Someone I ve been obsessed with for 7 years has never felt good for me

I don't know what you like about that person, but I advise you not to become obsessed with an unrequited love and hurt the person around you who cares about you and loves you. There is a saying, it is very good, cherish the people in front of you. It's been 7 years, and everything can be forgotten.

Maybe all you are clinging to is a feeling ... Also, even if he thinks of you when he's sad, she never thinks of you when she's happy... It's not so much that she has you in her heart, but that she enjoys more care from the opposite sex outside her family.

It's human nature. After a long time, there will be problems...

Many people have your experience, because they love her but can't get her love, one of the great tragedies of life is also here, maybe silent love will one day get true love, maybe not, but with your persistence in love, one day you will also discover your true love, maybe just around, there is a person who is also silently loving you... I wish you happiness.

After so many years of perseverance, we can't describe it in words, you don't need our sympathy, this is your dedication to true love, no regrets, persuade you to give up, how can feelings be said to let go, then it's not real feelings, it can only be said, when you are tired, tired, can't hold on, then slowly forget it, after all, you also have to start a family, it's not that you want to give up, it's just that reality forces you to be so, I wish you luck!!

Let's talk about it in a few ways: First, on your side, do you want to give up? You can see it, you don't want to, since you don't want to, why should you give up? Why?

Want her to be around someone else? Are you happy then? Second, on her side, did she tell you personally?

I told you, doesn't she like you Hehe, okay, you'd better settle your own business.

Hehe, you have to work hard to find your happiness, Bin doesn't have to be her, only what suits you is the best, I wish you happiness.

Love is simple, that's all.

I didn't feel like I was divided early.

In many people's hearts, there is a person who never forgets.

Never forgetting is long-term affection, attachment, obsession, and a person's loneliness and loneliness.

Whenever the thoughts strike, those grandchildren buried in the depths of the years will reappear in their minds, as if they are watching an old movie, full of nostalgia and vicissitudes of life.

The best time in a person's life is always in the past. And in the best time, there must be a most unforgettable love.

We can't even tell whether it is because we met in the best time that we are unforgettable, or because we are unforgettable, it is the best time.

But no matter what, the person who never forgets is always the most beautiful scenery in memory.

Have you ever seriously wondered why you would be obsessed with someone?

In my opinion, the person who makes you obsessed with it has probably done these three things to you, so you can't let go.

01.It has given you a special feeling.

It feels like a very ethereal thing. Different people will give you different feelings. Some are shallow, some are profound, and some are non-feeling. And the person who can make you remember it must have given you a special feeling.

The so-called special feeling is a feeling that no one can give except him. For example, when I first saw him, I blushed and my heart beat inexplicably, or accidentally touched him, and when I was late, I felt like an electric shock.

I thought crazy when I didn't see him, and I was ecstatic when I saw him. With him, I feel happy in everything I do, and I feel happy everywhere. Holding his hand, it was as if he had the whole world, and I felt grounded and satisfied.

His embrace, like a warm and solid wall, makes you feel safe, and you are willing to sleep in his arms, even if it is for thousands of years.

In this world, no one can give you such a feeling except him. As a result, he became the most special existence in your memory.

You miss him, you miss the feeling he gives you, and you long to relive this feeling of lack of Kai Li, in the memory, in the dream.

Because I am obsessed with the feeling he gives me, I have always kept him in my heart, and when I think about it from time to time, I feel very warm and sweet.

The person who can make himself unforgettable is either in love or in love, and the first love of most people can perfectly meet these two points. The feelings when we are young are often deep in the bone marrow, in fact, they are not as beautiful as idol dramas, but in adolescence, we often share more energy and time with love, so we will precipitate in our memories. I want to forget but I can't find an exit, I want to remember but I can't find a reason, so I just sleep quietly.

I have a childhood sweetheart male classmate who grew up in close proximity to each other and often goes to and from school together. When I was young, I didn't have any early love, I just thought he was very good, whether it was his academic performance or height and appearance, I felt that I liked him very much. It's just that my liking is still more restrained, although I occasionally hear everyone joking, but I still have a good grasp of proportion.

In this way, when I reached junior high school, I studied in my home town, and he went to school in the county town, and after two years, I heard that he was not good at studying and playing games on the Internet every day, and then transferred to our school to study in the third year of junior high school, although the classes were next to each other, but I did not take the initiative to talk to him. It's like I've forgotten about it, but I still look forward to seeing him every day. It wasn't until high school that I entered another school, and because of the liberal arts and sciences, I wasn't in a class, but when we met, we started to say hello, and nothing happened, and I graduated from high school smoothly.

I had just entered my freshman year, and I went home on the National Day holiday on October 1st of that year. At night, I saw fireworks at someone's house and asked my dad why, saying that he was getting married tomorrow. I was a little surprised at the time, but I quickly fell lonely.

I have never confessed my heart to him, let alone been together in the name of love, but my heart is still empty, I thought there would be something between us, but nothing. <>

Two years ago, he contacted me on the buckle, and he didn't know how to ask about each other's current situation. He said that he now has a daughter, who is very good, and has opened his own factory in the south, and the business is not bad. Now I don't have any worthy feelings, I still think of him occasionally, although it's not love, but it's my youth.

He is very happy now, he has his own girlfriend, and he has been admitted to a good university, everything about him has nothing to do with me, but I still hope that he can be happy, after all, he is the person I loved.

The girl we chased together in those years.

The person I never forgot is now living a good life, with a much higher job income than me, and a happy married life.

Now he is still an ordinary person, getting married, having children and going to work, living an ordinary life, and looking back after so many years, he doesn't seem to have as much light as before.

The person I once thought about was already married, had children, and had my own family, so in this case, I could only like it silently in my heart, and I couldn't have any results.

The person who once thought about it is now married and has children, and he is already very happy, and looking back, he is already like a person.

He is also very good now, has a stable job, is said to have a new relationship, and is very good to each other

Now that person has married a woman who is helpful to his career as a wife, but because his wife's family thinks he is too poor and has always been unwilling to admit him, he has never had children, has his own career and family, but he is no stranger to me.

Now I don't have a heart in my heart, and I don't want to forget, of course, I still have it in high school. Now, he should be doing well, because he is a very good person.

Now he is very good, very successful, found his other half, and the two of them are very affectionate, in that girl, I see what I don't have, gentle and considerate.

That person has become a stranger to me, he fell in love and broke up, and he is still single, but I can only hide in the distance and silently follow him.

It's been so long, and it seems that there is no one left in my heart that I can't forget, so time is really a cruel blade, he can cut everything you have.

Now that guy has become my so-called best friend. It's just that she doesn't know what I'm thinking. You may know, you may be pretending to be asleep.

Actually, I don't know how he's doing now, but I think it's okay for her to live well or badly, so it won't affect me, and I won't be sad about myself.

The person I never forgot at the beginning, he had his own girlfriend, and he lived a good life, and I hated myself for not taking the initiative to take that step, maybe I took the initiative and the ending would be different.