Why are more and more people regretting getting married?

With the development of the economy at will, the continuous progress of the times, and the continuous opening of ideas, many people regard marriage as child's play, and decide to marry another person without serious consideration, only to find that they are not used to life after marriage at all, and they are not ready to face various problems after marriage, and there is no hope for their future, and they regret getting married, and there are many reasons for regretting marriage.

The first point is that I don't feel like it's right with my other half

Due to the open-mindedness, people less and less regard the marriage equation as an important thing, and the two red books are becoming less and less binding for two people. Some people don't have an in-depth understanding of each other when they get married, they just see each other's surface, and they get married when they think it's suitable, but they will find out their true colors when they get married, and find that they are all disguised when they are with themselves, and find that his promises to you before marriage are basically fake, or the personalities of the two people are not in harmony at all, for example, one person is open-minded, one is particularly traditional, and it is very difficult for two people to get along. Spend a lifetime with someone with a discordant personality.

So what else is the meaning of this life. Definitely regretting getting married.

The second point is that I am not ready to face the pressure of getting married and cannot afford it

Some people say that marriage is the happiest thing in a person's life, and some people say that marriage is like a grave, I think marriage is like a grave, how to say, although marriage is good, but the pressure of marriage is a lot, and it is also very big, for example, the pressure between two families, marriage links two families that have no intersection together, and there must be a lot of discord and discomfort between them. The two families are definitely going to have conflicts, and at this time they need to communicate with each other, which may be a dilemma and don't know how to deal with it. For example, the pressure of car loans and mortgages, the pressure of children, getting married, we have a home of our own, we should be responsible for this family, everything in the family needs us to plan, when you are alone, you only need to take care of yourself, you need to worry about a lot after becoming a family, car loans and mortgages, you need to repay money every month, the pressure of children, we have our own children, then we must be responsible for the growth of children, not only to take care of children, but also to educate children do not want their children to suffer, When our children grow up, going to school and starting a family are all stressful for us.

Thirdly, marriage restricts our freedom

After getting married, you are no longer a person who needs to be responsible for the whole family, unlike when you are alone, the whole family is not hungry, one person is much freer, you can do whatever you want, you can go out to travel by yourself, you can go shopping when you want, and no one cares how late you sleep, but when you get married, it is difficult to do these things.

The first point is that I feel that I am not suitable for my other half. Love and marriage are not the same, some people are suitable for love, but not necessarily suitable for marriage, many people are very happy in the love period, so they will want to care about each other all the time, completely did not carefully consider how to live in the future, and when they get married, they will find that the understanding of the understanding is only to stay on the surface, there is no in-depth understanding at all, two people from the personality or habits or other details, it is very difficult to get along, so there is a regret of the idea of marriage.

The second point is that I can't afford the pressure of marriage. Although marriage can make two people who love each other live happily together, marriage is also realistic, and the pressure after marriage is in many ways, such as linking two completely unsociable families together, there will be many contradictions from life to thought, children are caught in the middle of the dilemma, and the car loan and housing loan that need to be repaid after marriage and the pressure of children, everything in the family needs to be planned, and when you can't bear this pressure, you will regret the idea of getting married.

The third point is that freedom is bound by marriage. Before getting married, you are free, you can do whatever you want, and you only have to bear your own life, but after you get married, you need to be responsible for the whole family, and you can't do what you want alone.

Marriage is not such an easy thing, if you are not ready to get married, you must decide carefully.

More and more people regret getting married because they can't be understanding and tolerant, and they all live with themselves as the center, so there will definitely be a lot of quarrels, so of course the relationship will fade, and even disgust their other half.

Because after getting married, they are not as happy as they imagined before they got married, but they are getting worse and worse. Worse than his previous life, that contrast made him feel that marriage was really boring, and hated marriage.

Because after getting married, you will face having children, the burden and responsibility will definitely be much greater than before marriage, there will be more family chores, and the quality of life should decline a lot, so you will regret it.

It may be that the real married life is different from the imaginary married life, and there is a gap, so some people will regret getting married.

Every marriage needs to be managed by people's hearts, and they can't be retreated and regretted because there is a gap.

Reasons for regretting getting married.

The only reason is that after getting married, I am not as happy as I was before marriage.

Many things in married life are more difficult than you think.

There are more family ties.

Household expenses are also increasing.

When you have children, you become egoless.

After marriage, love may also become family affection.

If only enough love.

These can also be faced and solved together.

Why are there more and more, why are more and more people regretting getting married? Because people get married, they live a life that is very hard and tiring, because you have limited freedom, responsibilities and financial pressures.

It's not that many people regret getting married, but if he gets along with his other half, he is not so harmonious, in fact, he should be more tolerant and tolerant.

It may be that I got married in a daze without meeting someone I really liked, and then regretted it.

Because I found that after getting married, it was different from when I was in love before.

1. Learn to empathize.

The honey of A, the arsenic of B. Even if two people are married, they are two independent individuals, and they will have different feelings about the same thing. As for the uniqueness of the marriage relationship, both parties want to be able to gain the understanding of the other party.

Many people are too self-conscious, and when they have a disagreement with their partner, they just blindly blame each other and accuse each other of making things too bad, but they never think about it from the other person's point of view.

If you always understand your partner from your own point of view, then the partner you understand is only what you subconsciously want to see, not the real person.

In a long married life, if the two can't really understand each other, even if they stick together every day, they can't offset the invasion of loneliness.

2. Accept imperfections.

People must not be perfect, fairies also have to go to the toilet, and male gods will also fart and burp. Marriage should be stable for a long time, and we must learn to accept each other's flaws.

In the early days of love, due to the halo effect and endocrine disruption, we can't see each other's shortcomings, and the nervous system naturally filters out the shortcomings. With the passage of time, the aura disappears, and this is the time to test a person's heart.

The famous genius Li Ao and the "Taiwan's No. 1 Fortune Beauty" Hu Mengyin were originally a pair of talented and beautiful women, but the two divorced soon after they got married, and Li Ao's remarks after the divorce were even more shocking.

Li Ao said that Hu Mengyin's constipation made him unacceptable, in his heart, Hu Mengyin should be a beauty with no dead ends at 360 degrees, and he couldn't accept Hu Mengyin's distorted and flushed face when he was constipated.

Although the reasons for the survival of a marriage are not so child's play, there must be conflicts caused by the unwillingness of both parties to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

If a person can't learn to accept, then not only marriage, but also his life, career, and life can bring him extremely limited happiness, because if he doesn't accept the lack of tremor and quietly dismantle, he will never be able to experience it completely.

3. Create a new self together.

After the heartbeat brought by hormones has passed, two people in a marriage will inevitably go through a relatively silent stage, and this is how the saying of the seven-year itch comes from.

This is the law of the development of things, and although we all do not want to admit that we like the new and hate the old, it is human nature.

There is no need to blame yourself, in fact, the meaning of marriage is not only to live together, pull your beloved other half to explore more possibilities in life together, and let you entangle each other a little deeper and deeper.

If you are afraid of trouble, just like Chen Yu in "Thirty Only", you stay with the fish after work and ignore your wife, then don't blame the marriage for giving yourself a failing answer.

Marriage is our resting place after fighting against the world, and if we manage our marriage well, the happiness of life will be extraordinary.

When nature created human beings, it did not give us the quality of comfort and ease, and everything we have is the result of hard work. Therefore, if you are lazy in marriage, you will always have to pay it back in its place.

There are many problems after marriage, family relationships are complicated, there are too many things about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there is a lot of pressure, so it is wrong to regret getting married!

Regret is because of marital problems, even if you are single, you may regret not getting married because of other things.

I believe that each of us is very, looking forward to love, because love is happy and very beautiful. Especially when we meet someone we like very much, then of course we want to be able to marry someone we like.

So we see that many people take the initiative to care about each other and love each other in order to be with the person they like, because they hope that through such care and love, they can be with the person they like, and eventually they can have happiness and sweet love.

But we see that not everyone is happy and beautiful in their marriage, some people find that the other party is not suitable for them after they get married, and there will often be some contradictions and conflicts between two people. Some people even begin to regret being with each other, so sometimes they wonder if you regret marrying each other.

A small number of people say that they do regret it, because they found out. In the end, the other party was not as good as he imagined. I didn't even care about her so well and love her.

When two people are together, they can only care for and love each other, so that their love will last longer. So it's precisely because they don't know how to cherish each other. So of course they regret marrying each other very much, of course, we see that for most people, their married life is still very good.

Because they can understand and support each other, after all, it is difficult for two people not to encounter problems, they will understand and support each other, so that they can be better together, get along, and they will also care and love each other with their hearts. In this way, the relationship between the two people is deeper.

So we see a lot of people. They all want to marry the person they like, but a small number of them regret it very much after getting married, because they feel that they have married the wrong person.

But I see that for most people. Their married life is very happy, because two people can care for and love each other, and they can understand and support each other, and the other party believes that this will make their married life more beautiful, and will also make their feelings deeper. In this way, their marriage will be happier and more satisfying.

In today's society, the times are constantly progressing, the mind is constantly open, many people get married as soon as their brains are hot, and they have not carefully considered the future, they feel that they live in a disturbed life with each other through marriage, and only after they get married do they find that they are not at all as they imagined, and they are not ready to deal with various problems after marriage, so they begin to regret getting married, of course, there are many reasons for regretting marriage. Why do most people regret it when they get married?

The first point is that I feel that I and my other half are not suitable for dressing. Love and marriage are not the same, some people are suitable for love, but not necessarily suitable for marriage, many people are very happy in the love period, so they will want to care about each other all the time, completely did not carefully consider how to live in the future, and when they get married, they will find that the understanding of the understanding is only to stay on the surface, there is no in-depth understanding at all, two people from the personality or habits or other details, it is very difficult to get along, so there is a regret of the idea of marriage.

The second point is that I can't afford the pressure of marriage. Although marriage can make two people who love each other live happily together, marriage is also realistic, and the pressure after marriage is in many ways, such as linking two completely unsociable families together, there will be many contradictions from life to thought, children are caught in the middle of the dilemma, and the car loan and housing loan that need to be repaid after marriage and the pressure of children, everything in the family needs to be planned, and when you can't bear this pressure, you will regret the idea of getting married.

The third point is that freedom is bound by marriage. Before getting married, you are free, you can do whatever you want, you only have to bear your own life, but after you get married, you need to be responsible for the whole family, you can't do what you want alone, you can be free for a long time, and when you are stupid, Li Zaudan will be upset when she is bound, and she will begin to regret getting married.