I ve been in love for three years and have been living together because of one of my indifferences,

Dude, I should have said something nice to you to persuade you, but there are some objective facts that I hope you must understand, and I am doing this for your good.

First of all, you have to rule out if she has another boyfriend (or is in a suit). Love is trust, indeed, but by no means blind trust! I'm sure that since the two of you have been living together for 3 years, it is impossible to break up just because of "one indifference", there must have been many things before, and I will not ask about the various reasons, but you must think about it carefully.

Every time you contact her, she has a reply, and the cold reply is also a reply, proving that she hasn't completely given up on you. She said she didn't know how to get along with you, I think it must be because you didn't give her enough personal space and respect, respect her decisions, her thoughts, her friends, sometimes you are right, but she is a girl and has some little vanity and pride of girls, you must be humble and understanding.

There is nothing that can't get by, it's a man who has to resist it, otherwise no one will look up to you.

And you are not the worst, talk about myself, I have been in love with my girlfriend for 3 years, lived together for 1 year, broke up more than 2 months ago, she got married a few days ago, married to a rich man who has known him for a month, old, ugly and fat. So, let me tell you, it's a man, no matter how reasonable you are, no matter how much you give, at this time, you should also shut up and prove it with your own actions.

Give her time, give herself time. Maybe the two themselves are tired of each other.

It's best to pay attention to the women around you and prepare for your next goal.

Calm down for a while, in fact, I want to say, you leave for a while, open up for a while.

This woman said this, I think it's hard to continue, love someone won't think of this, unless love is afraid, love is weak, love can no longer cover up your shortcomings, understand?

Wait for her to figure it out and then look for you, if she doesn't look for you, you look for her, it's just a kind of entanglement.

Send her a text message, promising to give her 3 days to consider calming down, and make an appointment to meet and talk after 3 days, as long as the heart-to-heart talk will improve.

If you still love, you will miss it after a day of separation, as long as you are diligent to find her, she will come back, if you don't love, you won't come back.

Seven years of itching! It doesn't turn out to be suitable, just forget about it!

Youth is beautiful, it is all worth it, it is all good memories, don't force it to continue, don't destroy that beauty, it's enough to treasure it in your heart!

Although you have been talking about your relationship for many years, it is not appropriate to pass the test of time, it is a good thing that you have left each other decisively, and you will start a new life from now on, and maybe it will become the most beautiful memory after many years.

Hehe! Premarital phobia!

What a model husband. Friendship can stand the dull and can't stand the wind and rain. Love can withstand wind and rain, but it can't stand the bland.

Sometimes you can't get used to her too much. It's not good to hold her up to the sky. How to say this, you must learn to cultivate the feeling of being inadvertently angry (of course, you must be able to grasp this yourself).

Good luck.

We've struggled together, are you still afraid that your love is not firm? But only if you are true love. I really love Everyone should know that they understand each other and are considerate of each other in love.

The two of them have to talk more about what is in their hearts, in fact, sometimes you find it difficult to say things clearly, and they will solve it when you say it. You have to understand the other person's thoughts, don't guess subjectively, that's fine. Believe in true love.

Do you love her? Do you really love her? ......Then let it go.

I think sometimes arguing is also a form of flirting, so you might as well give it a try.

Not getting married is not being responsible for a woman.

Life is already very plain, communicate well, set your next goal, only positive and enterprising people can maintain the heat of love, which is also the nobility of love.

This mainly depends on you, whether you still love her, whether you mind her past, whether you have gotten along well for so many years, whether you have run in, and whether she really loves you. Your own state of mind is clear only to you, and this needs to be carefully considered. As for that lady, her personality is too impulsive, she can get married and get pregnant and divorce just because she is angry, she is very irresponsible for her feelings and herself, I don't know if she usually does not think about the consequences, if so, you really have to think about whether this person is suitable for you and suitable for married life.

The advice to you is that, in addition to your feelings for her have reached the point of ignoring everything, you should also consider the following practical issues:

1. Her short marriage is a man's marriage, so whether her family has a requirement for her future husband to ask the man to join her;

2. Whether your parents can accept her flash marriage, ** and divorce, after all, marriage is still related to the union of two families;

3. Whether she does things recklessly and performs in ordinary life, whether you can deal with these consequences and be willing, will not affect your feelings for her;

4. Whether the woman has the awareness and performance to improve her character defects, the maintenance of feelings cannot rely on love alone, and many words and deeds will have an impact on it.

If I accept it decisively and am willing to make such a sacrifice for you, I think I really love you, but her willfulness and character have to be changed is the premise of reconciliation, or will there be a good life for you in the future.

Take the bet that you like her, this woman is hopeless, and she is not afraid that her marriage and divorce will repeat itself in you, so she will give up decisively and cut off contact.

Then you have to ask yourself whether you really love her and whether you have the heart to tolerate her faults.