My boyfriend who has known me for a short time proposes to live together, what should I do, please g

Updated on society 2024-05-29
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you love you, you should respect your choice.

    Accommodation is not love.

    Compromise does not bring happiness.

    Think about it. Although this society is quite realistic now.

    But it doesn't mean to be with him.

    is against his own principles.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Think twice, in fact, now the weight of your relationship is in your own hands, and after you give it to him, the weight is in his hands, and now you are not like that, he just said it so casually to break up, and after you gave everything to the other party, he proposed to you to break up, and you regretted it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It can be seen that you are a relatively docile girl

    How long has this guy been with you?

    You say you like him a lot, but what about him?

    He doesn't even care about the reason you say for refusal, to put it bluntly, I believe he doesn't really love you, if he loves you, he can tolerate everything for you, don't be stupid, he can even say it by the way, you still care about him so much? Like a person who is not like this

    Even without him, I'm sure there's something better in front of you.

    If he dares to say points, you have to dare to say that they are scattered!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sober up! Breaking up with you for this reason, does he really love you? If a man really loves you, will he be in such a hurry? Sooner or later it won't be his! I don't advocate reconciliation unless he wants to reconcile first!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell him to fuck off, be careful, it's a brute!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't say yes, that guy just wants to do it purely. And then it's over.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divide it! If it's because you didn't give him the breakup, it's not worth dwelling on anymore! Of course, this is my personal opinion, and it is mainly up to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As soon as we got together, my boyfriend proposed to live together, and I don't think I would agree!

    There are three reasons for this:

    The first point, first of all, as soon as we got together, my boyfriend proposed to live together, and I don't think I would agree. I felt like I wasn't spending enough time with my boyfriend long enough for me to live with my own boyfriend because as girls we were a vulnerable group.

    We must learn to protect our own lives. Even if the other party is his boyfriend, but because he doesn't know each other very well, he just got together, so we don't need it at all. Because of some excessive reasons of the boy, he agreed to live with the boy.

    This is also irresponsible for ourselves. So as soon as we got together, my boyfriend proposed to live together, and I didn't think I would agree.

    The second point, and secondly, that we proposed to live together as soon as we were together, I don't think we need to agree. Because we all said that we just got together and we didn't know each other very well, in such a situation, we have to be skeptical when we propose to live together. They asked him why he was raising the issue of cohabitation.

    You have to tell him clearly that we can't live with him, and if he gets angry with us because of this, or breaks up with him because of it, then we will recognize him in time. If he can accept and comfort us with peace of mind, then it also means that this boy is still okay. So as soon as we got together, my boyfriend proposed to live together, and I didn't think I would agree.

    Thirdly, as a girl, we are responsible for our own safety. Even if the other person is our boyfriend, we have to keep a certain distance. Because there are too many girls who are hurt because they can't grasp the distance from boys.

    If you can't control the distance between yourself and the boy, then the girl who is hurt is very likely to become herself. So in order not to worry about our parents, and for our own safety, we must grasp the distance with the boy, just after we get together, the boyfriend proposes to live together, and we must not agree.

    That's why my boyfriend proposed to live together just after we got together, and I don't think I would agree.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will never agree to live together, no matter how long we have been together, I will never agree to live together until we get married. A girl should keep her reserved, understand the importance of the first time, and give her husband the first time and give her the most love. If you don't cherish the first time you give it to your husband, your husband will definitely dislike you in the future.

    In fact, now that this boyfriend is going to marry you in the future, I don't think he will pay much attention to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No. Because we haven't been very familiar with each other since we first got together, and I'm more conservative, I won't agree.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I will definitely not agree, girls should love themselves well, you can't see this boy's heart clearly, so you must stick to your bottom line, he may not cherish you after living together, so love yourself well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, it won't. It is irresponsible to yourself to do this, and it does not do you any good, so you must not agree to it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I won't agree, I think I'll think about whether this boyfriend really loves me anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you progress very quickly in your love life, I don't think it's conducive to emotional stability.

    So the two of them have just been together for a short time, and the advice given is not to live together, because it is a particularly disadvantageous thing for girls.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You think about the consequences, do it if you think it's worth it, and don't do it if you don't think it's worth it.

    Did you save some money for yourself before living together?Because it's possible for a man to just go.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Premarital cohabitation has always been a controversial topic, some people think that girls should not live with boys before marriage, because that will make others feel too casual, and some people think that girls must live with their marriage partners for a period of time before marriage, so that they can meet the real person in life. So can the object of love for half a year live with him?

    If both of you are still students, it is best not to choose to live together after knowing each other for half a year. Because the main responsibility of students is to study and study, it is the freedom of two people to fall in love at the age of 18, but if they live together, they are bound to move out of their dormitory and live in a rented house, most of the students have no income, and the life is all funded by their parents, which means that two people choose to rent a house, that is, the parents spend money for you to eat, drink and have fun, and the hard-earned money of your parents, you don't have to spend on studying, don't you feel sorry for your parents when you spend on some unnecessary expenses? Also, if the girl accidentally gets pregnant, how should the two students who have not yet graduated face this kind of problem, and how much impact will this situation have on the girl's body and mind?

    Therefore, if both of you are students, it is recommended to wait until after graduation to consider cohabitation.

    If two people have already worked, they can definitely live together after knowing each other for half a year, but the premise should be that girls should have a certain understanding and understanding of boys, and two people cannot be in different places for a long time, although you have known each other for half a year, it seems that it is a long time, but you have not had long-term contact and understanding of each other. Moreover, if you choose to live together, girls should also learn to protect themselves, take measures to prepare for pregnancy in both sex life, and do not get pregnant unexpectedly due to negligence, which will cause a lot of harm to their body and psychology.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You shouldn't agree, because two people have only been in love for half a year, so they don't know each other very well, and don't agree to each other's request for cohabitation, otherwise you will regret it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You shouldn't agree, the time between two people is still relatively short, and if you really agree to live together, it is very likely that you will be hurt a little.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It should not be promised. In this case, you must be cautious, don't live with the other party casually, otherwise you will suffer the loss.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you should refuse, two months is still a short time, you haven't really gotten to know each other yet, and all kinds of dangers can happen if you live together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should refuse, such a man doesn't really love you, he just wants to get you, and if you agree, he won't cherish you anymore.

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