How many of you are growing up slowly giving up on your dreams

In fact, in the process of growing up in life, people are constantly experiencing and transforming, so to speak, people are constantly giving up their dreams and constantly adjusting the direction of life. A person's life can only grow by constantly going through it!

In fact, everyone is the same, since childhood has their own ideals, some people fantasize about growing up to be scientists, writers, doctors, soldiers, etc., these are everyone's childhood spiritual yearning, but these ideals are only the most preliminary and simple ideals, the most naïve ideas, but when people are growing up, they are bound to experience a lot of things, experience a lot of difficulties, and at the same time, everyone's life experience is different, the education they receive is also different, plus the living environment, In fact, people have been changing in the process of growing up, constantly adjusting themselves, constantly adjusting their life direction, and constantly adjusting their dreams!

Each period of life has a specific ideal, because this has an inevitable connection with everyone's growth relationship, so when a person is constantly changing learning, constantly experiencing junior high school, high school and even university education, constantly changing the work at the same time, constantly changing the living environment at the same time, our people's thinking is also constantly changing, and the ideal is also changing, until finally find the right direction and ideal for their own life.

My dreams are changing all the time. There is only one thing that has not changed, and that is to travel in the starry sky, so I did not give up because this dream can never be realized.

1. Because of life, I don't have the ability to support myself to pursue my dreams.

2. The reason why I abandoned my dreams when I grew up was because of money in the final analysis.

3. When you grow up, you abandon your dreams, in the final analysis, because of responsibility.

Because we have grown up, so for us, we live not only for ourselves, but also for the people we love, and the people who love us, so at this time, when we have a burden in life, we choose to compromise for the sake of life, so this is also the most fundamental reason why we have chosen to abandon our dreams, and for us, the reason why most people choose to abandon their dreams is not because their dreams do not conform to reality, but because we are suppressed by society and reality.

When we grow up, most people abandon their dreams because of the reality of society, so for us, the gap between dreams and reality is very large, so we will abandon our dreams in order to survive.

Because of the pressure of life, dreams make their lives more and more difficult, and too many setbacks make me choose to give up.

When I grew up, I had to abandon my dreams because of the pressure of real life, the mortgage and car loan made me dare not let go of my work, and my children occupied my free time, so my dream has become farther and farther away from me.

When I grew up, I was defeated by reality and understood some things, so I abandoned my dreams.

When I grew up, I abandoned my dreams because of reality, knowing that my dreams could not be realized no matter what.

Before the college entrance examination, I had been working as a reporter, but when I filled in the volunteers, my parents disagreed, thinking that the girl was too tired to do this, and felt that her daughter did not have the ability to appear in the public eye. At that time, I didn't have my own ideas, but I just wanted to be a famous journalist. It is easy for the words of the outside world to be closed and washed away without self-conscious ideals.

In college, I learned my sloppy major, and I planned to take the postgraduate entrance examination in my sophomore year, starting to do projects in my sophomore year, publishing **, following my mentor to do projects, choosing schools, and picking majors, hoping to continue my studies and continue to improve myself. However, due to financial difficulties and a serious illness, my family did not agree to continue to spend time. I thought about taking out a student loan to finish my studies, but my family still couldn't understand my actions.

The family is not financially wealthy, and the family does not understand, and I have always been embarrassed by such a reality. Graduate school is not my dream, but it is what I have been working for. I can't forgive myself for being a journalist even more than I did when I gave up being a journalist.

Obviously, this path can be taken, but you are forced to compromise due to reality. Just like Zhihu three-year-old hunger Lou said, you have a sea in your heart, but the road ahead is getting narrower and narrower. Uncomfortable, uncomfortable, in addition to being uncomfortable, there is also a lot of unwillingness, unwilling to be mediocre like this, unwilling to be like this for a lifetime.

I have a friend who is a physics teacher, her hobby is poetry and literature, and it is more than enough to be a Chinese teacher at her level, I asked her why you don't want to be a Chinese teacher, but a physics teacher, and she said that if the hobby becomes a job, it will be difficult for Shenzhou to maintain the original love.

I can use my high salary to fulfill my dreams, but I will not give up my high salary for the sake of my dreams.

Unless my dreams can help me get a higher salary.

Because I know that in addition to my dreams, I also have a family, a family, and real life and firewood, rice, oil, and salt.

stick to your dream and never give up.Hold on to your dreams and never give up.