Can I not live together after getting married, and do I have to live together when I get married?

If you don't like it, why do you still marry someone! If you don't like to marry, it's not fair to you. If you are married but do not have a round house, it is still right, of course it is not illegal. Don't break someone's heart!

It's not illegal, sometimes distance is also a kind of beauty, of course, you can't get old, it's mainly up to you to control it.

Yes, just leave a seed in the future, it doesn't matter if you have to live together.

If you don't like it, why do you want to marry her, are you joking with your own happiness and that of each other? Your wife is so pitiful, I don't know what your wife thinks, how can she be willing to marry you, did you tell her before you got married that you would live separately after marriage?

Do you hate her that much? I really don't like to leave early, so as not to waste the time of both parties.

This woman who married you is so pitiful, did she know that she was going to be in this situation after marriage before she got married? If you know, I admire her; If not, I sympathize with her.

Support your own ideas.

Personally, I think it is necessary for couples to live together for a period of time before they get married. Cohabitation is an opportunity for couples to get to know each other better before entering into marriage, bringing their hearts closer and their relationships clearer. 1.

Living together before marriage, getting to know the real partner as early as possible can give each other more insight into each other before marriage, so as not to "settle accounts after marriage". After all, when you are in love, everyone is trying to disguise themselves as much as possible, and they are willing to spend money for each other or often offer courtesy, and living together before marriage can be said to simulate the situation after marriage, so that each other can have a general understanding of each other's living habits, so as not to complain after marriage that the other party does not brush their teeth at night and does not wash their feet before going to bed. 2.

Living together before marriage makes it easier to do a good job of a clear division of laborMany people will complain to me, and after getting married, they often quarrel over housework. After all, now it's not like before, women are in the hall, especially now, the improvement of women's status has made many men understand the "difficulty of housework", so that contradictions arise. As a result, many people will complain after marriage, and even divorce due to slight changes.

Living together before marriage can make everyone behave better under the "threat" of some love, but once they get married, they may have become habits, and it's too late to change them. 3.Premarital cohabitation, so that men enhance their sense of responsibility in all marriages, have to face the life of "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", plus more expenses of rent, plus the "filial piety" of both parents, calculated, it is not a small amount, these in the era of cohabitation show up, can give men greater pressure, know that love and marriage are not the same, you have to bear more realistic things, you have to pay the man's due responsibility.

There will be no embarrassing situation of supporting a wife and supporting a husband after marriage.

Before getting married, I personally think that there is no need to live together, although many couples think that before getting married, two people living together can understand each other very well, so that each other can really feel the days of two people living together, and test whether two people are really suitable for marriage together in the future and live together for a lifetime, but I personally think that if it is just for these, it is still a little hasty to choose to live together before marriage.

Even before two people get married, they should have a full understanding of each other, even if two people do not live together, then two people can understand each other's personality and whether they are really suitable for each other in the process of getting along in daily life, but if two people really choose to live together, then I personally think that there will be more problems, because when two people choose to live together before marriage, first of all, such an impact is not very good, and the parents of both parties are likely to be unacceptable. After all, our parents tend to have more traditional ideas.

On the other hand, if two people choose to live together before getting married, but in the end the two people do not come together, then the relationship is relatively harmful to the two people, especially for the woman, perhaps the impact and damage of this relationship to themselves is more far-reaching, and even will cause them to no longer believe in feelings, no longer have the idea of wanting to get married, so for young people now, I personally think that there is no need to live together before marriage, just use more timeIt is enough for two people to understand each other and communicate with each other.

There is no need to live together before marriage, there are no conditions, housing can be together.

Is it necessary to live together before marriage? I believe that the answer to this question varies greatly from person to person. To sum up, there are generally two points of view:

Proponents believe that the act of cohabitation before marriage can increase understanding between men and women, help them discover their own problems and better run in. Reduce the chance of personality and emotional discord due to ignorance.

As for the opponents, most of them stand on the woman's side. Because the woman is often in a vulnerable position in marriage and love, she is more likely to be hurt, such as unmarried pregnancy. Therefore, there is an objection to the act of cohabitation.

As a matrimonial lawyer, I believe that if the conditions are possible, it is possible to have a trial marriage before getting married. The act of cohabitation before marriage can make you recognize the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, such as certain shortcomings that you cannot bear, and can allow you to avoid a wrong marriage. And remarriage after divorce is always different from first marriage.

However, cohabitation also comes with certain risks. There are also a lot of unmarried pregnancies. Therefore, since you want to do adult things, you should have adult consciousness and responsibility.

Happiness in marriage is not achieved by "gambling". During cohabitation, the woman should learn to protect herself, and when it comes to divorce, there is no winner in the absolute sense.

I think it is necessary to live together before getting married, because eating and living together will expose each other's strengths and weaknesses, and make each other more authentic.

It is said that when you are in love, you will show your best side to each other, but once two people live together and live under the same roof, this kind of perfect performance is impossible, and both parties will inevitably expose their problems in the advancement of life, and the longer the time passes, the more thoroughly it will be exposed.

This kind of exposure of shortcomings is a good thing. Because two people get along, one person can't be disappointed and sad for the other's advantages, but will only let go because they can't stand each other's shortcomings.

It's better to find out about problems early before marriage and then find solutions than to complain about each other for such trivial matters after marriage. And think about these advantages and disadvantages as soon as possible, whether you can accept each other 100%, whether his advantages can make his shortcomings negligible, and know that the marriage road in the next few decades is by no means guaranteed for a lifetime on impulse, but must be maintained through a long period of tolerance, patience and change. Therefore, if the two are honest with each other before marriage, this will also save them from worries in the future.

Nowadays, most of the most men and women do is to go shopping, watch movies, and there are actually very few opportunities to really live with each other, but it is not the same before marriage, your most simple appearance after removing makeup, and his most sloppy appearance on the weekend are exposed in front of each other, even eating, drinking, and sleeping with each other are carried out under each other's noses, in addition to getting along with colleagues and others every day, the most contact is each other, so, this kind of family-style getting along is a way to better understand a person, so, I am in favor of the idea of cohabitation before marriage.

It is necessary, but there are several requirements that have been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the way the two parties squeeze toothpaste is different, one squeezes from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things like sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often being called out by friends to drink and coming back unconscious and incapable of doing anything other than vomiting, are you okay with all of this?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.