I didn t get along well with my classmates when I was air

People are self-interested, even if you don't believe in it, you have to think about it that way, your classmates alienate you because you don't have much value to him, if you are rich, and your classmates value what you have, then it's called value, of course, money is only a factor, there are many others, so you have to find a breakthrough, but you also have to think about how much value it is to you to get along with your classmates, if you get more than you pay, then you should think about it!

I don't know if it's your own cause or someone else's cause, so I think the first thing you need to do is think carefully about what caused this result. And then there is to find an opportunity to communicate for any reason, in fact, many of them are caused by misunderstandings, so it is great to be able to communicate things clearly.

The following remarks are a summary of my experience in making friends:

Make a friend of dog meat to take advantage of it and treat it leniently.

Make ordinary friends and vote for virtue and treat them peacefully.

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy.

Finally, I would like to send you a sentence, "being able to detach and be able to merge is a great virtue." (Make friends, life, and do things according to their intentions, taste it carefully!) ）

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy. Remember this sentence! I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make.

Because they feel that you are taking them as air ...

It's normal, right?

In fact, character determines life.

1. Strengthen exchanges.

A good relationship between classmates depends on mutual understanding, and in order to understand each other, it is necessary to strengthen communication, strengthen communication in terms of ideas and attitudes, and engage in more social activities in spare time, such as playing ball, chess, outings, etc., to enhance understanding and friendship.

2. Care for others.

The more you care about others, the more necessary you will be in her life, and naturally she will turn to care for you, and once you care for each other, the relationship between classmates will naturally be close.

3. Be tolerant of others.

No one is perfect", anyone always has shortcomings, and will always do wrong things, these are normal and inevitable, you can have a tolerant attitude towards others' shortcomings and mistakes, don't care, others will be grateful and willing to communicate with you.

4. Self-improvement.

Most of the people who have a tense relationship with classmates have some problems in their personality and habits, and they should deliberately change their bad character and habits to do:

1) The clothing is neat and beautiful. 2) Get used to smiling. 3) Pay attention to the way the wheeler speaks and behaves. 4) Don't be fooling yourself. 5) Help others. 6) Be good at complimenting others.

If in interpersonal communication, everyone is keen to praise others, good at praising others' strengths, then the interpersonal pleasure will be greatly enhanced, and at the same time pay attention to praise others does not mean that you can have no scruples, should abide by two principles: first, praise should be sincere, the content of the praise should be the other party does have or will have the good qualities and characteristics; Second, the content of the compliment should be understood by the other party.

5. Keep an appropriate distance.