Why are more and more girls not in a hurry to get married?

You may see girls in their twenties, they think that getting married is not a big deal, they don't need to deal with it seriously, and they don't need to be in a hurry, because they are young, they can say that they are not in a hurry to get married, and it doesn't matter if they are thirty and not married. But a little bigger, you see. <>

Women over twenty-five will be afraid if they don't have a boyfriend, this is the common nature of women, they all say that they don't care, marriage is not important, it doesn't matter, etc., but they are very anxious. They also want to have a home, and a girl lives alone until twenty-five, strong and tired.

Most people say that they don't want to get married are lies, maybe they are hurt by love, but they actually believe in love, they may be suppressed by reality too hard, but they are yearning for a new life. So don't think that girls are not in a hurry to get married. That's a very small minority.

A very small number of them feel that they can live well, they don't have a favorite person, they don't need someone to pamper them, they can. If you don't believe it, it's petite when a strong girl meets a lover.

Because most women are very independent nowadays, they want a life of their own, and they don't want to be tied down because they get married. It is also because most girls nowadays pay attention to their careers, unlike in the past, marriage was a woman's biggest career. Part of the reason is that many girls nowadays are actually immature, they don't want to get married because they are old enough to get married, they should marry someone they really like.

There is also the fact that love and marriage are too unreal and credible in the eyes of women, and it is better to be free and easy than to be sad. Also, as Zhang Ailing said, "marriage is the grave of love", once you get married, there are a lot of cumbersome things that need to be solved, and the other party may not care about you as much as before, so it is better to be in love or single all the time. In this way, you can have the life you want.

Nowadays, many girls in society are shouting not to get married because they can't find the meaning of marriage. Because it may be that there are too many girls who have been injured in society now, especially those who have been affected in marriage, and such trauma will affect them for a lifetime. Just like He Jie, she said in a variety show that "she will never get married in the future, but she still believes in love".

There are also girls now, they can do everything by themselves, quite independent, marriage is equivalent to bondage for them, and some people are afraid that the other party's parents will ask to have children after marriage.

These many factors have caused many girls in modern society to be reluctant to get married, hoping that all girls will marry love rather than the appropriate age marriage.

What are you doing in a hurry to get married, busy giving birth to children, being a mother, and then becoming a middle-aged woman, you don't know the joy of falling in love, I can wait until I work to support myself with a salary, how comfortable I am, after I get married, I have to support my family, and I have to face my mother-in-law who is said to be the enemy of my previous life, why go to find this sin so early?

Don't say that marriage is a very sacred thing, but the sacred is also the holy day of marriage, the rest of the life will be tied to a person, and your salary will be saved to support your family, and then you have to face your mother-in-law, although you may meet a better mother-in-law, but ** have your own happy life! I have a boyfriend now, and I can live happily on my own, ** not good, I have to enter the grave of love so early.

If you get married, you have to have a child, this is simply an activity to turn a girl into a middle-aged woman, a girl becomes a middle-aged woman so early, and then let her husband go to see other beautiful little girls?

There is no benefit to getting married so early, it will only make you more tired, so why bother, if you are not married, there is no burden on your family, and the girl's salary is enough to buy and buy by herself, and she lives a comfortable life.

Girls are becoming more and more reluctant to get married because they are becoming more and more independent and powerful.

I am a nobleman myself, and I am a queen myself" This is a very classic sentence, but it is indeed the case in reality, although not everyone can be as wealthy as Fan Bingbing. But there are a lot of girls in society, very good, they have excellent grades, beautiful faces, beautiful figures, and very high income, high social status.

Therefore, they no longer need to rely on boys for many things, and many things can be obtained through their own efforts, and there is no need to combine their sense of security with men as before, and yearn for men to give them a sense of security. No one really can't live if they lose it.

Another reason is that in this less simple era, many emotions are not reliable. In an increasingly profitable society, the interaction between men and women is often mixed with more interests. For example, valuing the other party's family background is enough to help him change his status of "crows on trees and become phoenixes".

Another example is to value the other party's house, car and nanny.

Everyone is afraid that others will take advantage of them and not have true love for themselves. Therefore, there are many people who do not believe in love and marriage more and more.

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The first reason may be that life is getting better and better, especially for the post-90s, everyone doesn't want to put their lives into the family too early, revolve around the family every day, live a life of two points and one line in the vegetable market, and will deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and after giving birth to children, they may take care of the children, have no time for themselves, and can't go shopping and play with sisters and friends!

The second reason may be because I haven't met the right person, I don't want to get married because of the family's urging age, let me give you an example, one of my cousins is 25 years old, but she hasn't gotten married for a long time, and even her friends haven't made friends, and her family is worried about her business, and all kinds of relatives and friends will ask her to help introduce the situation, but she herself is not in a hurry. was also introduced on a blind date, and under the pressure of his family, he also went to meet a man, and the two initially <>

It's okay to get along, my sister also said that this person is not ugly and it's good for her, thinking about it, but in the end they broke up, and then I heard my sister say that she was really stressed during that time, because my grandmother was very satisfied with this person, and she cried many times for this! I asked her why, he said that a life is so long, I want to find someone I like, I hope that I am married because of love, not a boy who has only met a few times, I don't want to settle, even if I am single, at least comfortable!

Presumably most girls are these two reasons, I think the same way myself, don't rush to get married, wait until I'm mature enough and then good enough to think about getting married!

I think there are three reasons for this.

The first point is that girls are very independent nowadays, so most people are also independent in their thinking. There are a lot of girls who work on their own to make money, some work in electronics companies, some work in water conservancy and hydropower companies, and most of the professions that boys can do are also being done by girls, and there is nothing that girls can't do. In this social context, girls will be very independent in their thinking, and they don't want to limit their work because they get married and start a family.

After all, if you get married and have children, then there will be a compromise between the two parties to take care of the children at home. Women in the new era don't want to be tied down, so they are not in a hurry to get married.

The second point is that there is not a popular sentence now, and I am not willing to compromise. Many girls may have watched too much TV, so they are not willing to settle. If you don't meet the right one, why should you get married.

If you don't get married, you will live a chic life, and you will always find someone who suits you while waiting. That's what most TV says, so girls firmly believe that yes, I'm going to give in, and happiness will always come to me.

The third point is that the work pressure is high. What young people are most afraid of when they get married now is the house, the house price is so high, but when you get married, you have to buy it, so you buy a house for marriage, and then you will become a house slave in the future. You have to make a careful calculation every day to see how much you can pay off your mortgage this month.

This kind of day is not what many girls want, so most people want to find a boy with good conditions, at least a little security.

That's why I'm analyzing. Whichever one you are, I hope you can find your happiness as soon as possible.

Both boys and girls are now blowing the "late marriage wind", and this phenomenon is more common among girls, and there are many such girls around me. For example, my cousin, she has a relatively high education and relatively cutting-edge thinking, she thinks that girls should not rely on boys, and she can live a better life with her own efforts and talents, and often does not need to step into marriage. In fact, this is the thinking of most women who marry late, and the cutting-edge thinking is one of the factors that produce this phenomenon.

Secondly, everyone's lifestyle has changed, we used to think that marriage is the whole of life, and marriage is the destination of love. But at the moment, marriage has become cheaper, and we can still live happily without marriage. My university teacher, who is 36 years old and still single, has her own mind, and she feels that marriage will limit her freedom, which is what some women think nowadays.

In fact, women pay more in marriage, and often need to face the obligation to have children and raise children, and these require them to live in a free way, so women's pursuit of marriage is slowly weakening.

Nowadays, many girls feel that getting married is really a thing that is not in a hurry, and they all think that they should enjoy themselves in their best years. Once a woman gets married, she revolves around her husband and children, which is the most annoying thing for many girls.

In today's society, Western ideas are constantly prevalent, and even many girls don't want to get married, and they feel that they are good alone. Our generation has seen many traditional Chinese women's phenomena, such as our grandparents' generation, who entered the palace of marriage early. It is true that they live happily and have happy families, but the women of that generation really sacrificed too much to have such a good life.

So nowadays, many women feel that they have to live for themselves, and getting married too early will indeed bind themselves.

It can be said that many women nowadays have become selfish, they know how to live for themselves, marriage is just a formality, and the most important thing is to live happily by themselves. Many people may say, can't you live for yourself if you are married? Of course, you can, but there is absolutely no freedom to be single, you will have a lot of ties, family, children, parents.

It's all you need to consider. So nowadays women will want to get married later.

Because today's girls are becoming more and more independent, they don't need the warmth of boys and the constraints of family. Today's girls are very individual, like freedom, and don't want to be restricted and destroyed by marriage.

Nowadays, girls will go to college, unlike in the past, when they dropped out early and had nothing to do. Some of them will continue their studies after going to college, and some will step into society and start their own business and work.

This turning process is very difficult for girls, it is a transformation, and it is also a challenge.

At this time, they have no intention or thought at all to talk about marriage, maybe they will be in love, maybe they are still single, but at this time they are still focused on their own work.

When the job is stable and you can have time and energy to scatter your time and energy on emotional matters, the pressure of work is still there, your own space and entertainment freedom are still there, and you can fall in love, but you still don't want to enter the strange circle of marriage so soon.

Marriage is a very distant thing for girls nowadays, how good it is to fall in love, get along freely and freely, if you like it, you can be together, and if you don't like it, you can separate, which is like marriage needs to face so much.

For them, if they don't love someone very much, want to be with him all the time, if they don't especially want to have a home to settle their hearts, there is no reason to attract them to choose to get married.

Why not? Anything I can see in doing something is good, it's more interesting than my previous life and not all of it is bad, it's not a heavenly blow as soon as I enter, then I think, many girls are still willing.

Marriage may only make a man more obligated and stable, but for women, it is a change-like change.

In these processes, if there is a little bit of others who can't see her contribution but think that she is constantly working at ease, then the girl is extremely prone to depression, not only in life is not going well, but also feels humiliated in front of her family.

Think about living under such psychological pressure every day, who would not disintegrate?

Starting a family means that you will have to get out of the original family, and it is difficult to repay the kindness of your parents when you leave, so you can run away later, accompany your parents more, and do your filial piety! Starting a family means getting rid of celibacy, one person is fed, the day when the whole family is not hungry will be over, and the obligation of a new home will be shouldered!

What's the use of that?

At the beginning, the man knelt down and begged the woman to get married, and made a vow, but what? What is the one thing that takes care of the girl's trembling? Isn't a girl just a living pawn to complete the major events in a boy's life?

At the beginning, I was able to support myself, dressed up in a fancy way, unrestrained, and no one made me angry, and lived a carefree life, but after getting married, my body was out of shape, and I didn't have time to dress up my children every day, but I was disgusted by my husband's spring grip, and I also had the pressure of my in-laws.

Don't say it's a girl, even a boy doesn't want to choose marriage when he sees it, right?

Although it is true that there are some husbands and in-laws in marriage, but the experience of girls after marriage is much worse than before marriage, so it is normal for more and more girls to be reluctant to get married, and it is also a manifestation of social development.