The dream is shattered, and the reality is so cruel that I can t face it, help me

？？You're weird about what you think.

Let me put it from the perspective of a student. In our class, when I looked up, almost everyone wore glasses, even the teacher. Maybe it's troublesome to push your glasses when you wear your eyes, it's troublesome to eat with, or maybe you have other troubles that I don't know about.

However, I personally think that boys with eyes are very good-looking, very literate, and very wise. If, you wear glasses, put on clean clothes, puff out your chest, and look straight ahead. So, how do you know that others will look down on you just by wearing glasses?

I dare say no.

Many people wear glasses, and if they are not the windows to the eyes, at least, they do make our world brighter. If you have surgery, it is said that *** is quite big. Moreover, it is usually those who can mistake rats for elephants that require surgery.

I don't think you need to.

Self-confidence is given to oneself. It's true. If you say the above things to you every day, it is estimated that no matter how confident you are, you will feel inferior. Smile at yourself.

Sometimes chic has many definitions, but if you only measure it from the appearance (wearing glasses), doesn't it feel a little superficial?

god will open a window when he close a door.

cheer up!

Are you ugly with glasses If you are nearsighted, the prescription will deepen faster without glasses.

It's good to wear glasses regularly, I used to be like you, but now I think I'm handsome with glasses, and people say the same, hehe.

I don't know how to comfort you, brother

In fact, sometimes I find that myopia is really annoying!

I sometimes wonder how nice it would be if I wasn't short-sighted

It depends on what kind of perfection you want.

If it's the perfection of the body, the kind that can't be rubbed with a little sand, then myopia is of course a pretty serious thing.

But if you think you're perfect when you're not nearsighted, I admire you.

If God gives you a chance, let you choose 1Restore normal vision to the past2If you choose one to improve your body or personality, which one will you choose?

I said bro

You still have college to study, I didn't graduate from junior high school, so I don't mix it up

It's okay to be a little confident

Dreams are shattered, it is indeed very depressing, we must remember that this repression is only temporary, and we must release this suppressed emotion.

The dream of the potato is shattered, which does not mean that all or future life and work will be bleak. Dreams are nothing but what people want to achieve. Dreams are shattered, only the goals that people have achieved become more illusory.

But people still have to move forward in their daily lives. When the dream is shattered, we can reshape a dream, as long as we persevere, as long as we have enough faith, confidence, and strong self-confidence. Eventually, we will reinvent our dreams and move towards them to achieve our desired state.

For the pent-up emotions after the dream is shattered, learn to release. This pent-up negative energy can be released through other cathartic means, such as choosing to get drunk at a bar. Or choose to travel close to nature.

Let the beautiful things and scenery wash away the negative energy of lead deficiency in the heart, reduce the oppressive influence of this negative energy, and let your mentality return to sunshine, happiness and positivity. So as to get rid of this negative energy emotion of depression and frustration. Keep up the good work and keep moving forward.

Strive for the new dreams of the eggplanters.

Then re-establish your ideals!! Dreams and dreams are thought in dreams, it is an idealized idea, life cannot be smooth sailing, setbacks are everywhere, and there is nothing to fail for a while! Rebuild the lineup and start anew.

If you are tired and depressed, Hongdou will go out for a walk, travel if you have money, and climb down the mountain (safely) to the top of the mountain if you don't have money, which is very effective! If you have been having a gloomy idea, find a close friend to complain, or find a professional (doctor or related practitioner) for psychological intervention, it's nothing! For a while, I couldn't think about it stupidly, but thanks to the guidance of professionals, I felt too stupid in retrospect, and the future will be long!

What is the adversity in front of you!! Come on and live, it's better to live filial piety! Of course, whether it is to establish ideals or dreams, we should be realistic, and work hard to be cautious, and do not fish for three days and dry nets for two days, and then complain about the injustice of heaven.

If you are tired in high school, you can not pay too much attention to academic performance, after all, living is the most important thing, you must learn to relieve pressure on yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself to ruin, high school is just a stage of life, each stage of life needs to be experienced by your own brother, the past is memories, come on!

Don't have any other thoughts when the pressure is great, be happy, everything will be fine, the difficulties will always pass, and the light will always come one day.

In fact, from the day I started college, I wanted to become a very good fashion designer, I felt that as long as I was young, any dream could be easily realized, and I even thought that because of studying fashion design, there would be some art learning, and I could bring an art class in the future.

In a few years, when the graduation season is approaching, everyone begins to look for jobs, some students choose to go to garment factories, some students choose various other industries, Ah Ling and I are very blind, we look for jobs in cafes, clothing stores, service industries, various newspapers everywhere to find jobs, but none of them are suitable, hey? What's the matter with God? After graduating from college, I am unemployed, and I have been decadent at home for several years, and finally I feel that the days in the Internet café are enough, I want to go to work, I want to find a job!

Work didn't fall from the sky, I was suddenly decadent, I saw an advertisement for learning makeup, and I looked back and thought that the most direct reason for being dumped by my boyfriend was that I didn't know how to dress up, thinking that my facial features were beautiful and blindly confident, and I missed my favorite first love. I can't help but visit this girl's QQ space countless times, and I have to say that I also think it's beautiful, so what should I do? Unexpectedly, this advertisement really inspired me to directly learn the most advanced makeup, in addition to transforming myself, I also have the ability to transform others.

Choosing to study was just a reluctant move, but looking back on it, I'm grateful for that decision.

After a short period of study, I quickly found the top ten photo studio jobs in the market that year, and met a lot of friends such as film retouching, makeup, modeling, etc., and my own self-confidence came spontaneously, although I was given a very low salary back then, at least I was relieved, and my own ignorance paid for it but achieved more connections and life turns.

I no longer find it difficult to find a job, I started to enter the makeup training business, and as a result, I persevered for nearly 10 years, I am not only younger than my peers in the industry, but also have a tall and handsome husband, and I am also very senior in the industry, I am keen on technology combined with marketing. I use my conscience to persuade every independent woman who doesn't want to be dependent on others, I think your life should be more exciting, don't lose the best youth at the age you can do. No one in this world will think that you have a connotation when they see your first impression, at least others should be interested in understanding your connotation, although there are often a lot of funny ** on Douyin is also this kind of line, but girls think about it carefully, do you feel that you want to vomit when you have a poor image, let alone someone who is not your body?

At that time, my dream was really big, and to face it, a fashion designer needs a family with a lot of money, a lot of knowledge, and a lot of time to study. Not everyone can have a big dream in this life, but we can set ourselves realistic small goals, and one step at a time will definitely help you achieve them.

It's normal for everyone to have a lot of unattainable dreams. Because dreams must be realistic, and they can only be realized through unremitting efforts. I also have a lot of dreams that I haven't fulfilled because I haven't worked hard enough.

When I was in high school, I was particularly envious of the profession of archaeology, and when I filled in the volunteers, I found that only Peking University had an archaeology major, and Peking University was okay, so I had to give up Peking University and go to other schools.

Everyone has their own dreams, and I am no exception, but my dreams were shattered by my cowardice, because I never believed in my own ability, I was afraid of this and that, and finally gave up my dream.

My dream was shattered by reality, because it was difficult to find a job, this dream was not realized in the end, and I had to change careers in the end.

In fact, many people's dreams are defeated by reality, dreams are beautiful, but reality is cruel.

My dream was shattered by money because my dream was to travel abroad, but I didn't have a lot of money.