What should I do with a fatal shortcoming?

Remember character + ambition + struggle + opportunity = success!Look at what you lack, bad character, no guts, start to practice guts from now on, today can say 10 minutes of words for 7 minutes to improve, to 2 months later, you begin to be able to communicate with strangers, courage is to practice, cultivate, you have to have confidence in yourself, you don't have confidence how to practice, courage, to believe in yourself.

Try to go out on the street and talk to strangers a few times.

It can be considered a neuropathy.

But when you're looking for a job, you know that it's hard to get a good job if you don't think you're a psychopath.

Be in love, love can change everything about a person.

It's not fatal, you have to put your mind right!

I didn't dare to call strangers and teachers before, it's okay to talk face-to-face, since I worked, I have to call a lot of people, over time, I will play more, and I won't be nervous, let alone embarrassed!

I think the way to train yourself is to try boldly even if you don't dare, those who speak all day long are not all born with first-class eloquence, many of them are practiced, don't be afraid, it's okay!

Hehe. I'm pretty much like you. Not used to talking to strangers.

But these are easy things to change, friend, don't worry.

See more about"Eloquence"aspects of the book. I believe it will help you a lot. There are a lot of such books, and you can buy them anywhere.

The second is to learn more and communicate more with friends first. Then slowly get used to simple conversations with strangers. I believe that this problem will be overcome soon!

In this case, you can only work out slowly after going out of society. Some things are forced out unconsciously.

Go to the station and become a volunteer.

Or find more people to chat with, even if you are embarrassed, someone will take the initiative to talk to you, but don't bring too much money, it's not safe! Don't trust others, just chat, it's nothing!

All I can say is that the best way to do this is to relax

He should have something to hate you, and you should find a good friend of his, and he should help you.

Do you really have those shortcomings that he said? If you also feel that those are your shortcomings, then you should correct them. If you don't think you're wrong, be yourself.

If he really loved you, he wouldn't talk about you all day long, right? Doesn't he think that would hurt you a lot? Since he thinks you're so bad, why should he be with you?

It's time for you to think about it, does he really love you?

There are many reasons why you will be counted, or, you do have shortcomings, he treats you as his real own, or, he counts you down has become a habit, you might as well talk to him, there is also a situation because of low self-esteem, he will pick a bone in the egg, so that you think that you also have a lot of shortcomings, he will not be unworthy of you. It is better to talk frankly and wish you happiness

Let it go, since he said that you are not good or that is not good, why should you be together.

While changing yourself, you should also explore its shortcomings.

Ming's mouth is as powerful as a knife, and what others feel is the pain of dripping blood and permanent wounds!

Tell him that I split my legs and am pregnant, but you have to be careful with your life, the more desperate you love, the more unimaginable hatred will erupt when you are separated, ** it is safer, it is better to disappear for a while after speaking, don't let him touch your actions.

Stay away from him This kind of love can be fatal.

It's too extreme, it's not good, and it will kill you that day.

Even if these insistences will be ridiculed or misunderstood by the people on the way, and even bring pain, but I still think it is bearable and worthwhile, because from beginning to end, you listen to your heart, even if it is a bit eye-catching and out of place in the eyes of many people who have given up listening to the heart of the first book, but you are special you.

When you meet it, you meet it, have you ever wondered why you like it? Since I am willing to pay, but I didn't receive a return, the price is a little too big Love is there When you meet the right is love, what you encounter wrong is the experience I believe that after experiencing it once, your vision should be able to see a little more thoroughly, don't sacrifice anything for a one-two touch, a sentence or two of promises. Time will tell.

Take a look at it. Those who speak well must have intentions in their hearts. I'm sure you'll be fine!

Turn around and walk away for a while, and when he comes to you, he is willing to listen, and you will talk about it.

I tried my best to be happy, but the pain became more and more painful.

Don't worry, don't panic. Fate is just a pretext for people's most helpless things, feelings, after all, are not your business alone. 32 years old is indeed the age of panic for women, it is recommended that you go to some networking activities, or blind dates.

Expand the scope of communication, what is incompatible, that is an excuse for not having deep feelings. Believe in yourself, it's never your fault. Don't wait any longer for love to come, age can't afford to wait.

Be sure to expand your social circle and calm your mind I believe you will be very happy.

I admit that fortune-telling is a bit mysterious, sometimes it seems to be quite accurate, but we can't blindly really believe it, after all, it's the 21st century, it's about science, and those things that have no scientific basis should not be too superstitious. So it's better to go with the flow of your emotional problems, and there is no need to think about the fortune teller's words all day and make yourself miserable.

First of all, you have to understand that the purpose of fortune telling is to make money, and if they are really capable, they will hide from the city management every day. Secondly, marriage is a big event, no matter when you treat marriage, you must be rational, don't worry, but don't wait for fate, and work hard to actively pursue it. May you find your home soon.

You don't have to be so nervous, now there are many late marriages, many of my female friends are in their 30s before getting married, make more friends, the net is big to catch big fish, feelings sometimes don't be too attached to feelings, what is like? In fact, two people are together, the main thing is to get along, after getting along for a long time, the relationship will naturally come, and love does not have to be vigorous, since you are not married to 32, then you should think about your character, is this affecting you, because to be honest, I talked about 2 at the age of 32... There are really very few left.

Is your social circle too small?

In fact, you don't have to take it to heart, if you don't take it seriously, it's not a thing, the more you take it seriously, the more it is a thing, most of it is psychological, he can calculate some of your things, in fact, fortune tellers have read countless people, it is not difficult to guess something from your behavior and habits, don't care so much. Make more friends, pay more attention to the people around you, and maybe the best fit for you is always near you.

Fate is waiting for others to change their current situation, and if you want to change yourself, change the status quo, only you have to work hard, try to pursue

Hey, I don't know if I can get married.

But it's definitely getting harder and harder to get married.

Why don't you look to yourself for the reason?

Are you very demanding?

Everyone will find their own happiness.

Fortune telling is also just a psychological comfort and suggestion.

Don't overthink it, but you should look for it right away.

Everyone will always find their own happiness.

It's the same with you, if you look far, it's not necessarily right for you to fall in love.

There is such a thing as fortune telling, and if you don't believe it, you don't have it.

In fact, the math just tells you what might happen, and you still have a chance to reverse the outcome.

If you are now convinced that you will be single for the rest of your life and have never looked for a partner, then the result will naturally be said by the fortune teller

Why don't fortune tellers do the math for themselves? It's hard to know if he has an unhappy marriage himself, so he says the same to others, and when fate comes, he will naturally look for you, and there are women around me who have married at the age of 35, and they are happier than those who married early, and those who got married early left instead. (Why do women say they are demanding when they don't have a boyfriend?)

And what about men? What a selfish idea)

Fortune telling is fake, what he says is right whatever you think, I've seen it, it's the words of Tongyuan; I really can't find a matchmaker.

Fate, just like playing poker, is God, but how you play the cards in your hand is still up to you.

There is such a thing as fortune telling, and if you don't believe it, you don't have it.

Take a look at this.

I agree to believe in fortune, but I don't believe in fortune tellers.