his heart, so it is expected to give him one of the answers.
There are soft-hearted people who always swallow their anger. In the minds of honest people, they think that they can get along with each other by making concessions. They don't fight for it, they are Buddhist people, and they uphold the concept of "it is their own, and it will be their own in the end", so when honest people encounter things, they will always back down, but this is not the case.
The more you tolerate some people, the more they think you're a bully.
Therefore, when we interact with others, we do not need to make concessions at all times, especially when our principles and interests are seriously trampled on by others, we must learn to protect ourselves bravely, do not be afraid to offend others, turn our faces when we should turn our faces, nothing is difficult to showdown.
To be a human being, you must learn to refuse. People who don't know how to refuse will not get real distress from others even if they exhaust their own energy. Don't pander to others because of your kindness, but learn to say no.
Otherwise, this weakness is often caught and trapped by honest people. To put it bluntly, you will feel like you are being bullied, people are being bullied, and horses are being ridden.
3.Don't trust others easily.
To put it bluntly, don't be too "realistic" in doing things. Honest people don't have brains and cities, so the world of honest people is actually very simple. Therefore, honest people will mistakenly think that everyone is good. In fact, today's society is too impetuous, and there are many people who "heart."
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It is true that you need to change, first of all, don't be introverted, talk to your friends more, if you don't have friends, find someone who is usually kind to you and will not bully you, take the initiative to talk to others, don't be afraid. There are good people in the world, you have to learn to smile, you don't care what others say, keep smiling, go your own way and let others say it (naturally, except if it threatens your own reputation or interests).
Then, it is your own improvement, and if you have achievements or advantages, others will naturally not underestimate you, and will talk to you more and deal with you more. Gradually, your vision will be widened and you will know how to speak.
In the end, according to the above, there should be no problem, if the introvert will not deal with people is solved, there will be no more honesty (that is, being bullied)! Well, if you really can't do it, don't be discouraged, give up, and continue to change at the same time, but also dig more into your strengths, remember: when God closes a window for you, he will definitely open another door for you, come on!
Here's a little advice from me.
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Don't think so. Honesty also has the advantages and benefits of being honest.
Good moral character, being kind to others, and helping others will get sincere friendship and sincere praise from everyone.
If you become cunning and unkind, even if you may take advantage of one thing for a while, in the long run, you will still lose friends and hearts. The unjustified and helpless will outweigh the losses.
Of course, as you enter the society, in terms of interpersonal communication, in terms of dealing with people, some skills and methods, and precautions are still to be learned.
Don't be too rigid, including learning to use wise methods to protect your legitimate and reasonable interests.
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Too honest, how to become dishonest, what I want to say is that only honest people will have a clear conscience, a person with an honest personality will feel guilty if he does bad things, it is better to be honest.
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If you have this idea, it means that you have started to be dishonest. Horses are good at being ridden, people are good at being bullied, and people are not ruthless and unstable.
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You must have principles and a bottom line, and you can't follow the clouds.
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Isn't it good to be too honest? Why change it? Again, this is not a disadvantage.
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Get in touch with society more and slowly become dishonest.
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Why become dishonest? It's good to be right, being honest or not won't help you.
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My kids are too honest outside. I told him every day to be confident and self-reliant. At the same table, he also warmed his hands.
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Honesty is not a disadvantage, too sleek will not make people trust, so, there is an advantage and a disadvantage.
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The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change.
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It's not easy to change. Because temperament is difficult to change, it's not something that can be changed if you want to!
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When you feel that you are not honest, it is the beginning of dishonesty.
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You need to go through some bad things, or let others teach you badly, so that you can become dishonest.
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If an honest person wants to change himself, he must first change his thinking mode. In the process of thinking, dealing with things, and interpersonal communication, we should first distinguish the right and wrong of the whole picture of the event, analyze the thoughts of others, and learn to find the reasons of the other party, so that we can change our thinking and concepts.
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