Are men willing to spend money on themselves, and what do you think about this?

I think most men are more economical in spending money on themselves, and they are particularly willing to spend money on their relatives and lovers.

Most of them spend money on people who like, respect, and love, such as parents, lovers, and children. Then there is the so-called social spending that is not allowed in society, and most of them don't spend any money, and most of the men who are well-dressed, clean and tidy are cooking with a good wife behind them. A man's money is given to his wife, and the wife is not only wiped on his face but also decorated on his husband's body.

Women are the ones who please themselves. Men are paid as rewards for themselves.

People who know how to spend money also know how to make money, because this money is living money. People who don't know how to spend money don't know how to make money, because this money is dead money. Of course, men are willing to spend money for themselves, and the self here contains two meanings, one is to spend directly on themselves, such as dressing and eating, smoking and drinking.

The second is to spend it indirectly on oneself, such as a wife and children are one's own extension. It's normal for legitimately earned money to be used in a reasonable place. However, some men make money and spend everything without regard for their parents and family, which is unreasonable. ‍‍

I think it depends on the person, it depends on the matter. But if a man gets married and has children, and spends money on himself, and is willing to sprinkle gold on himself, but he is not willing to give up on his wife and children, then such a person is really full of selfishness and stinginess, and has no responsibility! But my husband is not the kind of person, he is more willing to his wife and children than himself, but to outsiders, then he can really be less.

Let's call him selfish and stingy, he has a piece, eight points for his wife and children, and the last two points for himself; It's not right to say that he is not selfish and stingy, classmates and friends reunions can be exempted, and he blindly adheres to the AA system. Others think he is petty and selfish, but in our eyes, it is all love. ‍‍

Everyone's living habits, personal background, hobbies, etc., are different, and his consumption concepts and consumption habits are also different. Everyone has the right to choose how they consume, the difference is how they consume, when, where they consume, and with whom. However, most men now consume very rationally, and there are few cases of "impulsive" consumption.

After all, it is not easy to make money, and it does not mean that for some of his own "desires", he disregards the basic maintenance of his family and daily life. ‍‍

Most men, whether they have money or not, buy things generously, and generally do not give others a price, but there are also some successful men, they know that it is not easy to start a business, so they spend money more planned, what should be bought must be bought, and what should not be bought, resolutely do not buy. ‍‍

Like my husband, before he got married, he was very willing to spend money for himself, as long as he wanted, he would try to save money, in 2006, he spent money to buy a desktop computer. At the beginning, his salary was only more than 2,000, so he saved money for several months to buy a computer. This is a problem of consumption concept, he will buy what he thinks he needs, and of course he will not buy it if he doesn't need it. ‍‍

The concept of consumption is different from person to person, regardless of whether it is a man or a woman. For example, when you don't have money, you can't buy something you like. I'm a middle-aged man, too, even if I like it, as long as the price is beyond my affordability, I won't buy it. ‍‍

Home-based men are very economical in spending money, and they will save more money than girls, because they are under greater pressure of responsibility, and most of men's minds are in their careers, which is different from us girls. But some men also spend lavishly, this kind of person has a good face, and if he has money, he wants to dress well, eat and drink well, and use the best to improve his self-confidence.

This thing varies from person to person, for example, my husband is very willing to spend money on me and my children, he is very frugal when he buys things by himself, but some men are more selfish, willing to spend money on themselves, not willing to spend money on others.

To see a man's success, first of all, to see whether his living atmosphere is family harmony, neighborly harmony, whether he has love, a sense of responsibility, if he tends to be true, good and beautiful, then every penny he spends will be a garden dance of love. Either you have money and can't hide your arrogance and fearlessness, and the scenery is bright after self-expansion, you can only satisfy your own desires.

No, I am generally reluctant to buy clothes for myself, as long as I pay my salary, I buy them for my girlfriend, and I am happy when she is happy.

I have a different opinion, I am willing to spend money on children and the elderly to buy things, but I am not willing to spend money on myself, a down jacket has been worn for 3 years and is reluctant to change, the basketball shoes under the soles of the feet are issued by the company 2 years ago, I was going to buy a pair of double 11, but it was too expensive to see it, and I was not willing to buy it.

No, my dad doesn't spend money often, and his Guangzhou is in charge of my mom. But I think it's normal for men to spend money on themselves.

I think so, especially in shoes, electronics, almost all the boys around me are like that.

It may be that the other party has no money, or it may be that the other party is a little worried, does not trust you, treats you as a spare tire, and does not treat you as a wife.

You have to accept the fact that he doesn't love you, doesn't want to spend money on you, thinks you don't deserve it, doesn't take you to heart, that's the truth.

A man who is reluctant to spend money for you must not love you, he wants to spend money on others, and he doesn't like you, so he will be particularly stingy with you and especially stingy with you.

When a man really loves you, he is willing to spend money on you, and he is willing to buy something you like to give to you.

And a man will only be reluctant to spend money on you when he doesn't love you, and in his opinion, you are not the person he loves the most, so there is no need to spend money on you.

In the eyes of many people, even if they spend money, they will spend it on those who really care, and those who don't care, they are naturally unwilling to spend money.

When a man is willing to spend money on you, it means that he loves you, and because he loves you, he is willing to spend money on you, while a man who is not willing to spend money on you is more because he doesn't love you.

The second reason: you are not the person he wants to marry.

For a man, the most important person is the person he wants to marry, and he wants to marry someone because he loves him enough, and when a man loves a woman enough, he is willing to give you anything.

They will even worry that they will not give you enough friends, but if they don't love you enough, they will naturally be unwilling to spend money on you.

In fact, you can pay attention to observe that those women who are reluctant to spend money by men are all broken up in the end, and the women who are willing to spend money by men have come to the end and even got married.

After all, no man will choose someone he doesn't love, he will choose someone he doesn't like, and once a man is unwilling to spend money on you, it means that the other party does not treat you as the other half.

If you really treat you as the other half, don't say that you will spend money, and even his bank card will give you, only if you don't treat you as the other half, you will be reluctant to spend money on you.

Maybe a man who is willing to spend money on you does not necessarily love you, but a person who is reluctant to spend money on you must not love you, so as a woman, you must understand.

When talking about money in front of love, it is easy to be talked about by others. But when everyone has already heard about love, can feelings without material conditions really last long? Does a man who doesn't want you to spend money really love you?

I have experienced a couple, the relationship between the two is quite good, and the man is willing to take care of his girlfriend when they get along. There is one thing that my girlfriend is particularly concerned about, that is, her boyfriend is stingy on weekdays, and he is reluctant to spend money on him, and he is only willing to spend money for himself. She complained to her best friend about this kind of thing twice, and every time her best friend persuaded her to think about this relationship again, she convinced herself that she felt that she liked her boyfriend, and she shouldn't care so if she didn't spend money.

Gradually, she became accustomed to this form of coexistence. One year during the Spring Festival, since the two had been together for a long time, she hoped that her boyfriend could meet her parents. Of course, when you go to see the old man, you have to bring some gifts, and her boyfriend prepared them in advance, but after the meeting, he gave her a shopping list and asked him to return the money he spent.

She was puzzled at the time, but her boyfriend's reason was that the gift was bought for his parents, so she should spend money.

Once again, she persuaded herself that she didn't care if she didn't care about money, the most important thing was this person. But before the two were together, she suddenly found that her boyfriend had changed. used to take care of his boyfriend, but now he doesn't even take care of him.

The two of them went shopping together before, and although her boyfriend didn't spend money on her, he would help carry heavy things when he bought them. On weekdays, if something breaks down in her house, she can't figure it out, and her boyfriend will help him fix it.

But now, my boyfriend doesn't even want to do this. Her boyfriend said that she should carry the things she bought. What belongs to her should be settled by herself.

After that, she didn't think it through until the two broke up. A man who is not willing to let you spend money, the cost of falling in love is indeed very low. Maybe he wants to take care of you for a while and spare some strength, but your position in his heart, at least not as important as his own key, and not as important as money.

This kind of emotion is indeed unreliable.

It is true that you can't be too material in your relationship, after all, love refers to feelings, not money. But it is true that you can't be a man who doesn't want to invest in you without chemicals at all, and in his heart, your necessity is obvious. Money may not mean affection, but it is clear that you have always been in the other party's heart.

A person who needs to spend all his money on himself, and who is reluctant to spend even a few dollars on you, can you firmly believe that he really loves you?

I think he doesn't love you with such a man, and if a man is not even willing to spend money for you, then he can only pretend to love you.

If he is only willing to spend money on himself and not for you, it shows that he does not love you at all, and he only loves himself.

Men are reluctant to spend money on women for a variety of reasons, such as financial pressure, different values, self-esteem, etc. Here are some possible workarounds:1

Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with the man to understand his views and attitudes towards this phenomenon. Maybe it's because he thinks women should be self-reliant, or because he's not doing well financially.

Through communication, it is possible to better understand his thoughts and feelings, and find a solution to the problem. 2.Respect for his thoughts:

If a man is reluctant to spend money on a woman because of different values, then his ideas need to be respected. You can communicate with him and find a balance that is acceptable to both parties. A man can be asked to take on some other responsibilities, such as housework, taking care of children, etc., to make up for his reluctance to spend money on women.

3.Build trust: If a man is reluctant to spend money on a woman because of self-esteem or other reasons, then trust needs to be built.

It is possible to make a man feel worth and important by praising and encouraging him, thereby improving his self-confidence and self-esteem. At the same time, through his actions and words, he can feel your support and trust in him. 4.

Joint planning: You can work with men to make a common plan, including economic, life, work, etc. It allows the man to understand your thoughts and needs, while also understanding his thoughts and needs, and to find a way that is acceptable to both parties.

According to the actual situation, a reasonable budget and plan can be formulated to ensure that the quality of life and financial situation can be guaranteed. 5.Share financial responsibility:

It can involve a man in the planning and management of family finances, so that he can feel the responsibility and importance of self-sufficiency. You can communicate with him regularly about your financial situation and make decisions on important financial matters, such as buying a house, investing, etc. Make a man feel his contribution and influence, thereby increasing his economic self-confidence and sense of responsibility.

It is important to note that everyone's situation is different and measures need to be taken accordingly on a case-by-case basis. Whatever approach is taken, there needs to be respect for the man's thoughts and feelings, while also being concerned about the economic situation and quality of life of both parties. If the man's attitude has seriously affected the relationship and life of both parties, then consider seeking professional counseling and help to solve the problem.