If you spend money on your beloved man and live with him as the center, is this considered normal?

Updated on society 2024-05-27
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, I am a woman.

    I think it's understandable for women to spend money on the men they love, and no one in this society has stipulated that men must support women, after all, men are now under increasing pressure. But if, as you said, spending a lot of money, or even living with him as the center of this life, I think it's still a bit too much. First of all, you have to be yourself, you have to know how to love yourself, so that you can know how to love others well.

    Let's not say that there are no problems between you now, and you are going to get married, but what about later? If you have too much of him in your heart, chances are you'll be very clingy to him, and he'll find it hard to breathe one day.

    Isn't it said that distance produces beauty? It's better to loosen it up so that you can develop the joy of being independent and not make him feel compulsive. How nice.

    As for money, it is spent when it is spent, and if he really needs it, he should give it to him, remembering that it is in the name of love, and no one will laugh at it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Look at the flowers, for example, if it is a business not a play, it is naturally worth it, and you are creating more wealth to pave the way for the foundation and development of love. My girlfriend spends money for me, and first of all, she is happy in her heart, provided that the money is spent on ideas.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. This man is very dependent, and a man can accept a woman's money with peace of mind and has little backbone. Such a man is not worthy of a woman's reliance.

    Second, a man with a little self-esteem will not spend a woman's money so readily.

    3. A man who loves you will only make money for you to spend, and even if you have money, he will plan and plan your future.

    Fourth, a woman always gives money to a man to spend, which will promote him to develop good and bad habits.

    So be cautious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Actually, it's good.,But I feel that such a woman is still too strong.,Over time.,Men will be pressured.,Maybe even feel guilty because of their limited ability.。。 And women can also have a certain sense of imbalance at some point. Harmony is still the ultimate thing, love is mutual, and too single will still produce some trouble

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Women should be independent, love is just a part of your life, it doesn't matter where the money is in your hands, the key is that you live with your own goals, live for his various things, isn't there too much things he carries?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is not measured by money. And winning the favor of men is the stupidest way to do it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, the question of spending money should be fair in nature. Both girls and boys should respect and insist on their financial independence and not rely on each other excessively. But at the same time, it is very normal for partners to help each other.

    It is understandable and acceptable for a girl to spend the boy's money on some special occasions such as birthdays, anniversaries, special events, etc., if the girl needs the boy's help. However, the girl should have a bottom line in her heart, not overly dependent on the boy's financial support, and do not spend his money indefinitely.

    In the process of love, each other should respect each other, treat each other as equals, regardless of gender, should insist on equal rights and obligations, and should also have the same role economically. Therefore, if one party is in financial difficulties and needs financial support, both parties should communicate on an equal footing and find a suitable solution, rather than unilaterally relying on the other party's financial support.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course not, men spend a lot of money, some people have a hundred roses and only give you one, and some people only have one and want to give you a hundred.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In a relationship, when we really like someone, we will be willing to give everything we have to him, as long as the other person can stay by our side, basically let us do anything for the other person.

    It is said that talking about money hurts feelings, but in today's materialistic world, if we don't explain the problem of money to each other, we will have pimples in each other's hearts, and it is better to calculate everything clearly.

    Now we can all be alone in the relationship, and there is no need to be reluctant to part with anyone because of money, although sometimes we still take the initiative to spend money to buy something for our lover, but this is only our heart for each other.

    Men are generally very concerned about their lovers' thoughts in their relationships, as long as the person they love wants something, even if they borrow money themselves, they will do it for the other party, because they don't want to see their lover's disappointment.

    They won't let you worry about money.

    In today's crazy society, we can't do anything without money, so we usually care about our own expenses, whether they are used in important places, after all, no one wants to see their hard-earned money not fully utilized.

    Men are originally relied on by women in relationships, and if we usually can't even afford to give each other women's expenses, I think we ourselves will feel very uncomfortable, because as long as we are a man, we don't want to see our women wronged.

    A man who really loves you, they will never let you worry about money, even if he goes out to borrow money, he will let you live without worry, so that you can hold your head high in front of others, and you will never be bullied by others.

    They like to give you what they think is the best.

    When everyone meets the person they love, they will use their own way to pamper each other, tolerate each other, so that the other party can live happily ever by their side, and in it we should all give each other small gifts.

    Because usually when we go shopping, we always think about the person we love the most, and whenever we see something suitable for each other, we will generally buy it for each other, just so that the other party can feel happy at the moment of receiving the gift, and we can feel happy enough.

    As long as you can be by his side, money doesn't matter.

    If you really love someone, we will try our best to keep each other by our side, even if the other party doesn't love us in their hearts, they are just with us because of some material conditions, and we are willing to make more money for each other.

    Because as long as the person you love can be by your side, some other external things are not important in our hearts, after all, compared with the feeling of happiness, we can give up things like money.

    Some women think that as long as the other party loves them enough, it is enough, and they don't need the other party to spend much money for themselves, but if the other party is not willing to spend any money for you, I think everyone will think about whether the other party has taken themselves to heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

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    And now, when women are so independent that they don't even want to get married, most of them will measure a relationship with money and love, such as: either give me a lot of love, or give me a lot of money.

    If neither the spirit nor the material is satisfied, then why should I start this relationship? However, for a truly mature relationship, money and love alone are not enough, you should understand a little more and a little deeper. For example, talking about money doesn't hurt feelings, but things that hurt feelings are not talking about money and only talking about money.

    Therefore, the man who refuses to spend money on you must not love you; But the man who will only stuff you with a lot of money is probably not really in love with you either.

    In any relationship, money is very important, but money is only a tool, not the only bargaining chip to maintain love. If he only spends money on you but does not understand your joys, sorrows, sorrow

    A man who truly loves and understands his woman will not turn a relationship into a transaction that only gives you money without considering your feelings. Instead, he will meet the bitter and sweet of life with the woman he loves.

    In people's minds, men are responsible for earning money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers, and this seemingly natural truth has now become shaky. Because, the relationship between two people is equal and win-win, rather than relying on symbiosis. In fact, men and women should go out to earn money, and then share the bitterness and twists and turns of earning money together, and share the joy and joy of spending money together.

    Some people say that the true meaning of feelings is: spend money together when you have time, and spend time together when you have money. To put it bluntly, a man who truly loves you is not only willing to spend money on you, but also willing to spend time on you.

    He knows how to use money to create a sense of security for you, and he is willing to spend time weaving romance for you. This kind of relationship is the real maturity. Such a man is worthy of your life.

    Of course, love is a matter of two people. If you want a man to have the ability to earn money and make you look beautiful, and have enough time to live with you, then you should understand his hard work and difficulty.

    At the same time, you should also demand that you do better and more perfectly. Comparing your heart to your heart will make your relationship go further. Otherwise, when everything turns into wishful thinking, even if you go through many tribulations, you will inevitably fall apart in the end.

    So, be a wise woman: be able to see both your true desires and the thoughts of men. Only in this way will you be able to distinguish in the vast sea of people who is the one who loves you the most.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The mere fact that any man, even if he is the loveliest of men, is enough to keep him from being loved by a woman for a long time, as long as he uses money to make love;

    Sometimes you can't just spend money to determine whether this man loves you in his heart, those who are willing to spend money for you may not love you, and those who are not willing to spend money will definitely not love you in their hearts;

    To confirm whether a man has you in his heart, it is necessary to observe from the little events in life, whether he has anything to do with your life status, whether he understands your current work status, whether he has a clear physical state, what you like to eat, what you can't eat, and other details can be seen, not from money.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not necessarily. There are a lot of men who spend money for you, and there are very few men who love you, because spending money is a courtesy exchange but not the rhythm of loving you, and the people who love you will be willing to accompany you in your life.

    The person who loves you is also willing to spend money for you, and you don't need to exchange courtesies if you love him, the world of love is a consensual life, who is also a destined person, and will not be more serious for the economy.

    Falling in love will spend each other's minds, intentional dating will create a sense of existence in the relationship world, and a girl's achievement in the world of spending money can best understand which people love your workplace world and which people love you as the world.

    Only one person loves you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, if a man is willing to spend money for you, they mean that the man loves you very much, because money is very important for everyone, and it is becoming more and more difficult to make money nowadays.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A man who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily have true love for you, sometimes in order to spend money, in order to get what you want, so spending money is just a short-term behavior, if you really love your man, you still have to find out from his feelings for you.

    If a relationship is just to prove his existence with money, this relationship can't last too long, because the real relationship still needs the two to treat each other sincerely and honestly, and the relationship bought with money is not reliable, so a man who is willing to spend money for you does not mean that he really likes you, but he just thinks that he can quickly get your heart with money and get what he wants.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A man who is willing to spend money for you doesn't necessarily love you in his heart, he just has other plans. If he's willing to put his mind to you, it means that he cares about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily, because if a woman is too beautiful, the man may spend money on this woman because of her beauty, in order to be with you as soon as possible, in fact, he doesn't love you very much in his heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes. My boyfriend loves me very much, and he is willing to buy me all his money, which is a way for him to show his love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, most men can consume for the people they like, only if they identify you, then it will be for your good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is a man's willingness to spend money for you a sign of love for you? Emotional mentors tell you to stop being deceived.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You and your boyfriend have been dating for 4 months, so long time to get along with the relationship between two people should develop very deeply, it is normal for a pair of lovers to buy some gifts for each other, especially the boyfriend should be more active in this regard, buy more things for your girlfriend is supposed to, you should never worry about your girlfriend, you just don't give it to others, but your own girlfriend, men should be open-minded and generous in this regard, the more you pay, the more you can get your girlfriend's true love!

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