How can a mother take her child to the river and cause her own death?

On August 2, a distressing accident occurred in Xincai, Henan. At around 3 p.m., a mother took her two sons to catch fish and play by the river, but one of the children accidentally fell into the water, and the child's mother accidentally slipped into the river because she was eager to save her son. With the help of the courier brother who happened to pass by, the child was rescued by the mother who was lifted in the river and the well-wishers on the shore, but then, the mother sank instantly, and when she was salvaged, she had no vital signs.

The mother drowned to save her son, and the child cried"Mom, I was wrong"After the incident, the child's father rushed to the scene, and the two children sat on the side of the road with their father in their arms and cried. The family and the children are in pain, but there is no way to start the matter again. Tragedy has already happened.

One can imagine how much damage the world will cause to children's psyche. <>

At this time, we need to enlighten the child, so how should we enlighten the child? When a child is frustrated, he or she will feel depressed, fearful, and helpless. Parents should enlighten their children and let them learn to be calm.

When the child is depressed, parents can take the child to the park, take a walk, etc. to relieve the depressed mood. In the early stage, try to avoid letting your child think about these things, and avoid them. Because these can affect a child's whole life.

Parents can talk to their children first. As a parent, you can't blindly blame your child for this kind of thing. Of course, it cannot be said that you can avoid problems by being young and ignorant.

What parents should do is to guide their children to do the right thing and let them know what is right and what is wrong. Distinguish between normal fear and emotional pathology. This is mainly to see whether the content of the child's fear is appropriate to his age, whether the fear persists for a long time, and whether the child is becoming more and more timid.

Parents should overcome their own excessive worries and blame for their children, or lack of care and other shortcomings, so that when children are afraid, they should give care and guidance with a positive attitude and way, so that children can get healthy physical and mental development in the process of overcoming many fears.

First, don't let your child feel guilty, because such emotions can bring a shadow for a lifetime, so you can tell your child that it is not his fault. Second, by diverting attention, let the child not be immersed in sadness for a long time, and take him out for a walk. Third, always observe the child's behavior, communicate patiently, and pay attention to any abnormality.

It is necessary to comfort the child and let the child not blame the child too much. Such children are psychologically easy to accept and can accept well.

I think one is that I should try to accompany my children as much as possible, once I find that my children have any depressed, fearful, and helpless emotions, they should be guided in time, and at the same time, they should also lead by example and be a person who can face difficulties calmly.

The death of the mother brings a certain psychological burden to the child, and the father must do a good job in the psychological work of the child. The first is to tell the child not to blame himself too much, there are accidents everywhere in life, and the second is to tell the child to be careful in the future and not to come to such a dangerous place to play.