What should I do if I am newly married, what should I do when I am newly married?

You already know your mother-in-law's attitude towards you before you get married, and you still insist on getting married! If you don't even want to pay a dowry, you should understand your status in the eyes of your in-laws. To put it bluntly, the bride price is the woman's worth.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families. If you don't like his parents, don't marry him, you will always have to contact in the future, it will make you annoyed and miserable!

It is recommended not to have children for the time being, and to see how long this marriage can last! After having a baby, there will be more conflicts between you and your mother-in-law. (I'll just put it here, if you don't believe it, you can try it.)

I can't bear it for a while, don't just take your life so unexplained.

Let your husband do this, you just explain your ideas and powerful relationship with your husband, and you are not good at directly contacting their family about this matter.

If possible, do not live with an elderly person. Would you consider living with your own parents?

If you want me to say don't buy it if you don't have money, what is your husband's attitude? My situation is a bit similar to yours, just these things before marriage, but we have been married for 3 years, the relationship is very good, and we have not bought a house, the only difference is that my mother-in-law is also very good to me! So don't say it yourself or not, let your husband say, after all, it's a family, living together, and your son will definitely be more useful than you!

Let it be.

What's most important? Feelings are the most important, husbands are the most important, and family affection is the most important. The money has to go back to the back.

It's really unnecessary to be entangled for money, to be entangled in the past, and to pay off the debts after being married.

Change your mindset: be happy. Happy to spend their honeymoon, happy to take care of every day's life, happy to communicate with mother-in-law and uncle, happy to do all housework, no money to spend, calm.

Don't tell your parents about the lack of money. Aren't you just getting married? Sunshine has vitality, vitality and physical fitness, there is a way, and you can make money.

That's how housework is, don't dwell too much on it. Entanglement is to torture oneself, torture others, destroy feelings and destroy the family.

We should think of it this way, as long as the home is in the relationship, there will be bread, there will be money, there will be a house, there will be children, and there will be a car.

Don't get pregnant first, and when the financial conditions allow, it's not too late to have a child.

It seems to be very angry at first hearing, but when you look back and think about it, it is those things in life, it depends on how you look at your feelings, if the love comes first, you will acquiesce, let your husband deal with these things, if it is reasonable, you have to consider the pros and cons of these things, after all, you are now in the transition period, maybe what will happen in the future, some things can not be solved by blind tolerance, it depends on the environment at your line, we don't know the situation you are in, It's up to you to judge.

Let your husband go and tell your mother-in-law that you are going to have a child, and this is the money for the birth of the child. If your husband is in words, there will be less conflict with your mother-in-law, and you should avoid direct conflict with your mother-in-law.

Get out of the cage as soon as possible, go outside to work or rent a house, and leave them better. If it weren't for such a relationship, it would be bad to get into trouble that shouldn't have results.

I need to learn how to get along more.

Two people have just gotten married, and this needs to run in with each other almost, you should have each other's in your heart, each other's words and deeds, you can understand, communicate more, communicate more, tolerate each other, and understand each other.

Your question is more complicated! First of all, you have to make sure that you have a good relationship as husband and wife. As for the pregnancy you mentioned, see you and your wife go to your local maternal and child health hospital to listen to the experts' opinions.

It is recommended to do a pre-pregnancy physical examination, take folic acid, and actively prepare for pregnancy. Generally speaking, if there is no movement within half a year, both parties go to the hospital for a detailed examination.

Yes. It may turn out to be a more stable relationship, more stable and mutually beneficial. It may also become increasingly unfamiliar. Let's look at the joint guidance and communication between the two sides.

The newlywed is good, I want to be a model husband, and I will support you in a few tricks:

1. Don't blindly obey your wife, have a choice, and try to discuss things with each other if possible;

2. The wife and mother's family affairs are mainly her, don't interfere too much, and even take the initiative to help;

3. When your wife is sick, you must take care of it;

4. Handle the relationship between your family and your wife.

5. Spend more time with your wife.

6. Bring some small gifts and surprises on a business trip.

7. Housework must be shared.

8. Married life must be romantic (referring to sexual life).

Well, you can't do this without being exemplary. Of course, actions prove everything, you let your wife read what I wrote, because it's mutual, and you can't be the only one who pays. Wishing you happiness.