There are some shortcomings, I can t get rid of them, I m very distressed.

You found the reason yourself, it's not that you can't change it, it's that you don't want to change it, and people who can't win against yourself can't win the world.

A person who can't let go will never be able to change these problems.

Learn to be silent, quiet, more perceptual and understanding, less angry and impetuous.

If you want to change your shortcomings and make yourself better, there must be a way.

Sometimes we know our shortcomings, why can't we change them? The reason is that we will always only blame ourselves for the shortcomings we know, and we just stay at the step of self-blame, but we don't want to change, you must be full of negative energy when you blame yourself, and the positive energy is gone when you blame yourself, how can you have the power to change your shortcomings, and it is always useless to blame yourself for your shortcomings.

The first step to change your shortcomings is to face up to your shortcomings, when you begin to face up to your shortcomings, you have to start from every step you take, don't delay the time you change your shortcomings, be decisive, since you decide to change it, you have to start doing, for example, your shortcomings are like to procrastinate, then you start from the idea that you decide to change this shortcoming, you have to start planning when you do everything, and you are used to doing everything a little bit in advance, slowly, you will find that you are procrastinating.

The shortcomings will be changed unconsciously.

Some people realize their shortcomings will find some ways to change, but not everyone has the courage, if you already know your shortcomings, but you really can't change them, but you want to make yourself better, then your only way is to magnify your advantages, try to cover up your shortcomings, after all, no one is perfect, it is true that there is no 100% perfect person in the world, everyone has shortcomings, if you are looking for your shortcomings every day, Or every day is struggling with how to get rid of this shortcoming, which is living in negative emotions every day.

When you clearly know your shortcomings, you either choose to change immediately, or choose to change immediately, if you really can't change, choose to magnify your strengths, which is also a good way.

Dare to admit it. Only by bravely recognizing and admitting one's own shortcomings can we continue to improve one's self-improvement and ability.

Be brave and face it. If we find ways to correct our shortcomings and improve our deficiencies, and make unremitting efforts to do so, our shortcomings and deficiencies will be reduced and narrowed more and more.

Be willing to endure. But sometimes some shortcomings are innate, such as physical or character defects, which requires us to correct the shortcomings and improve the deficiencies on the one hand, and on the other hand, we must be brave enough to accept ourselves, use our own methods and talents to develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, and turn disadvantages into advantages, which is dialectics and wisdom.

Good at defusing it. Some occasions are not suitable for playing to our strengths, we should try to avoid them, so that our own talents and advantages can be vividly brought into play on other occasions, so that we can effectively resolve our own shortcomings and mistakes and inner haze?

Go with the flow. As for the shortcomings that can be corrected and overcome through hard work, we must of course strive to achieve the greatest hailstorm. But at the same time, we must also face some innate and irrevocable deficiencies calmly, so that we can face life and the world firmly and optimistically.

Otherwise, the attitude of complaining about others will itself become one of our biggest shortcomings and shortcomings.