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In social life, it is inevitable that people need to communicate with each other through language. Therefore, learning to speak and mastering certain speaking skills is an indispensable knowledge in life. If you say the same thing in a different way, the result is likely to be diametrically opposed, and using the right way of speaking can often get twice the result with half the effort.
No matter what role a person plays in society and what kind of identity they play, politeness has always been the rule that maintains constant interaction in interpersonal relationships.
There is a saying that "to respect others is to respect oneself". A polite person will be popular everywhere and will be warmly received by the people, while a person who is accustomed to a bad outlet will not be liked by others.
"Politeness" is a person's business card, and people who speak politely will be welcomed everywhere. Being polite or impolite may seem like a small thing, but sometimes it can directly affect the success or failure of a big thing. As one famous person said:
Politeness is the golden key to human coexistence","Politeness is an easy thing to do, but it is also the most precious thing", "politeness does not cost money, but it is worth more than anything else", "politeness can often replace the highest affection", "the most important thing in life is politeness, it is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge". Therefore, we must pay attention to being polite in our daily interactions.
Speak to fully express your meaning and emotions, but not by sound.
What is achieved by high, but by the decency of the tone to win. Although it is said that "reasonable" is "strong", it is also necessary to be polite if it is reasonable, and it is not high in voice to be reasonable. Reasonableness coupled with a decent tone will receive the effect of "reasonableness".
Therefore, it is very important and necessary for anyone to grasp the tone of speech.
Tone of voice plays an important role in talking to others, some people are easy to accept and willing to accept when they speak, and some people are not easy to accept, unwilling to accept or difficult to accept when they speak. Most of the reasons for this are due to the difference in tone. The same sentence, if it is said in a different tone, will have a different, or even opposite, effect.
So we have to be polite when we speak, and we also pay attention to the use of tone. Only when you say this way can you listen to it, others love to listen to it, and you are not afraid to go all over the world with "courtesy".
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100 wealth is equivalent to 2 cents, do you think this is "under the heavy reward, there will be a brave man"?
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Polite to go all over the world? How to understand this ceremony? Politeness, etiquette? Or is it a gift and a bribe?
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1. Writing characteristics of "Rain Alley" 1. The whole poem uses symbolic techniques to depict the picture of the "Rain Alley" in the small town in the south of the Yangtze River. 2. Another feature of its writing is that it is rich in quality, the melody of the whole poem reverberates, the rhythm is smooth, the rhyme is harmonious, and the pauses are clear. 3. The poem also uses techniques such as repetition, overlapping sentences, and duets to form a reciprocating melody, and the musicality is like a pleasant one.
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Dear Tutor Liu Shenhong, Tutor Song Jianghua and all family members are now good!
Today's sharing: There are "gifts" all over the world.
I remember that on September 6 last year and September 6 this year, I went to the police station to handle the meeting for the record, and it was just a full year.
I didn't learn the course last year and didn't understand "etiquette", that kind of arrogance and rudeness, so I was asked a lot of questions by the police in the process of filing, why did you run the class, what class did you do, what unit did you do, the teacher was the first, and how many of you were from the ......I was impatient to ask, so I didn't have a good tone when the police asked questions, and the police asked more when they saw this, and finally I said: It's not a pyramid scheme, then you can listen to it yourself! The police said
I'm afraid you're a pyramid scheme, so you'd better be honest. I also have to read the link to the newspaper to slow down my hunger, and I am even more angry, because of my anger, of course, I also stayed at the police station for a while, thinking that I had no wisdom at that time.
On September 6 this year, I went to the police station to handle the meeting for the record, and I used the "ceremony" taught by Liu Shenhong's tutor, and it took only two minutes to complete it, which made me more deeply realize that there is a "ceremony" to go all over the world. As soon as I entered the police station, I saluted the police, and then handed the information and ID card to the police with both hands, and the police took the information and ID card with both hands, he looked at it and didn't ask anything, copied an ID card, and then handed me the ID card with both hands, and said: You go back, we will call you if there is anything.
It turned out that so quickly, I was ready how the police were going to ask questions, and I didn't ask anything.
When I returned to the hotel, Manager Zhang asked me, did the police embarrass me, did it do it? I said it would be done in two minutes, and she said no, so fast. You know, we have a lot of people in charge of meetings here, sometimes they can't do it for two days, so they say that the police are too difficult to deal with!
I often return to the hotel angrily and say: Use the venue of your hotel, why doesn't the hotel help us deal with it! Hearing Manager Zhang say this, I know that Mentor Liu Shenhong disturbed me and taught me to only be respectful, not arrogant, only grateful, not complaining, which is vividly reflected at this moment!
Yes, Mentor Liu Shenhong said that when you respect others, you give them a chance to respect you!
Thanks to the wisdom and guidance of my mentor, I know that I am respectful and wise, and I should be respectful and courteous to everyone around me. Thank you for your teachings, thank you, I love you!
Thank you for the company and encouragement of your family, thank you, I love you!
Kunming trainee: Luo Xi (94).
September 11, 2019.
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Courtesy all over the world.
In today's society, in many cases, Eli Lilly needs to be sustained. Etiquette is very important to individuals, and when there is "etiquette" between relatives, there will be a lot of happiness; If you talk about "courtesy" between husband and wife, you can add joy; If there is a "courtesy" between teachers and students, it can also be filled with a happy atmosphere. So etiquette is very important for people.
What is Courtesy? Why be polite? If a person is polite, interpersonal relationships will be better, and when there is difficulty, others will lend a hand; Impolite people will be hated, no one will want to be good with impolite people, so it can be seen that politeness is very important, polite people, everyone will be close to you, but if you are not polite, no one will like you.
In my daily life, I always pay attention to politeness, and I often say, "Please, thank you, sorry." For example:
When I want to borrow something from someone, I say, "Can you please borrow me?" ”;When someone sends me something, I say:
Thank you! ”;And if I accidentally bump into someone, I say, "I'm sorry! , so that the most basic etiquette is achieved.
China has been known as the "country of etiquette" since ancient times, it can be seen that the people pay attention to politeness, if everyone can pay careful attention to all kinds of etiquette, everyone can get along with each other, treat each other with a respectful attitude, and communicate with each other in a rational way, we can enhance mutual understanding and friendship; If everyone makes the most basic way of doing things, strengthen their self-cultivation, learn to "walk the world with courtesy", and realize that "it is difficult to walk an inch without being rude". All politeness is the foundation of being a person, and it is a necessary condition for popularity, so we must always put the words "please, thank you, sorry" on your lips and be a polite child.
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"1. The country is still courteous, the family is big, the body is upright, and the heart is still courteous. ——Yan Yuan, a famous thinker in the Ming Dynasty of our country 2, those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them. 3. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand.
4. Learn etiquette, see the virtuous, and introspect when you see the unvirtuous. 5. Be polite and walk all over the world, and it is difficult to walk an inch rudely. 6. Etiquette is the cornerstone of success.
7. Etiquette is the embodiment of literacy. 8. Everyone needs praise, and you and I are no exception. 9. Good words warm people's hearts.
10. Shape and improve grooming. ”
Etiquette is thorough, and people are calmed (Rubel).
The greater the title, the more elaborate the liturgy (Tennyson).
Life is short, but despite this, there is time for etiquette (love and dedication).
If you think of etiquette as higher than the moon, you will lose the sincere trust between people (bacon).
Etiquette is to add a layer of algae to all his other virtues, to make them useful to him, to gain him the respect and favor of all those who are close to him (Locke).
A grand funeral is not so much to mourn the dead as to satisfy the vanity of the living (La Rochefoucauld).
Human faces have never been as worldly as they seem at a funeral (Joe Edgeworth).
If a person pays attention to the activity he observes on the street, I am sure, he will surely find the most pleasant expression on the hearse (Joe Swift).
What people value most is privilege, even the privilege of officiating at a funeral (Jean La Lowell).
The rite is the most humane (Xunzi).
To govern the people in peace, Mo is good at etiquette (filial piety).
The Tao is to tell virtue, and Qi is to be courteous (Analects).
If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand (Analects).
Rites, by the state, Dingsheji, the order of the people, the heirs of the benefit (left biography).
Rites, the scriptures of heaven also, and the people's lines are also (left biography).
If people are rude, they will not be born, if they are rude, they will not succeed, and if the country is rude, they will be restless (Xunzi).
If a person is polite, he is safe, and if he is rude, he is in danger (etiquette).
Etiquette to do righteousness, righteousness to generate profits, benefit the people, the great festival of government is also (left biography).
Etiquette, righteousness and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions are not open, and the country is perished (pipe).
Food and clothing are used to enrich the people's livelihood, and etiquette and righteousness are used to nourish their hearts (Yuan Xu Heng).
Liyi is born of wealth, and theft is born of poverty (Han Wang Fu).
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Etiquette is to do righteousness, righteousness is to make profits, benefit the people, and the major festivals of government are also (Zuo Chuan) Etiquette, righteousness and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions are not open, and the country is perished (Guanzi) Food and clothing are used to enrich the people's livelihood, and etiquette and righteousness are used to nourish their hearts (Yuan Xu Heng).
Propriety is born of abundance, and theft begins with poverty (Han
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In today's society, business etiquette has become a powerful, practical, and rewarding workplace skill. In many cases, success or failure in the workplace is not determined by ability and professionalism, but by etiquette and coping.
But in the actual business situation, many professionals will be confused: How to create a perfect professional image? How to become a master communicator in the workplace?
How should we wrap ourselves up and express ourselves on important and solemn occasions? Dr. Lan Tian, an etiquette training expert, combines years of experience in corporate training, starting from actual business activities, to create a necessary etiquette guide for business elites in the workplace, and provides intimate etiquette details tips to make your personal image more perfect. Mastering and using business etiquette will enable you to have a good professional demeanor in all situations, and help you succeed in your career.
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Confucius said: "Those who are courteous also respect people." It can be seen that "etiquette" is to respect oneself and others to specifically coordinate interpersonal communication and interpersonal relationships.
"Li" is a kind of moral norm. "Yi" refers to the specific manifestation of "rites", that is, the standardized practices of "rites" with operable nature.
"Etiquette" is a specific manifestation of self-discipline and respect for others. Etiquette, etiquette is the inner thought, and etiquette is the external form. The outer form can only be alive if it serves the inner thought, and the inner thought can only be revealed through the external form.
Left Biography: Rite, Li Ye.
It means that etiquette is a standard of service that is formulated in accordance with the requirements of moral reason.
Analects and Learning: The use of etiquette, harmony is precious.
It means that the main purpose of the ceremony is to promote the harmony of people's body and mind, the harmony of interpersonal relationships, and ultimately the harmony of the whole society.
The Book of Rites: Rites, time is great.
It means that the norms of etiquette are constantly changing with the times, the way of life is constantly changing, and the form of etiquette is also adjusted.
The Book of Rites: With Etiquette.
It means that "etiquette" must be used to concretely restrict interpersonal communication and interpersonal relations, that is, the so-called "covenant with courtesy".
Mencius: "A gentleman is different from others, and he is also with his heart." A gentleman is benevolent and courteous. The benevolent love others, and the courteous respect others. Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them.
It means that a gentleman and ordinary people do not talk about the same thing, it lies in what is in the heart, the gentleman stores benevolence and propriety in his heart, the benevolent will love others, the courteous will respect others, you care for others, others will care for you, you respect others, and others will respect you. (Fundamental Principles of Etiquette).
The Analects of Yongye" spring matching: quality wins the text, the quality wins the history, the quality is polite, and then the gentleman.
It means that if simplicity is better than literature, it will appear rude, and if literature is better than simplicity, it will appear vain. Both literary and simple, and then you can become a gentleman. (The principle of moderation of etiquette).
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